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I will be 51 years old in April (wow) and have been overweight most of my life. I have what doctors call metabolic syndrome and prediabetes. I have to lose this weight to get healthy. I also just want to feel better about myself and be able to buy clothes without stressing. I have been married for 25 years to a wonderful man who loves me just the way I am but also is concerned about my health. I have three boys (21,19 and 15). I have tried many times and ways to lose weight in the past but didn't lose or gained it back. I would get frustrated and just give up and my body and emotions showed it. This time I am seeking others including my husband to help keep me motivated and accountable. I will keep doing this one day at a time and one foot in front of the other. I don't want to fail again.