Man advice please!

kinkyslinky16

This guy sounds super lame.

drgmac

Here is my philosophy, and it's this simple: if you aren't getting what you want or need, leave. Life's too short to wonder. Throw him back.

leadslinger17

By the thread title, I came in here expecting a question about big screen TVs or trucks or something. I was disappointed. That being said, I don't understand women. They say they want a "good man" or a "nice guy" but will follow around complete losers and think that deep inside there is something more. You are being played. You've known him for this long, he's always been that way. Either settle for being a booty call, or move on.

SexyHealthyFit175

drgmac wrote: »

Here is my philosophy, and it's this simple: if you aren't getting what you want or need, leave. Life's too short to wonder. Throw him back.

love it...thanks!!!!

It's been done

SexyHealthyFit175

synchrony7 wrote: »

By the thread title, I came in here expecting a question about big screen TVs or trucks or something. I was disappointed. That being said, I don't understand women. They say they want a "good man" or a "nice guy" but will follow around complete losers and think that deep inside there is something more. You are being played. You've known him for this long, he's always been that way. Either settle for being a booty call, or move on.

you took the time to reply...so must have not been that disappointed.

999tigger

So you dumped him? Tbh you were never with him in that sense, at least not exclusively.

Did you pack it in because you wanted to take it to the next level and then you decided with the help of MFP that he was up to no good?

Did you bother to ask him and give him a chance or just dump? Whilst you may have had your concerns, then nothing hes done by your first post warrants anything other than maybe being cautious and wanting clarification on. If you got it thats great, but I hope you put it to a place where you actually talked to him and made him aware you were interested or called him out on the things that caused you concern.

From the op at least I cant see hes done anything wrong, just areas that might seem a bit strange.

ELMunque

999tigger wrote: »

So you dumped him? Tbh you were never with him in that sense, at least not exclusively.

Did you pack it in because you wanted to take it to the next level and then you decided with the help of MFP that he was up to no good?

Did you bother to ask him and give him a chance or just dump? Whilst you may have had your concerns, then nothing hes done by your first post warrants anything other than maybe being cautious and wanting clarification on. If you got it thats great, but I hope you put it to a place where you actually talked to him and made him aware you were interested or called him out on the things that caused you concern.

From the op at least I cant see hes done anything wrong, just areas that might seem a bit strange.

I'll second this. Sounds like you are his friend and he is your potential. There is no physical relationship, just hanging out. Maybe the things you think are strange is just him trying to not hurt your feelings because he knows you want more from him than he's willing to give. So far I haven't read anything that makes him a ****. I've read a lot that leads me to believe that you have a friend you want more from. But then, there's always more to the story than what you post on line.

SexyHealthyFit175

999tigger wrote: »

So you dumped him? Tbh you were never with him in that sense, at least not exclusively.

Did you pack it in because you wanted to take it to the next level and then you decided with the help of MFP that he was up to no good?

Did you bother to ask him and give him a chance or just dump? Whilst you may have had your concerns, then nothing hes done by your first post warrants anything other than maybe being cautious and wanting clarification on. If you got it thats great, but I hope you put it to a place where you actually talked to him and made him aware you were interested or called him out on the things that caused you concern.

From the op at least I cant see hes done anything wrong, just areas that might seem a bit strange.

We are still friends. I didn't have the "talk" with him but I am backing up. If he wants to be more he can show me. I'm not going to beg a man for attention or to share his feelings with me. As of now I'm going to continue to better myself and if it's meant to be then it will be. You are right though he does deserve a chance to know how I feel.

SexyHealthyFit175

ELMunque wrote: »

999tigger wrote: »

So you dumped him? Tbh you were never with him in that sense, at least not exclusively.

Did you pack it in because you wanted to take it to the next level and then you decided with the help of MFP that he was up to no good?

Did you bother to ask him and give him a chance or just dump? Whilst you may have had your concerns, then nothing hes done by your first post warrants anything other than maybe being cautious and wanting clarification on. If you got it thats great, but I hope you put it to a place where you actually talked to him and made him aware you were interested or called him out on the things that caused you concern.

From the op at least I cant see hes done anything wrong, just areas that might seem a bit strange.

I'll second this. Sounds like you are his friend and he is your potential. There is no physical relationship, just hanging out. Maybe the things you think are strange is just him trying to not hurt your feelings because he knows you want more from him than he's willing to give. So far I haven't read anything that makes him a ****. I've read a lot that leads me to believe that you have a friend you want more from. But then, there's always more to the story than what you post on line.

They is true. But we are friends. That's what we will remain. If something changes so be it but I've realized that is all he may see me as