My 'friend' implied I have an ugly body
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juicybravo
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Some girls are just jealous B******. Like my so called "friend" at work (I don't see how much of a friend she is now), I shared with her how I'm really serious about juicing for lunch and how I just bought a treadmill. Well, she begins ranting about how young single childless women nowadays have ugly bodies and are fat. And how her cousin, who has no children, used to be fat and now lost a lot of weight. Her cousin tried to make her feel bad for not 'trying' to lose weight. She tells me, that once she told her, "You might have lost a lot of weight, but you have extra elastic skin". She asks her cousin to pull her belly skin and they both compared. My "friend" then tells me, "see, even though she lost weight she still has all that lose skin, and even I who have 3 kids am tighter than her".
So here I am listening to this monster. I have no kids and I've lost 34 pounds. What is she trying to imply? that I might lose weight, but still have lose skin, therefore never achieving a nice body? What a sad person she is. I will not allow such negativity in my life.
Instead of cheering me on and congratulating me on my purchase and goals she pushes me down. What a poisonous person.
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So here I am listening to this monster. I have no kids and I've lost 34 pounds. What is she trying to imply? that I might lose weight, but still have lose skin, therefore never achieving a nice body? What a sad person she is. I will not allow such negativity in my life.
Instead of cheering me on and congratulating me on my purchase and goals she pushes me down. What a poisonous person.
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Well congrats on the lost weight. You could stand to lose that 'friend' too!0
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Don't let someone else's negativity get you down. This journey is all for you.0
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I'd rather have an ugly body than be an ugly person. Congratulations on your awesome progress!
Oh, and ditch the "friend".0 -
You're fine. I'm still loving all the people freaking out about me losing weight. "You don't need to lose any, stop losing weight!!"
Um, do you get to see me naked? No? THEN NO OPINION.
You're better off without her. And honestly, from what I hear, it's easier to get a nice body without kids. I have no kids either, but all my friends with kids have lose skin, stretch marks (that bother them), and can't seem to lose those last few pounds.
You're beautiful the way you are. Be proud of your 34 pounds lost! And ditch the co-worker.0 -
Don't worry about your friend. Forget her. You're young. If you drink a lot of water and work out while eating right your skin will tighten up.0
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Don't let her put you down. Always remember when people say bad things about you, it's because they don't have anything good to say about themselves. Congrats for the weight loss, keep it up0
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I would have called her out on her comments and asked her if she felt the same way about you. She sounds like a miserable person. I'd stay the heck away from her, she sounds like a negative soul sucking sucubus.0
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Did you feel like putting her in the juicer?0
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Someone should tell her that your skin is supposed to have elasticity. Especially when you pull on it.
I really believe that some people just exude horrible negative energy and will drain the life out of you if you let them. It just sounds like she's a very bitter person.0 -
wow, thanks everyone for the encouragement! :flowerforyou: I got a little teary eye there for a second.0
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hahahaha yes I did :bigsmile:0
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Some people geesh, just continue to get healthy.congrats on your weight loss so far and dont let people get you down, sounds to me it is an excuse for her not trying to lose and coninuing on her unhealthy way of life0
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They don't call "jealousy" the green eyed "monster" for nothing.0
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When people act that way, just remember it's really not about you - even if the comment sounds directed toward you. It's really that they have anger or hurt or insecurity within themselves, and they're projecting it onto you. I find that reminding myself of this really keeps negative people from having much of an impact on me.0
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When you are successful, you really find out who your true friends are. If a person can't celebrate your victories with you, she is not your friend. And it sounds like you are very successful! Keep up the good work.0
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Sounds like an 'ex-friend' to me. Congrats on your weight loss!0
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Is your body ugly?0
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Did you feel like putting her in the juicer?
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lol you said it, she sounds down right nasty. Honestly, I would have smiled and said "That's what cosmetic surgery is for," but it's likely better you said nothing and just chalked it up to her being jealous.0
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I'd rather have an ugly body than be an ugly person. Congratulations on your awesome progress!
Oh, and ditch the "friend".
^This!0
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