What's YOUR weakness when it comes to the opposite gender?

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  • SojournerThirteen
    SojournerThirteen Posts: 28,204 Member
    Sweet heart
    Spiritual (not meaning religious)
    Great Mom
    Above average intellect
    Good sense of humor
    Great work ethic
    Knows what teamwork is and can back it up in life
    Enjoys nawty and creative intimacy and humor
    Risk taker in love and intimacy
    Respects themselves and lives a reasonably healthy life overall
    And so much more <3
  • stephieleee
    stephieleee Posts: 113 Member
    physically; those goddamn manly broad shoulders ugh. /drool
  • SojournerThirteen
    SojournerThirteen Posts: 28,204 Member
    Damn!!! I had Godblessed broad shoulders :(:'(
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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    MellowGa wrote: »
    A Man who appreciates a Mature Woman! :bigsmile:
    One who's not always fawning over girls young enough to be his daughter!

    (Sure do see a lot of that going on!) :huh:

    to me I find this difficult, while I am not interested in any of the ladies on here I am super happily married with my wife (married 21, together 27) and I find her hotter now then when I met her.

    I also don't mind complimenting people, but there is that fine line to being nice/encouraging VS creepy.

    Because remember people are on here to change themselves for the better, sometimes a nice compliment helps boost confidence.

    but yes some people do go the creepy route, but I try and walk that fine line, I coached my Daughters soccer team for 13 years, all of the girls are in college and it's like I had 18 Daughters it's nice to see them turn into beautiful young ladies, but when I see them and they run up to me and hug me and Say , "Hey coach how are you!" I still see the little twelve year old girls with big eyes and smiles just enjoying life. They all know they have a second dad in me.

    But..but..what about our vacation :/ ..crushed :cry: ..

    Jk :laugh: the wife can come too
  • MellowGa
    MellowGa Posts: 1,258 Member
    MellowGa wrote: »
    A Man who appreciates a Mature Woman! :bigsmile:
    One who's not always fawning over girls young enough to be his daughter!

    (Sure do see a lot of that going on!) :huh:

    to me I find this difficult, while I am not interested in any of the ladies on here I am super happily married with my wife (married 21, together 27) and I find her hotter now then when I met her.

    I also don't mind complimenting people, but there is that fine line to being nice/encouraging VS creepy.

    Because remember people are on here to change themselves for the better, sometimes a nice compliment helps boost confidence.

    but yes some people do go the creepy route, but I try and walk that fine line, I coached my Daughters soccer team for 13 years, all of the girls are in college and it's like I had 18 Daughters it's nice to see them turn into beautiful young ladies, but when I see them and they run up to me and hug me and Say , "Hey coach how are you!" I still see the little twelve year old girls with big eyes and smiles just enjoying life. They all know they have a second dad in me.

    But..but..what about our vacation :/ ..crushed :cry: ..

    Jk :laugh: the wife can come too

    I'm liking my odds here.....
  • pbandwine
    pbandwine Posts: 1,236 Member
    something about a man in uniform...
  • CaptainFantastic00
    CaptainFantastic00 Posts: 4,619 Member
    pbandwine wrote: »
    something about a man in uniform...

    Just wait until I get into my applebee's clothes ;)
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  • Tariq_1997
    Tariq_1997 Posts: 143 Member
    To ladies..
    If she has that angel face that looks innocent with big beautiful eyes. The way she looks, style, the love..
    Everything
  • Mikey_boy0918
    Mikey_boy0918 Posts: 139 Member
    eyes and butt
  • axc985
    axc985 Posts: 55 Member
    Legs!!
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  • pudgy1977
    pudgy1977 Posts: 13,499 Member
    If my dog likes you it's a pretty good sign
  • xFunctionalStrengthx
    xFunctionalStrengthx Posts: 4,928 Member
    That flick of the hair, smile and wink...
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    I like it when a guy is a little bossy.
  • NatashaDNMS
    NatashaDNMS Posts: 173 Member
    A fit man's butt and abs. ;) lol
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  • CaptainFantastic00
    CaptainFantastic00 Posts: 4,619 Member
    Not talking bad about people. Just generally

    Well darn. I'm judgey mcjudgerson

    It's more specifically not ONLY talking *kitten* about people. Have some positive things to say.
  • CaptainFantastic00
    CaptainFantastic00 Posts: 4,619 Member
    Positivity, confidence and a darn good singing voice
  • SpirituallyBlonde
    SpirituallyBlonde Posts: 35 Member
    Physically on men - Nice strong arms and hands. But not so big they walk with them out from the sides of their bodies
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  • CaptainFantastic00
    CaptainFantastic00 Posts: 4,619 Member
    Physically on women.... that's it just being physically on them.... with consent of course
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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Confidence.. swagger but not too cocky :D
  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
    If he likes me in all my jiggly places
  • xFunctionalStrengthx
    xFunctionalStrengthx Posts: 4,928 Member
    Confidence.. swagger but not too cocky :D

    Something I used to teach someone: "It's fine to be confident. Just don't be too cocky about it"
    If he likes me in all my jiggly places

    But of course... ;)
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