A Pulmonary Embolism Will Definitely Wake You Up...

amandakalani · July 2012

So back in 2008, I weighed my heaviest at 340 pounds, I was married to my high school sweetheart who I deeply loved, but unhappy and depressed with myself, but had no motivation or drive. Then one day, I woke up from a nap with a horrible pain in my right calf that I thought was just a cramp, so I had my husband massaging it to try to work it out. The pain just got worse, and 2 days later, I suddenly collapsed. I still remember the pain and fear of that moment. Everything was spinning, I was having very sharp, painful chest pains, and I couldn't even speak, even though I was screaming for help in my head. Luckily, I fell onto my bed, and my husband woke up a few moments later and helped my breathing return to normal. I was so out of breath, having difficulty hearing, speaking, and moving. The next day, I was so weak, had trouble walking and talking, and couldn't keep anything down, so my husband took me to the hospital, where I was told I had a massive blood clot in my calf and some of it had traveled up through my heart and into my lungs. I was very lucky to be alive and was in the hospital for 2 weeks. As I was laying in the hospital bed, it hit me that I was going to die if I didn't make a change, and I cried almost all night.
I was ordered not to work for an entire year, so my husband had to get a 2nd job to pay the bills, which gave me time to recover, relax, and begin my change...but it also gave my husband time to meet someone else at his 2nd job to have an affair with. So on top of being depressed, I was devastated about my marriage, and just wished I really had died.
Fast forward to now, I have lost a total of 138 pounds and feel wonderful!! I do have a blood clotting disorder now due to the embolism and will be on blood thinners for the rest of my life. I even had another clot in the same calf in December 2011, but now since I know the signs, it was caught early. I am living proof that it can be done, when I never thought I ever accomplish this. I am actually happy that I went through everything, because what nearly killed me actually saved my life.
I have been divorced now since 2009, to which he begged me not to go through with...yeah right...and also went back to school and graduated just this past May and I am in a new relationship that is going very well so far. :blushing:

And I just have to say...when my ex-husband saw me for the first time since my weight loss, I highly enjoyed seeing the look on his face...but I enjoyed turning him down even more! :laugh:

sara_navarr0 · July 2012

So scary!!!! Im glad youre alive and well!!!!

kittenkris · July 2012

Awesome job on getting your health and your life back. What an amazing story, thanks for sharing.

kelelaanne · July 2012

Way to take control of your body and life!!!

Streetpreacher82 · July 2012

Glad to hear you are doing well and how much you have accomplished!

I can synpathize as last November I walked into the ER with severe chest pains only to learn I had a life threatening bi-lateral pulmonary embolism. Talk about throwing me for a loop! Unfortunately, the source for my clots was never found and I as well am on blood thinners for life with a yet to be determined genetic issue. It took me a while to get to where I felt like I could start and now here I am 7 weeks in.

Thanks for sharing your story. It is always good to hear from someone else who went through the same thing!

drgooch · July 2012

I am so glad your story turned out to be a great one! (minus the divorce of course) My sister died from the same thing in 2007 at the age of 47. I miss her dearly everyday and wish that she would have had the bruise on her thigh checked out from being thrown from a horse. Good luck on your journey for the rest!!!

pinuplove · July 2012

Your story really hit close to home, as my mom died from a pulmonary embolism at 44 and blood clotting disorder also runs in my family.
GOOD FOR YOU for taking charge and making the positive changes in your life! Sometimes life sends you down an ugly bumpy road, but your attitude is positive and amazing. I hope you have many happy times coming your way

5Btieden · July 2012

Thank you for sharing your story. How heartbreaking about your health and marriage but it sounds like you are back on your feet and in good shape

You deserve all the happiness you have!

mehaffeymk · July 2012

wow what a terrifying experience. it's breaks my heart to think that you were being cheated on while recovering, doing nothing wrong, but it's SO great that you rebounded so well and are taking your health by the horns! and yes, what a satisfying feeling to know you're doing better than your ex

jenzsd · July 2012

I am so happy you survived two awful blood clots and it gave you the chance to turn your life around to a healthier you! It's terrible about your ex-husband, but it's nice to hear you are in a much better place now. Talk about taking the bad and turning it into good - you rock! Congratulations on your successes and your new health!

raeleek · July 2012

Congratulations on your healthy lifestyle! I'm glad to hear you are well! Keep up the good work!

deanna200284 · July 2012

Like a few others in this thread, I have seen first hand how deadly pulmonary embolisms are. My brother, who was very overweight died at the age of 27 from one. He had severe pain in his calf and just assumed it was a leg cramp. After a couple days he started getting dizzy and could barely walk. When he finally got medical attention they I guess assumed it was his blood sugar because it was somewhere over 500. While he was laying in the bed waiting for the doctors to come back he suddenly flat-lined and they weren't able to revive him. I don't fully remember, but I think they didn't find out that it was a pulmonary embolism until they did the autopsy. I'm so glad you were able to recover from yours and turn your life around. That's awful what your husband did, but you are better off without him!

myfitnessval · July 2012

Thats so scary (and sad about your douche of an ex) but we're all glad you've lived, not just lived but THRIVED, to tell us all! Kudos to you and keep up the great work and keep inspiring us all!

Shrinking_Moody · July 2012

Way to go! And congratulations on your second chance in life and love and for ditching the dork!

vettle · July 2012

Wow so scary but so glad you came out of that with a success story. How upsetting to find your ex doing that after all you'd been through. Good for you! Best wishes for everything you every do.

amysuespears · July 2012

My father had this same problem on March 5, 2012... the only thing that was different was that he died. He got up to get his dinner out of the microwave, fell to the floor, and just died. Examination after death revealed that he had a blood clot in his leg that had traveled to his heart and killed him instantly. He had no pain in his leg... no signs of a clot... he was watching tv, got up, and died. You are truly lucky to be alive... and, judging by what you have done with your life, you obviously know how blessed you are to have another chance to live. Congrats on everything you have done... it's truly remarkable!

Taitter · July 2012

As a cardiac nurse I can appreciate the severity of your past incident. Congratulations on making a life changing choice and for surviving what most do not. Charge on!

LoggingForLife · July 2012

Wow...what a story. Very inspirational!

SayLiLIG · July 2012

Way to go! What an incredibly inspirational story. As for the ex husband, his loss! I'm glad you have someone that can appreciate you, for you.

meglet175 · July 2012

How wonderful for you that you have taken such a positive spin on such horrible circumstances, and that you didn't just give up on life, but instead took charge - and just look where you are as a result! Way to go!

I had a much smaller epiphany of sorts when I fell and broke my arm badly a few months ago. I hated being helpless while in a huge, bent-arm cast, and vowed to take better care of myself when the cast came off and I could once again bathe and dress myself. (Not to mention that I think I might have avoided the fracture had I not been such a pudge and fallen so gracelessly in the first place...)

rosarenee1 · July 2012

Wow a horrific experience but actually kind of lucky you had to go through that (embolism) to get your health back. That REALLY sucks about your ex though, what a jerk! Keep up the awesome work!!

amandakalani · July 2012

Thank you all for your nice comments! It really made me smile! I have only met one survivor of a PE, I know there are more survivors, but it's more deadly than not, so I know I am truly lucky to be here. Thanks again!

myownadvice · July 2012

Fellow PE survivor here! Fortunately for me, I had already dropped 35 lbs and was running regularly so my heart was in really good shape. If it had happened a year before, I'm not so sure I would have had the same outcome. Mine was caused by a leg injury (torn calf muscle) that went undiagnosed (let's just put you on crutches for two weeks and see how it feels). Well, guess what folks? When you have a bleeding injury (internal) and you don't address it properly, you can get blood clots. When the clots move to your heart/lungs/brain you can die. It is so important for people to know that if you think something is wrong, get checked out. If you don't get an answer, keep checking! It wasn't until I had trouble breathing that I finally went to the ER. And I could have avoided the whole episode completely if I had just pressed for a second opinion with an orthopedist.

Thank you so much for sharing your story (and letting me share mine)! You are truly a survivor in more ways than one and you may just help save someone else with your willingness to share.

A Pulmonary Embolism Will Definitely Wake You Up...

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