Ultimate Chump for 2014

jjscholar

And the winner of the 2014 Ultimate Chump of the Year Award is: Me. Why you ask? The other day I thought I met a woman online who loved me as much as I thought I loved her. At least I did not loose any money in the whole stupid mess. At least I had some good friends who showed me the light so to speak on this stupid woman. I thought I had a very beautiful blonde woman for a girl friend. I did not expect this stupid woman to be a perfect Barbie Doll. I thought I was just very lucky when I met her online. Oh course I was wrong. Am I asking too much just to find love? I feel like a total chump right now. Man are people so cruel. I would to say that I am very sorry to everyone for being such a fool!!!! Man Christmas Sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

avibachar

Dude! Don't beat yourself up over this. Yes, it's ok to be disappointed and a little sad, but not mad at yourself. You did nothing wrong. This person was clearly a waste of your time and the bright side is, as you said, that you found out before losing any money.

Seeing the light was your Christmas present! Now you can enjoy the holidays with people who actually deserve to have you in their lives.

snowflake954

Other than a fool, I would think you consider yourself lucky to get out of this situation without losing anymore than a piece of your heart. Are you really going to ruin your Christmas over her? Is she worth that? Why don't you call a few friends and celebrate your "escape"? Reading your profile I think you've come a long way and have had successes. After the holidays get out there and give some attention to a woman who doesn't get that much---maybe someone in your Zumba classes? A surprise may await you if you're open to it. Wishing you a Merry Christmas.