I am hurting ......:(

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  • sseqwnp
    sseqwnp Posts: 327 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    sseqwnp wrote: »
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    sseqwnp wrote: »
    Teenagers aren't the only people hurt by someone they love, wow

    OP hasn't been hurt by someone she loves, unless that someone is herself. He's her ex. He's moving on.

    What exactly is he doing wrong here?


    You right he did nothing wrong. That is not the point of this post from OP.

    I wasn't replying to the OP

    In your reply you are talking about OP.

    Wow. You have reading comprehension problems. Someone *else* said OP was hurt by someone they love. That statement is false. The Ex did nothing to hurt her by getting a new girlfriend. She just *chose* to be hurt over this. OP Hurt herself by being clingy.

    Are you doing this on purpose?
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    edited November 2014
    sseqwnp wrote: »
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    sseqwnp wrote: »
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    sseqwnp wrote: »
    Teenagers aren't the only people hurt by someone they love, wow

    OP hasn't been hurt by someone she loves, unless that someone is herself. He's her ex. He's moving on.

    What exactly is he doing wrong here?


    You right he did nothing wrong. That is not the point of this post from OP.

    I wasn't replying to the OP

    In your reply you are talking about OP.

    Wow. You have reading comprehension problems. Someone *else* said OP was hurt by someone they love. That statement is false. The Ex did nothing to hurt her by getting a new girlfriend. She just *chose* to be hurt over this. OP Hurt herself by being clingy.

    Are you doing this on purpose?
    Teenagers aren't the only people hurt by someone they love, wow
    Did you quote the wrong person then. There is nothing about OP in that statement you quoted. Something wrong with my reading comprehension?

    OP chooses to hurt herself. That is the first time I heard someone say it like this.

    Also you reply to someone else talking about OP like you know her or something. Make some very interesting assumptions on the little OP she wrote.
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,426 Member
    I second doing other things. I also would recommend reminding yourself about all the bad times with said ex. After a while, it starts working and you stop pining.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    joining a cult usually works out well
    and eating a lot of Swedish berries
  • La_Malfaisante
    La_Malfaisante Posts: 1,509 Member
    It might hurt now but trust me, you will get over it. Try to focus on yourself, keep yourself busy.
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  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    I'm sorry. :(
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    its the realist approach. =) Trust me I'm a psychologist...forward works sometimes.
    Men and women are different, her heart is still tender, sometimes compassion is best thing you can give to another that's hurting <3

    What the.... this is along the lines of the "give everyone an award so no one feels like they lost" malarkey that is wrecking all our children. It's real life. She needs to accept that he's moved on and deal with the pain. It happens, she'll come out stronger on the other side and find someone better. Eventually she'll look back and realize it was a good thing.

    That women and men are different stuff really ticks me off.
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  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    mccindy72 wrote: »
    its the realist approach. =) Trust me I'm a psychologist...forward works sometimes.
    Men and women are different, her heart is still tender, sometimes compassion is best thing you can give to another that's hurting <3

    What the.... this is along the lines of the "give everyone an award so no one feels like they lost" malarkey that is wrecking all our children. It's real life. She needs to accept that he's moved on and deal with the pain. It happens, she'll come out stronger on the other side and find someone better. Eventually she'll look back and realize it was a good thing.

    That women and men are different stuff really ticks me off.

    Boys have a penis and girls have a vagina. They are different, see.

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