I want to lose some weight but not too much

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Hi! I'm gabriella and I want to tone up and lose this pouch im sporting on my stomach (my back fat, love handles, inner thighs, etc can go too lbs)

I say tone because I do like having a little meat on me. But I don't like that i self shame whenever I look in the mirror naked. Sure I think I'm hot but dammit id be hotter if i could move the weight from my arms to my *kitten*!

That's my story. And I'm here because I need friends. Or people to just help me stay focused. Encouragement is a thing I've never fully had in previous diet challenges. Which im thinking may be the reason I'm still a chubster.