Not going to lurk anymore

Noahsmommy1
Noahsmommy1 Posts: 33
edited 8:45AM in Introduce Yourself
Hey everyone,

I have decided to step out of the shadows as I joined up a few weeks ago but have just been reading the message boards and blogs. I am a 32 year old mom of a wonderful 7 year old boy and I work full time. I was always just slightly overweight growing up but still in the normal category. I went back to college when my son was 2 and now have a desk job and the pounds crept up on me. I had a couple of very humbling experiences that caused me to decide to lose weight.

#1. Back in June, a group of teenage boys were behind me in the drive thru of McDonald's. They put down their windows and were making cat calls, laughing and making fun. By the time I got up to the window to pay, I was crying. The cashier even had to comment to them that they better watch it or he will spit in their food.

#2. My son says that he doesn't want me to get sick.

So that's my story...I started this journey at 247 and as of today I have lost 8 lbs.

Please feel free to add me as I would love to have new friends to keep eachother on track!!! :smile:
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  • Woodmangler
    Woodmangler Posts: 96 Member
    Welcome! :happy:
  • mirandaallyn
    mirandaallyn Posts: 39 Member
    People can be so cruel. I had two guys outside my apartment building shout comments about me being fat a few weeks ago. Totally pissed me off since I'd lost 10lbs in 3 weeks! But all that matters is that you're changing for YOU and for your son. Good luck on your journey :] feel free to add me!
  • Noahsmommy1
    Noahsmommy1 Posts: 33
    People are cruel!!! These kids were 17 and 18...my son is only 7 and he treats people a lot better than that!!!!!
  • ChelleFeegan
    ChelleFeegan Posts: 80 Member
    Welcome honey :)
  • CrazyAnne
    CrazyAnne Posts: 217 Member
    Welcome! Would love to add you as a friend.
    CrazyAnne
  • christie5683
    christie5683 Posts: 38
    Good for you...taking control. Keep it up; you'll be happy you did :)
    Lots of support here friend
  • Discoveri
    Discoveri Posts: 435 Member
    Welcome! I also started at 247 pounds (I'm 5ft 9in). Please make sure you take measurements and before pictures! You are going to love seeing the changes your body goes through! Good luck!
  • Noahsmommy1
    Noahsmommy1 Posts: 33
    Thanks everyone!!!!!
  • rukus1
    rukus1 Posts: 112
    I started at 240. 5'10. You have a great reason to get into shape! Good luck on your journey. Add me if you wish.
  • adrushe
    adrushe Posts: 25
    People can be so cruel. Please ignore those ignorant teenagers. They had no idea how their actions can impact someone, they are disrespectful. Karma can be cruel too, so they will get what is coming to them.

    Feel free to add me if you want, I am always looking for new friends and motivation! :smile:
  • meglet175
    meglet175 Posts: 98
    Cruel words from a bunch of insecure jerks. The only opinions that should truly matter are from those who love and respect you:love: - life's too short to worry about the others. I'm sending a friend request. I'm new to MFP, too, and am also a chubby momma hoping to take better care of myself.
  • jcjammin
    jcjammin Posts: 26 Member
    Good luck on your journey!
  • laurie0507
    laurie0507 Posts: 92 Member
    Welcome! I can not believe how mean some people are.. Good luck, and feel free to ad me!
  • Noahsmommy1
    Noahsmommy1 Posts: 33
    Well to be honest...even though what they said was mean and totally uncalled for, i decided to take something positive from it and I decided that I couldn't deny just how big I was after getting and decided it was time to change. I was just the kick in the butt I needed to finally be honest with myself!
  • seabreeze2012
    seabreeze2012 Posts: 9
    I am with you. Feel free to add me as a friend:)
  • Coco_UK
    Coco_UK Posts: 84 Member
    Oh hon, so sorry to hear that happened to you!!

    I grew up getting that type of abuse so it really resonated when I read your message.

    Feel free to add me and welcome out of the lurking place! :-)
  • Feisty_Red
    Feisty_Red Posts: 982 Member
    I have no words that are clean in my feelings on your little incident! :mad:

    Welcome! and great going on making the first step! thats the hardest part!!!
  • Feisty_Red
    Feisty_Red Posts: 982 Member
    oh..and PS PS PS!!! Take pictures of yourself.. I am kicking myself in the butt now for not doing that..I would hide from the camera! You will thank yourself later..and no one has to see them but you! :)
  • Boo522
    Boo522 Posts: 45 Member
    Welcome!! Good luck on this journey. I started out at 245 lbs @ 5'6'' so I know how you feel. I would love to add you as a friend.
  • Yellerie
    Yellerie Posts: 221 Member
    People can be so cruel. Please ignore those ignorant teenagers. They had no idea how their actions can impact someone, they are disrespectful. Karma can be cruel too, so they will get what is coming to them.

    Feel free to add me if you want, I am always looking for new friends and motivation! :smile:


    Ditto!
  • pholbert
    pholbert Posts: 575 Member
    Well to be honest...even though what they said was mean and totally uncalled for, i decided to take something positive from it and I decided that I couldn't deny just how big I was after getting and decided it was time to change. I was just the kick in the butt I needed to finally be honest with myself!
    That is a great atitude, turn a negative into a positive. You will be very glad you did.
  • ThomasFMendiola
    ThomasFMendiola Posts: 38 Member
    Welcome! Remember that success is the best revenge! Add me if you'd like!
  • ChristyRunStarr
    ChristyRunStarr Posts: 1,600 Member
    welcome! I'm sorry those kids were so cruel.But it sounds like you have a great attitude and congrats on your weight lose so far!
  • bpwparents
    bpwparents Posts: 359 Member
    To put it bluntly, people suck. I stopped with my 10 year olds baseball team to get ice cream after a game the other day and some kids that drove by actually yelled out "mooo" out their window. My son asked me what they said and I said I didn't know. He figured it out eventually but I still felt like crap. OK kids that yelled that, do you realize that I've been busting my butt and have lost almost 25 lbs in 2 months??? I earned that kiddie ice cream cone! It would be interesting to see those same kids in 20 years and see how they look, don't you think? I'm at the same weight as you now and feel so much better already. Congratulations on your determination to get healthy. We're right there with you!
  • hlgehman
    hlgehman Posts: 8 Member
    People can be so cruel. Take it and pull it out for motivation. Good luck in your journey.
  • _Elemenopee_
    _Elemenopee_ Posts: 2,665 Member
    Most teenagers are cruel, thoughtless and think they are invincible. I'm sorry you were treated this way and kudos to the drive-thru attendant for saying something to them.

    Good luck momma! You can do this! :)
  • kbjkjjb6
    kbjkjjb6 Posts: 5 Member
    Hi, I am new here too and already love this program. My story is similar to yours- but from a doctor...

    It inspired me, and I wish you the best in your journey!!

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  • mommaski4
    mommaski4 Posts: 305 Member
    Welcome! So sorry you had to go through that but so happy that you are using it to inspire you to a healthier you! Great job turning a negative experience into a life changing, positive step!

    And I agree, kudos to the cashier for saying something. Good luck to you. Feel free to add me as a friend.
  • deeannhill
    deeannhill Posts: 85 Member
    Welcome! Sometimes we need a kick in the pants to change directions - sounds like you are on the healthy path now! I'll send a friend request.
  • Noahsmommy1
    Noahsmommy1 Posts: 33
    I do have some before pics...but am too embarrased to put them online here. Maybe when I lose some more weight I will put them both up (who knows?)
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