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Maryaly40
Maryaly40 Posts: 551 Member
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This is for anybody who has any thoughts.

So, I think I take things the wrong way that come out of the mouths of men. So, I love Adam Levine (everyone has a celebrity crush:blushing: ) anyway, one of my guy friends starts saying to me "when you post things about Adam you're really talking about me" and then " when you think about Adam, you're thinking about me". Now, this guy is in fact good looking, but was he really being that arrogant/cocky or was he messing with me? I don't know........I got a little mad about what he said and turned on some sarcasm. He's my friend, but is he incinuating that I want him or something? He knows I'm married. What do you think?
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  • PlayerHatinDogooder
    PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member
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    I'll bring it up at the next 'Men meeting' and get back to you . . .
  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
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    He's got a crush on yah...
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
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    He is hinting....he wants to do you.....
  • EmilyOfTheSun
    EmilyOfTheSun Posts: 1,548 Member
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    If you're thinking that much into a little comment like that....you probably have a crush on him too. Admit it.
  • PoopieMonster
    PoopieMonster Posts: 295 Member
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    He is joking that he's on the same hot level as Adam Levine.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
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    He likes you.
  • Lynds7128
    Lynds7128 Posts: 132
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    He's got a crush on yah...

    This^^^

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  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,022 Member
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    This is for anybody who has any thoughts.

    What do you think?

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  • LuckyFur
    LuckyFur Posts: 96
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    It could be him flirting with you. It could be him joking with you. It could be him saying that he knows you're attracted to him.

    Let's cut to the chase . . . there's chemistry between you two isn't there?

    He knows it. You know it. Time for a decision. Are you going to stay with the man who's been there and loyal but that you feel no passion for or are you going to go after this hot and passionate Adam Levine wannabe?
  • saxmaniac
    saxmaniac Posts: 1,133 Member
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    It's called flirting.

    He doesn't literally think this is true, so arrogant is wrong.
    It's very unlikely he is messing with you, unless you killed his dog or something.

    Just enjoy it for what it is, and don't respond. Or do.
  • Maryaly40
    Maryaly40 Posts: 551 Member
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    I was really hoping he didn't like me that way. I'm still in denial about it really. He's young and attractive, why the hell is he attracted to an older, married woman? lol How does that work fellas? lol
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,487 Member
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    I don't know. I do not understand the flirting thing. I flirt all day long, but totally miss it when someone flirts with me. I'm a little slow.

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  • 1PatientBear
    1PatientBear Posts: 2,089 Member
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    He's flirting. He doesn't necessarily mean ANYTHING by it. Don't read into it too much and definitely don't get upset. I flirt a lot and the vast majority of my flirting is meant to just be harmless fun. Feel good about yourself that the guy thinks you're cool enough and attractive enough that he wants to flirt with you!!
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
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    Congratulations some guy actually flirted w/you ...and Surprise he's "married"
  • 1PatientBear
    1PatientBear Posts: 2,089 Member
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    Congratulations some guy actually flirted w/you ...and Surprise he's "married"

    Actually, she never said that. She said SHE is married, not him.
  • xtinakay84
    xtinakay84 Posts: 22
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    Flirting 101
  • aNewYear123
    aNewYear123 Posts: 279 Member
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    You are older, you are married, it is 'safe' for him to flirt with you.
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
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    He is hinting....he wants to do you.....

    Cliff always has the best answers! I agree. :bigsmile: Just blow him off. Man, it's hard to keep it SFW!!!

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