If you could give some advice to your 14 year old self. What would it be?.

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  • TEZofAllTrades
    TEZofAllTrades Posts: 51 Member
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    In the real world being thin and attractive is one of the most important things in life. If you don't change your attitude to food and fitness now, before it's too late, you will be miserable.
  • trouble007
    trouble007 Posts: 18 Member
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    Be picky about boys. Very picky. Otherwise keep being your weird self...it paid off. :-)
  • Spnneil06
    Spnneil06 Posts: 18,745 Member
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    Stay the heck out of the dugout with that boy, and don't date until AFTER high school.
  • determined_ella
    determined_ella Posts: 4,354 Member
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    Don't hide your porn stash in the Cluedo box!!

    ^ :joy: must have become awkward when the family wanted to play a family game! lol

    I would say.. stay away from men until you're 30! :joy:

  • Noogynoogs
    Noogynoogs Posts: 1,028 Member
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    Don't hide your porn stash in the Cluedo box!!

    Love it!!
  • joshua3179
    joshua3179 Posts: 2,882 Member
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    Self... Lock your door so mom doesn't walk in on you uhhhh you know... :neutral_face:
  • edensgarden2015
    edensgarden2015 Posts: 223 Member
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    When that boy asks you to the school dance...say no!!!
  • rjmudlax13
    rjmudlax13 Posts: 909 Member
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    If you like a girl just go talk to her. Have a normal conversation. Ask her out if it goes well. Be your goofy, slightly awkward, funny, intelligent self. It's really not that big of a deal. Rejection is not the end of the world. The worst thing that can happen is you will learn something for the next one. Also, trying really hard to be part of the "cool crowd" is a waste of time and ends up not meaning much after high school. Appreciate the great friends you already have. Just wait and see how some of those "cool" people end up anyway.

    Damn, I wish I wasn't so shy back then!!!
  • epido
    epido Posts: 353 Member
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    You are not fat! You are active, athletic, and healthy. Continue to stay active so you don't have over 100 pounds to lose in anther 30 years. In 3 years, your life is going to be turned upside down. Don't turn your back on the support of family and friends. They really are looking out for you and want to help you get through it.
  • HollyMGT
    HollyMGT Posts: 111 Member
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    Use vinegar on your acne, it really works! And, stop being so mopey and moody!
  • Beploveshomer
    Beploveshomer Posts: 283 Member
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    DO NOT TRY ALCOHOL. You will get a taste for beer that will lead to an unsightly gut!
  • assthetikk
    assthetikk Posts: 2,014 Member
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    Just chill and yank it like a monkey in a mango tree
  • GoldieGlocks
    GoldieGlocks Posts: 54 Member
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    Love yourself. Don't just sit there while people bully you, stick up for yourself.
  • MaxPower0102
    MaxPower0102 Posts: 2,654 Member
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    Mom was lying..... you won't go blind
  • determined_ella
    determined_ella Posts: 4,354 Member
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    rjmudlax13 wrote: »
    If you like a girl just go talk to her. Have a normal conversation. Ask her out if it goes well. Be your goofy, slightly awkward, funny, intelligent self. It's really not that big of a deal. Rejection is not the end of the world. The worst thing that can happen is you will learn something for the next one. Also, trying really hard to be part of the "cool crowd" is a waste of time and ends up not meaning much after high school. Appreciate the great friends you already have. Just wait and see how some of those "cool" people end up anyway.

    Damn, I wish I wasn't so shy back then!!!

    ^^ you sound like such a nice person :)


    Love yourself. Don't just sit there while people bully you, stick up for yourself.


    :heart:
  • Follow_me
    Follow_me Posts: 6,120 Member
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    Do better in school
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,833 Member
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    Don't try to be popular by doing stupid things with the dumba$$ kids! No more ditching classes and care about your future more!!!
  • fara180
    fara180 Posts: 1,260 Member
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    Chill out with the red lipstick, you look ridiculous.
  • 47Jacqueline
    47Jacqueline Posts: 6,993 Member
    edited January 2015
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    You will end up more successful and happy than all of them. And don't stifle your feelings.
  • exstromn
    exstromn Posts: 176 Member
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    Being chesty and having curves is alright! Stop comparing yourself to others and do your homework!