Loveing yourself

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Has anyone else completely changed their goals from the start of their journey? I have always been a bigger girl and when I started this I would look at girls with completely different body shapes then mine and dream of how I WOULD have a thigh gap and be able to wear booty shorts. After that I envisioned myself being completely muscular. During this time I wasn't loving who I was, and what I looked like. All I was focusing on was improving myself, never loving myself. Now I have changed my goals, I just want to feel good. I have started to accept the fact that I everyone has a different body, and there is nothing wrong with my hourglass figure haha. With that said though, I have struggled at times with my confidence because it seems like we live in a society were loving yourself and flaws is some how wrong....Anyways I needed to just get that out there.