Just diagnosed with Diabetes and can't stop eating junk food at night...
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I'm sorry for your troubles. Hang in there. As for practical suggestions:
Buy cut-up vegetables. Buy a cookie jar or box with a lock and keep the kids' treats in it. Give them the key or stow it away someplace inaccessible. Practice relaxation techniques.0 -
My adult children, more than anything, want me to have a long and healthy life. Nothing freaks them out more than the idea I won't be around much longer.
Granted, six year olds and fourteen year olds are notoriously self-centered and they really only care about what is going to happen next week. So I might not cold-turkey the old snacks. Gradually replace them. And put them in the top cupboard at the back. Your healthy snacks in plain sight. Cut-up veggies ready to go in the fridge.
Popcorn is good. Air-popped even better.
we do this! and, i started making them do homework to earn extra snacks that are junk. win win!0 -
A lot of great advice. I am doing this because my grandmother died because of type 2 diabetes, and my mother died of non alcohol related Cirrhosis of the Liver caused by type 2 diabetes. I just recently found out my Dad has diabetes as well. My mom begged me before she died to "get healthy." I haven't been diagnosed, and no pre diabetes (as far as I know) Nor do I plan to. Hopefully your life will be enough to get you going as it has for me. When I die, I don't want it to be from something I could have prevented. I wish you the best and hope you can overcome these obsticles. I understand It's tough. I LOVE junk food, and am not at my best at all times.0
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Tonilynn70 wrote: »Two weeks ago, the doctor told me I was in the beginning stages of diabetes. My numbers are high, but don't warrant meds just yet. She said she would give me three months to get it under control. I did great the first week. Then my niece was diagnosed with Leukemia. A lot of hour long drives to the hospital with a 6 year old and I was drinking soda and eating reeses pieces. But I felt the effects of the bad eating. I start the day off wonderful, an apple, an egg.. get to work and eat pretty good, usually whatever we get I will not eat the carbs and get a salad. Then I get home, and I fly off the handle. Cookies, pop tarts (which i don't even like) and Doritos were my binge last night. And I can't drink water at home. At work, I will drink somewhere like 96 oz of water.. but I get home and the only thing I want is soda.
I know it's not good for me, because just now I had a and I can feel it... I don't like it.. I hate it.. but I don't know how NOT to eat that stuff. I know.. don't have it in the house.. but I live with a 6 year old and a 14 year old.. I also know.. make sure you have veggies on hand... and there are .. but I don't want to prepare veggies and snack..
Anyway.. anyone have any suggestions... a success story... maybe someone is a hypnotist? LOL
Thanks!!!
A hot dog with chili and cheese is a good meal!
You got plenty of protein and some fat. Protein and fat are good.
Next time, skip the fries and half the bun in order to lower the calorie count.
Truthfully, it does not matter what a diabetic eats as long as she eat less. LESS is key. When you lose weight, you will not be diabetic any longer because your blood sugar levels will go down with your overall weight.
Are you getting enough sleep?
Are the 6 year old and the 14 year old doing age appropriate chores so that they can learn responsibility and so that, after you teach them and help them develop good habits, you do have more time for yourself?
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If you want a hotdog, get a better brand of hot dog and enjoy. I prefer Applegate Farms uncured beef dogs. 70 calories, and they actually taste like beef and spices instead of unidentifiable byproducts. Add a decent bun and you're only at about 200 cals each. I've even added bacon and cheese and managed to come out at just over 400 calories for 2.0
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I was in the same boat as you. Read my bio. Not much else to say. I had too much to lose, including flying my plane with a diabetes diagnosis!!! I turned it around and if I could do it anyone can... just needs a serious commitment on your part!0
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I'm not trying to be mean, but the fact of the matter is that if you keep that up you're going to die and I promise it won't be quick and painless. Diabetes should scare you. It's an awful disease. First of all, you shouldn't have all that crap in your house. If you have diabetes that means it's in your genetics and if you don't teach your family how to eat, your kids could end up with it later. You can't binge on junk that isn't there. You better sit down with your family and have a serious discussion about what is in your house because Diabetes and renal failure are nothing to take lightly.0
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beautifulwarrior18 wrote: »I'm not trying to be mean... If you have diabetes that means it's in your genetics and if you don't teach your family how to eat, your kids could end up with it later. You can't binge on junk that isn't there. You better sit down with your family and have a serious discussion about what is in your house...
Well, yes, there were some harsh words there, but I agree that since diabetes runs in families, it would be very kind of you to teach your children how to eat well so that they don't suffer the consequences later in life. You want your children to be happy and healthy? Help themselves and help you do the same! You can do it! Just keep that junk out of the house, set up an eating plan for your family, and start taking little steps each day. Eating wisely does not mean that you have to starve yourself. I manage to fit in my favorite foods, but just eat less junky mindless filler foods that I didn't really need. I have lost weight thus far by eating breakfast EVERY DAY and by increasing the ratio of protein and good fat in my diet.
And, with that, I leave you with a favorite song! Cheers, and please feel free to Friend me!
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lean some self control land willpower.
No one is forcing that food into your mouth but YOU
Man up and do something about it
Life aint easy buddy, time to step and and take the prick head on0 -
Selection of amputations common to diabetics.Tonilynn70 wrote: »Two weeks ago, the doctor told me I was in the beginning stages of diabetes. My numbers are high, but don't warrant meds just yet. She said she would give me three months to get it under control. ... Cookies, pop tarts (which i don't even like) and Doritos were my binge last night. And I can't drink water at home. At work, I will drink somewhere like 96 oz of water.. but I get home and the only thing I want is soda.
I would suggest you get all that under control. Feet are useful tools, as are hands.
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One simple piece of advice I haven't seen here yet: GIVE YOURSELF THREE DAYS.
No junk for 3 days - no sugar, no treats, no simple carbs, no white bread or pasta. This will be HARD. If you're like me, you'll have a headache and feel like crap. But after 3 days, you come out the other side and feel so much better - and amazingly, you won't crave that stuff nearly as much. Then you can find the willpower to take control.
Eat lean protein and complex carbs. Eat numerous small meals instead of 3 large meals (large meals have a bigger impact on blood sugar and insulin response). Drink lots of water - staying hydrated helps fight cravings and seems to help with the sugar-withdrawal headache.
You'll get huge health advantages from eating like this but more importantly, you'll feel a lot better. Good luck!0 -
For others who have been through what you are going through. Give this group a try. http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/group/512-diabetes-prediabetes-and-insulin-resistance .
All scary stories can be a motivation, but they can be counterproductive if they scare you into giving up. You can make these changes, you may have to change one thing at a time. Breaking it down to achievable goals. Talk to a nutritionist, learn about your condition.
Be Well0 -
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My suggestion is to look at pictures of people who have diabetic ulcers, lost limbs, etc. Read their stories, watch videos and documentaries about them, etc. I have seen diabetics with no legs, on dialysis, etc. I even knew a man who got gangrene in his penis and had to have it removed. I'm not making that up.....Diabetes is not JUST a killer, it can make you have no life at all while you're still breathing.
In other words- gain some negative motivation.
Negative motivation is likely to be the best thing to get you started, and help you stay strong during the first weeks of changing your eating. After that, you'll need to find other motivators that make you feel good about your successes.
Fear can motivate, but it can also be so overwhelming that you have trouble processing it and go into denial instead. Mindfulness meditation can help with that. There's an app called "Calm" that I like to use when I feel off balance.
Reaching out to people on this thread is a sign that you are ready to adopt a new mind set.
Best wishes to you as you make your first changes.
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I notice from your profile that you started to try to lose weight 3 years ago.
It also shows a total 7lb loss.
I think you have been stuck for quite a long time and haven't been successful in changing your eating habits.
For the sake of yourself, your children, and your extended family, please get some professional help in dealing with your eating habits, and the health crisis that is happening with yourself and your niece.
Talk to your doctor, there is no shame in getting the best help you can.
Cheers, h.
PS No child needs junk food in their daily diet. An occasional treat, maybe.0 -
Diabetics really must stick to a diabetic diet, which includes all macros in proportion. Including carbohydrates in moderation.
I lost an uncle to complications because instead of taking his doctor's advice, he went on a fad diet.
There's nothing that says a diabetic must eat more than 20g of carbs a day. There's nothing wrong with all macros in proportion..but there's also nothing wrong with diabetics eating low carb (IF monitored by your doctor).0 -
Tonilynn70 wrote: »
Anyway.. anyone have any suggestions... a success story... maybe someone is a hypnotist? LOL
Actually, hypnotherapy might be a good idea!
Your story is so very common. You experienced stressful life situations (the diagnosis and the situation with your niece.) This has decimated your willpower which has done a number on motivation which in turn means you have slipped back into old, comforting habits. Life happens and that is why traditional tools in dieting (willpower, motivation) will usually be found wanting.
What you need are simple techniques. You know what to eat in reality you simply need to know how to make it easier to execute that conscious knowledge. I am going to quote myself from a different thread on cravings now:So, a simple technique is as follows when you experience cravings:
1) Give yourself absolute mental permission to eat what you want, at whatever time you want and in whatever quantities you want (this sounds scary but isn't in conjunction with the following.)
2) Tell yourself that you are experiencing a compulsive desire to eat and let yourself experience the emotions you feel. Don't fight them but rather let them wash over you and consider them.
3) Tell yourself that, if you still wish to eat, that you freely accept the negative consequences that flow from it (lower self esteem, less energy or whatever is particularly important to you.)
4) Eat or walk away as you feel.
The goal in this is not to avoid eating (indeed sometimes you may find that eating is actually a good result.) The goal is to consciously assess your actions and let that re establish connections in your unconscious. Over time you will find your consumption gradually reduces until this becomes second nature.
The above creates an averse state to overeating over time (but not eating itself which is of course beneficial!)0 -
It's a tough love approach from me:
There is no CAN'T. It's either WILL NOT or REFUSE. The choice really just comes down to you.
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This. 100%
If you won't change the way you are eating now..you will make your problem worse. How would you feel if your kids had diabetes and insisted on eating foods that will worsen their condition?
I am hypoglycemic. My problem is opposite of yours..i produce too much insulin. I was diagnosed 12 years ago (I'm 26 now). While my problem is opposite, treatment through diet is very similar..even some medications used are the same. When I was first diagnosed, I wasn't given very helpful advice from the doctor. In his defense..there wasn't very much known about treatment for it at that time. I was simply told to eat when I started feeling low. That didn't work and things got worse. I switched to eating low glycemic load foods, limited sweets, etc. That worked for awhile..until three years ago after I had my daughter. After that, it was time to find an alternative. I've been on a medication called acarbose, which is a prescription carb blocker, and that kind of worked. Then I lowered my carb intake to 18g and haven't had a low blood glucose since (aside from the morning after my cousins wedding when it was 48 due to drinking alcohol). It's all about playing with your diet and figuring out what works for your body..but you have to put in the work. When there is a problem with insulin..either too much or too little..the carbs consumed are what are going to make a difference.
I have a question.. Why do you want to continue to feel like crap? You could be on your way to feeling better..0 -
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CshellBwell wrote: »Consider junk food as poison for your body. People eat junk food for the same reason rats eat rat poison.
Check out these 5 simple tips to eat less and be satisfied doing it: http://www.shelbysguide.com/blog/2014/12/17/is-your-fork-a-shovel-and-your-plate-a-trough
My husband and I have had dramatic results with our weight loss and health gains. We share what we've learned on our blog: http://www.shelbysguide.com/goals/
wow... another shameless blog promotion. Your blog is condescending...just sayin'
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Read up on what the diabetes can do to you.
1. Throw out the junk food. All of it.
2. Go shopping. Buy healthy foods.
3. Ask your doctor for a referral to a dietitian. Keep appointments.
4. Start exercising.
Ask people who know what they're talking about and can apply that to you, specifically. Follow that advice!
It can be done. If you actually want to do it, you can.0 -
I am with you. I have the Diabetic Diet on my fridge, and need to follow it. My knees are killing me. This is not, "Oh, lose 20 pounds to fit into some cute jeans.". I am facing serious health problems because of my weight. And serious career issues as well. It is overwhelming stress.
Relationship issues because my SO I think is deliberately sabotaging my diet.
Today, I did not pack my lunch, and I automatically ordered fried chicken sandwich. Complete autopilot.
It is like AA, "One Day At a Time". My new plan is to always pack my lunch for work.
Find a plan that works for you. I used to be a night snacker, I stopped that by drinking herb tea at night. Lots of great flavors.0 -
meganjcallaghan wrote: »I am giving my dad a kidney in a few weeks because his stopped working, partially due to poorly managed diabetes. So keep in mind, when you're with your kids, the disease doesn't just affect you.
Megan, very sorry to hear your dad is so unwell but what a brave and selfless thing to step up and help in this way.
OP - this could be one of your children, posting this about you - is that really worth the reeses pieces??
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Thanks so much for all your feedback. I was diagnosed and the 14 year old I live with is the niece that has leukemia.. so it was a rough week. I also live with my sister and my father. I also work full time and am a full time grad student.. so my time is short. I sleep about 5 hours a night, which I know will not help the cravings.
I posted this because I lack the self control at this and wanted advise on how to control that. Not that I don't want to do it or can't. I just have moments, like everyone, where I can't control what goes in my mouth.
However, I did have a good day yesterday and it's one day at a time. And I am not going to deprive my son or my niece chips or cookies. They are kids, it's not like either of them eat non-stop junk food, and neither are overweight... so I am not taking away from them because I can't control myself.
Anyway,
Thank you for your input and support.0 -
The only hints I can give for self control is to do things to distract you...hot shower, bath, tea with honey at night, reading. I have a constant dialogue in my head to keep me on track. I keep telling myself how much I want it, how good I feel, eating does not make my problems go away..just adds to existing ones. When these moments of weakness come on, do something else for yourself that you enjoy. My problem was after dinner snacking. I would just go to bed so I was not near the kitchen.
Victoza was a miracle drug for me. I took it for high sugars but it has amazing weight loss abilities because it makes you feel as though you just had a huge dinner. My endocrinologist prescribed it. I took it for 3 months and lost about 30 pounds. I went off of it but by that time I had learned about weighing, measuring and portion control. I continued to lose 15 more on my own. I feel like it saved me. I am off all meds now.0 -
My grandmother was a diabetic and I was told I was pre-diabetic about three years ago. My doctor told me I could totally turn it around with diet and exercise. The first thing I did was cut out the sodas, juices, and alcohol. Then I started walking daily. Over time I traded my cookies and cakes for apples and bananas. Slowly I started eliminating over processed foods and eating as close to natural as possible. In nine months I lost 40 lbs and I've been able to maintain my current weight for almost two years. My blood sugar levels are normal now, without medication.
I know with your niece being sick it makes you want to go for the sweets, but remember, you are 100% in control of your health. Take steps to make sure you are eating the best possible foods to maintain optimum health.
I pray your niece has complete healing from leukemia0 -
Maybe this will help:
- Do you want to pass this problem onto the next generation? No? Because that's what you're doing when you encourage soda, sweets, chips, etc. as snacks. The kids might complain, but I promise that going without cheese puffs will not kill them. Get the junk food out of the house.
- Put a scale in the kitchen. They're not expensive. Measure and weigh everything. You'll be shocked at what a serving size is, good and bad.
- Go to the grocery store and pick up some stuff like hummus, goat cheese, cottage cheese, plain yogurt, ricotta cheese, baby carrots, fruit, rice cakes, etc. Try it. You might not like all of it, but you'll learn what you like and don't like. My lunch today is goat cheese, spinach, and roasted red peppers on a whole wheat pita with an orange on the side. I'm really looking forward to it because I love goat cheese. Diets don't mean no flavor, I promise.
I hope this helps. You can do this!
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Tonilynn70 wrote: »Thanks so much for all your feedback. I was diagnosed and the 14 year old I live with is the niece that has leukemia.. so it was a rough week. I also live with my sister and my father. I also work full time and am a full time grad student.. so my time is short. I sleep about 5 hours a night, which I know will not help the cravings.
I posted this because I lack the self control at this and wanted advise on how to control that. Not that I don't want to do it or can't. I just have moments, like everyone, where I can't control what goes in my mouth.
However, I did have a good day yesterday and it's one day at a time. And I am not going to deprive my son or my niece chips or cookies. They are kids, it's not like either of them eat non-stop junk food, and neither are overweight... so I am not taking away from them because I can't control myself.
Anyway,
Thank you for your input and support.
not for nothing- but bad things will continue to happen.
You have to learn how to deal with it- this is no longer an issue of- well I don't feel well when I eat XXXX_ if you continue to eat like you have been there will serious and possibly deadly ramifications to your actions.
Blaming bad things, bad news- hard days, stress no longer are excuses.
You have to do the things- or it is not longer a "well I might face consequences" you WILL have to face the consequences.0 -
farfromthetree wrote: »The only hints I can give for self control is to do things to distract you...hot shower, bath, tea with honey at night, reading. I have a constant dialogue in my head to keep me on track. I keep telling myself how much I want it, how good I feel, eating does not make my problems go away..just adds to existing ones. When these moments of weakness come on, do something else for yourself that you enjoy. My problem was after dinner snacking. I would just go to bed so I was not near the kitchen.
Victoza was a miracle drug for me. I took it for high sugars but it has amazing weight loss abilities because it makes you feel as though you just had a huge dinner. My endocrinologist prescribed it. I took it for 3 months and lost about 30 pounds. I went off of it but by that time I had learned about weighing, measuring and portion control. I continued to lose 15 more on my own. I feel like it saved me. I am off all meds now.
I just happened to read an article on Saxenda's recent FDA approval. It is a new drug for weight loss and contains the same active ingredient as Victoza. As always, scary looking potential side effects but if you are obese and Type 2 (practically the only people that can get a prescription), maybe it's worth a look.
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