Really worried about thanksgiving
cynthiamm67
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I've been paleo for about 5 months. It's working well for me, and I don't want to stop, even for one meal. I'm not crazy about turkey, and certainly not without gravy.
I'm going to a big in-law family dinner, and I don't want to make a big deal about what I don't eat, but I'm really worried about it (and I have anxiety disorder so I can't stop). I'm going to try to bring a paleo friendly side and dessert. Any other suggestions? My mother will be beside herself if I don't eat, so that isn't an option.
I'm going to a big in-law family dinner, and I don't want to make a big deal about what I don't eat, but I'm really worried about it (and I have anxiety disorder so I can't stop). I'm going to try to bring a paleo friendly side and dessert. Any other suggestions? My mother will be beside herself if I don't eat, so that isn't an option.
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My suggestion is to eat a couple bites of turkey (that is, if you really don't like it) and smile.0
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I have severe food allergies so I can't eat what other people bring to thanksgiving. What I do is I make my own prepackaged meal and just tell people no thanks, I brought my own when asked if I'd like something.0
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Just hit up some turkey, some sweet taters, and them salads. Go for it.0
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Well I think it is the anxiety speaking... you've been at paleo a long time and one day off will not get in the way of your overall progress. I think you have a couple good routes - one would be to problem-solve how to eat paleo that day and talk with your mom ahead of time to let her know your plan (and be assertive if needed), the other would be to use it as a chance to practice being more flexible with your eating on special occasions and getting right back to paleo the next day.0
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Oh and if turkey really isn't your thing.
Bring a steak and make it up in time for dinner?0 -
I'm afraid also, the dinner I'm going to goes BIG. I will probably have some salmon and skip all unnecessary fat, all high carbs (bread), all the chocolates (save them for later date), put more salad with no dressing on plate, and watch the sodium/ then secretly go to the restroom just to track myfitnesspal. I want to not eat until the dinner to eat in nice portions. ( I'll plan to serve everything size less than my fist)0
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I get the anxiety, but really... it's one day. My brother eats Paleo, too, but he joins in at family meals and just picks and chooses the things he wants to eat. No one makes a big deal about it. If you don't really like turkey, take a small piece, no gravy. Then eat plenty of the side you're bringing and anything else on the table that fits your normal diet. If you aren't comfortable explaining your diet to your family, if anyone asks, just tell them jokingly that "you're watching your girlish figure". Really, if your plate looks full of food I can't imagine that anyone is going to be watching exactly what's on there.0
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Even with a typically restrictive paleo diet, I don't see the issue with the majority of foods there?
And remember, that it isn't the type of food which makes you gain or lose weight but the quantity so even if you do eat something not "paleo" then as long as your don't over consume by a lot then it doesn't matter.
And remember that it is only one meal. Unless you can eat A LOT, then there will be minimal change.0 -
Eat what you normally do, as its Thanksgiving the selection should be large. It's going to be pretty obvious that you've lost 35 pounds, if anyone asks tell them its part of your diet.0
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I'm anxious about the holiday season as well. This time last year was the beginning of the end for me, I gained 20lbs.. But I'm determined to go into this season with a plan. I'm a vegetarian so I understand restrictions. I plan to practice portion control and allow myself to enjoy my family. Plus I think I'll go workout before dinner so I'm more prone to using self control for the remainder of the day.0
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It depends if you plan to eat paleo forever. If not, this might be an opportunity to practice restraint, or else as soon as you stop paleo you run the risk of eating too much of what you couldn't have before. It's one meal, I would take small portions and maybe exercise beforehand, you won't ruin your progress. If you really don't want to stop paleo then bringing some of your own stuff is a good idea
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OUCH!cynthiamm67 wrote: »I've been paleo for about 5 months. It's working well for me, and I don't want to stop, even for one meal. I'm not crazy about turkey, and certainly not without gravy.
I'm going to a big in-law family dinner, and I don't want to make a big deal about what I don't eat, but I'm really worried about it (and I have anxiety disorder so I can't stop). I'm going to try to bring a paleo friendly side and dessert. Any other suggestions? My mother will be beside herself if I don't eat, so that isn't an option.
This is a tough one!
Thanksgiving is one of those few times where I allow myself to wallow in an orgy of food like a rooting hog in slop. I am going to eat everything and anything until I just hurt.
And after a short nap, I'll do it again...and again...and finally one final time before bed. And the following day this cycle repeats all over with leftovers.
It will take 2 weeks to recover, and just when I am feeling right, it's x-mas...
It's on again!
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Why don't you just make a steak or fish dish as well? If you make a side, a dessert, and a main course, you'll have enough of your food to eat. It will be expensive to basically cook enough of multiple things you'll eat for everyone, but if you really want to, you'll be able to make a Thanksgiving meal out of just the items you brought. Plus, it'll make you look good for being so helpful with the cooking. Take little portion of others' foods to be polite and only eat a little or mash them around so it looks like you've eaten them.
One day in your diet isn't worth making a whole side of your family resent you, so do your best to be polite about it.0 -
And this is why I'm personally against restrictive diets.
Just eat what you can eat, don't eat what you can't, or yeah, bring a couple paleo dishes with you. Or just have some food before going, so you're not hungry anyway.0 -
It's one meal and no one probably pays much attention to what you eat, unless you yourself make a big deal of it.
You can't have any gravy while eating paleo because... the little bit of flour in it? That seems unnecessarily restrictive.0 -
Lie and say you're getting over a stomach bug.0
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I have a 5 mile run scheduled for Thanksgiving and the day after because I want turkey and dressing and gravy over everything LOL0
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I have a 5 mile run scheduled for Thanksgiving and the day after because I want turkey and dressing and gravy over everything LOL
Right? I'm so excited for something meat, something bready, something mashed, something green, and something pecan and pumpkin. I will work that goodness off...or not 0 -
Move to Canada. Thanksgiving already happened, so you'll have missed it.
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I get the anxiety, but really... it's one day. My brother eats Paleo, too, but he joins in at family meals and just picks and chooses the things he wants to eat. No one makes a big deal about it. If you don't really like turkey, take a small piece, no gravy. Then eat plenty of the side you're bringing and anything else on the table that fits your normal diet. If you aren't comfortable explaining your diet to your family, if anyone asks, just tell them jokingly that "you're watching your girlish figure". Really, if your plate looks full of food I can't imagine that anyone is going to be watching exactly what's on there.
This. If folks - even family - are openly judging the contents of your plate on Thanksgiving, politely tell them to mind their beeswax.0 -
I keep getting off topic. Right, you do have food allergies so don't stress. You literally can't eat everything they eat...cause allergies. Bring what you want.0
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That wasn't the OP. Are you saying she should lie and tell her family she has severe food allergies? Seems easier to just tell them you're eating paleo.LolBroScience wrote: »
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0somuchbetter0 wrote: »Lie and say you're getting over a stomach bug.
Yes, because lying to friends and family is how one really wants to spend the rest of their life.
OP - just eat turkey, salad and sweet potatoes. Or give yourself a break for the day. It won't hurt your progress.
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WalkingAlong wrote: »
That wasn't the OP. Are you saying she should lie and tell her family she has severe food allergies? Seems easier to just tell them you're eating paleo.LolBroScience wrote: »
DERP. That's what I get for not drinking coffee on Monday morning. Disregard my food allergy comment.0 -
My suggestion, don't even worry about it.
Me personally, Thanksgiving is going to be an off day. The only way one day can hurt your progress is if you let it turn into several days.0 -
Its one meal for a holiday that is only once a year. Instead of letting your anxiety take over, just eat what you want. One day will not mess up what you already have going on, unless you allow it to after that. Enjoy the day and go back to paleo the next day.
If that is something that you just will not do, then just stop thinking about it until the day comes and the food is laid out on the table. At that time you just eat what you can.0 -
It's one day. Don't worry about it.0
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