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malavika413
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Hey ladies, I just have a question about clothes and cleavage.
You see, I'm 19 years old, in college, and attending my boyfriend's formal in a month. I want to be dressed appropriately. I bought a dress with a sweetheart neckline, but because of my DD chest, you can see some cleavage. My boyfriend's a conservative person and I wouldn't want to make him feel uncomfortable. What do you think--should I wear this dress that has a moderate amount of cleavage, or purchase another with a high neckline so my boobs will be hidden?
Thanks!
You see, I'm 19 years old, in college, and attending my boyfriend's formal in a month. I want to be dressed appropriately. I bought a dress with a sweetheart neckline, but because of my DD chest, you can see some cleavage. My boyfriend's a conservative person and I wouldn't want to make him feel uncomfortable. What do you think--should I wear this dress that has a moderate amount of cleavage, or purchase another with a high neckline so my boobs will be hidden?
Thanks!
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Some cleavage is fine. Just don't wear something cut down to your belly button.
If you like the dress, wear it!0 -
There's nothing wrong with some cleavage. With big boobs, you just can't avoid it.0
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I think it would be fine.. use your discretion...you're the one that knows if it's too much and will make him uncomfortable.0
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I'm not a women but I am a cleavage espert. In my professional opinion, you ask him what he thinks...not the entire internet worlds.0
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You bought that first dress because YOU liked how it looks on you. Don't change who you are and buy a high neckline dress. Wear the sweetheart dress!!0
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Normally I would say wear what makes you happy, but since you are concerned for what he thinks I would show him the dress and ask him.0
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skippygirlsmom wrote: »Normally I would say wear what makes you happy, but since you are concerned for what he thinks I would show him the dress and ask him.
Is that logic I'm smelling? Not possible.
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SGM_Adonis wrote: »I'm not a women but I am a cleavage espert. In my professional opinion, you ask him what he thinks...not the entire internet worlds.
I wanted to surprise him, since I bought the dress in his favorite color and stuff. I was hoping it would be a wow-factor dress, but I don't want him to feel ashamed of his date.
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If your worried about his opinion why not just ask him. Hard for the rest of is to judge without a picture0
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malavika413 wrote: »SGM_Adonis wrote: »I'm not a women but I am a cleavage espert. In my professional opinion, you ask him what he thinks...not the entire internet worlds.
I wanted to surprise him, since I bought the dress in his favorite color and stuff. I was hoping it would be a wow-factor dress, but I don't want him to feel ashamed of his date.
If you want to keep it a surprise...then just ask him what his stance is on cleavage.
Best to phrase it exactly like that and just after he takes a drink of something.0 -
malavika413 wrote: »SGM_Adonis wrote: »I'm not a women but I am a cleavage espert. In my professional opinion, you ask him what he thinks...not the entire internet worlds.
I wanted to surprise him, since I bought the dress in his favorite color and stuff. I was hoping it would be a wow-factor dress, but I don't want him to feel ashamed of his date.
Bebe, by the way you're carrying yourself, that's the last thing you have to worry about.
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Have a backup plan.
If he doesn't like it, bring a sweater, or a lacy scarf, or something to that effect.
If he likes it too much, use protection!1 -
lawandfitness wrote: »If your worried about his opinion why not just ask him. Hard for the rest of is to judge without a picture
I don't have a picture of me in the actual dress, but here's me in a dress with a similar amount of cleavage. (I'm in the red)
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malavika413 wrote: »lawandfitness wrote: »If your worried about his opinion why not just ask him. Hard for the rest of is to judge without a picture
I don't have a picture of me in the actual dress, but here's me in a dress with a similar amount of cleavage. (I'm in the red)
That's like nothing! You're fine girl.0 -
That is totally and completely acceptable. If my husband asked me to show less than that I would probably buy a miniskirt to piss him off.0
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hearthemelody wrote: »That is totally and completely acceptable. If my husband asked me to show less than that I would probably buy a miniskirt to piss him off.
Great! Thank you! I thought it was pretty innocuous, especially since larger-busted gals tend to look better in sweethearts anyway. But I just wanted to be sure.
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Coming from a guys perspective everything looks fine, I don't know how someone could be upset with that.0
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Oh, to be 19 again. I think a high-ish neckline and a well-tailored bodice is a very classy look. Think Taylor Swift, who doesn't seem to dress all trashy and sexed-up. Your sweetheart neckline choice sounds lovely. And I like the scarf idea mentioned by some other folks. Scarves can be very elegant and floaty and feminine.0
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No worries....if that's revealing, I'm a mega skank and I don't even dress that provacatively in the scheme of things. :P0
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