What's YOUR weakness when it comes to the opposite gender?
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If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.3
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Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
ETA.. I know that sounds chauvinistic but it's a long story...5 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
I feel the act of driving does not need to be gendered.1 -
CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
I feel the act of driving does not need to be gendered.
That's not what I'm saying...
But I think in cases where two people get in the car... The man should drive...
I see it as my responsibility to get us there, something I take on my shoulders..
It's a long story...4 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
ETA.. I know that sounds chauvinistic but it's a long story...
Whenever I would offer to drive my ex husband would say,
“when daddy’s home, daddy drives”
For 35 years I only got to drive when he needed a designated driver.
......as if he’s a better driver than me, he’s not, grumble, grumble.......2 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
I feel the act of driving does not need to be gendered.
That's not what I'm saying...
But I think in cases where two people get in the car... The man should drive...
I see it as my responsibility to get us there, something I take on my shoulders..
It's a long story...
Are you trying to say, that the responsibility to get his family to their destination safely, is the mans responsibility?0 -
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CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
I feel the act of driving does not need to be gendered.
That's not what I'm saying...
But I think in cases where two people get in the car... The man should drive...
I see it as my responsibility to get us there, something I take on my shoulders..
It's a long story...
Are you trying to say, that the responsibility to get his family to their destination safely, is the mans responsibility?
Exactly...
The responsibility, burden however you want to look at it...
I'd rather it be on me...
I'm not saying women shouldn't be allowed to drive 😂4 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
I feel the act of driving does not need to be gendered.
That's not what I'm saying...
But I think in cases where two people get in the car... The man should drive...
I see it as my responsibility to get us there, something I take on my shoulders..
It's a long story...
Are you trying to say, that the responsibility to get his family to their destination safely, is the mans responsibility?
Exactly...
The responsibility, burden however you want to look at it...
I'd rather it be on me...
I'm not saying women shouldn't be allowed to drive 😂
I feel like in any relationship it should be a partnership. You’re both equally responsible for getting where you’re going.. I get the “men should drive” stuff but it’s 2019 and I feel like generally (at least In the US) it’s widely understood that we should be teams who carry each other rather than a man carrying the whole team. Use your partner. I’m sure she’s great otherwise you would t be there2 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
I feel the act of driving does not need to be gendered.
That's not what I'm saying...
But I think in cases where two people get in the car... The man should drive...
I see it as my responsibility to get us there, something I take on my shoulders..
It's a long story...
Are you trying to say, that the responsibility to get his family to their destination safely, is the mans responsibility?
Exactly...
The responsibility, burden however you want to look at it...
I'd rather it be on me...
I'm not saying women shouldn't be allowed to drive 😂
I get this. I usually drive whenever my wife and I go anywhere--99% of the time, anyway. It has nothing to do with her capability behind the wheel, and it has nothing to do with me asserting dominance as the "head of the household" or anything...it's simply me taking the burden of responsibility to get us there safely on myself, so she doesn't have to. And it works for us. Same reason I'll hold the door for her, etc..
I don't know if it has more to do with tradition (how I was raised) vs personality, but I do tend to be a guardian. I try to look out for the people who are closest to me, and a lot of times it manifests itself in aspects like that.
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Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
I feel the act of driving does not need to be gendered.
That's not what I'm saying...
But I think in cases where two people get in the car... The man should drive...
I see it as my responsibility to get us there, something I take on my shoulders..
It's a long story...
Are you trying to say, that the responsibility to get his family to their destination safely, is the mans responsibility?
Exactly...
The responsibility, burden however you want to look at it...
I'd rather it be on me...
I'm not saying women shouldn't be allowed to drive 😂
I know you better to know you’re not sexist. Although some of your ideals can come across that way, so for people who aren’t your friends, it may look that way. And I agree with you to some degree. I notice often times, men are more confident drives. This morning for example, I had a meeting about an hour away, and I was very anxious to drive as we’re in a stage 4 ice storm. By all accounts no one should be on the road today, most things aren’t open, but this wasn’t a meeting I could afford to miss. My boyfriend being the more confident driver, wanted to drive me and thank god for him because it was like an ice rink out there. I would have ended up on the side of the road having an anxiety attack. He has an overwhelming sense of needing to protect others and so I can relate to you in some ways. And I might add it’s one of my favourite things about him, and you
Just remember J, it’s not what you say, but how you say it
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CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
I feel the act of driving does not need to be gendered.
That's not what I'm saying...
But I think in cases where two people get in the car... The man should drive...
I see it as my responsibility to get us there, something I take on my shoulders..
It's a long story...
Are you trying to say, that the responsibility to get his family to their destination safely, is the mans responsibility?
Exactly...
The responsibility, burden however you want to look at it...
I'd rather it be on me...
I'm not saying women shouldn't be allowed to drive 😂
I feel like in any relationship it should be a partnership. You’re both equally responsible for getting where you’re going.. I get the “men should drive” stuff but it’s 2019 and I feel like generally (at least In the US) it’s widely understood that we should be teams who carry each other rather than a man carrying the whole team. Use your partner. I’m sure she’s great otherwise you would t be there
I won't disagree with you on any of this Brother and feel the same way in many respects...
Some things tho, I just can't help my old fashion ways.5 -
Reckoner67 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
I feel the act of driving does not need to be gendered.
That's not what I'm saying...
But I think in cases where two people get in the car... The man should drive...
I see it as my responsibility to get us there, something I take on my shoulders..
It's a long story...
Are you trying to say, that the responsibility to get his family to their destination safely, is the mans responsibility?
Exactly...
The responsibility, burden however you want to look at it...
I'd rather it be on me...
I'm not saying women shouldn't be allowed to drive 😂
I get this. I usually drive whenever my wife and I go anywhere--99% of the time, anyway. It has nothing to do with her capability behind the wheel, and it has nothing to do with me asserting dominance as the "head of the household" or anything...it's simply me taking the burden of responsibility to get us there safely on myself, so she doesn't have to. And it works for us. Same reason I'll hold the door for her, etc..
I don't know if it has more to do with tradition (how I was raised) vs personality, but I do tend to be a guardian. I try to look out for the people who are closest to me, and a lot of times it manifests itself in aspects like that.
You 100% get me Dude...3 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
ETA.. I know that sounds chauvinistic but it's a long story...
i agree mostly bc i am a terrible driver but a really good passenger
Are you a backseat driver 😂1 -
honeybee__12 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
ETA.. I know that sounds chauvinistic but it's a long story...
Whenever I would offer to drive my ex husband would say,
“when daddy’s home, daddy drives”
For 35 years I only got to drive when he needed a designated driver.
......as if he’s a better driver than me, he’s not, grumble, grumble.......
I'm totally stealing that line 😂2 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
I feel the act of driving does not need to be gendered.
That's not what I'm saying...
But I think in cases where two people get in the car... The man should drive...
I see it as my responsibility to get us there, something I take on my shoulders..
It's a long story...
Are you trying to say, that the responsibility to get his family to their destination safely, is the mans responsibility?
Exactly...
The responsibility, burden however you want to look at it...
I'd rather it be on me...
I'm not saying women shouldn't be allowed to drive 😂
I know you better to know you’re not sexist. Although some of your ideals can come across that way, so for people who aren’t your friends, it may look that way. And I agree with you to some degree. I notice often times, men are more confident drives. This morning for example, I had a meeting about an hour away, and I was very anxious to drive as we’re in a stage 4 ice storm. By all accounts no one should be on the road today, most things aren’t open, but this wasn’t a meeting I could afford to miss. My boyfriend being the more confident driver, wanted to drive me and thank god for him because it was like an ice rink out there. I would have ended up on the side of the road having an anxiety attack. He has an overwhelming sense of needing to protect others and so I can relate to you in some ways. And I might add it’s one of my favourite things about him, and you
Just remember J, it’s not what you say, but how you say it
Ppff ice storm 😮...
Your totally driving, I'll get us killed... California remember 🤷🏽♂️... You're probably much more use to the ice...
I kid tho, still ain't letting you drive 😂... 💕1 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
ETA.. I know that sounds chauvinistic but it's a long story...
i agree mostly bc i am a terrible driver but a really good passenger
can u drive stick?1 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
ETA.. I know that sounds chauvinistic but it's a long story...
i agree mostly bc i am a terrible driver but a really good passenger
Are you a backseat driver 😂
OMG PASS THAT GUY ALREADY I FEEL LIKE WE’RE IN A FUNERAL PROCESSION FFS
Hey Lady!
D'you wanna drive, I'll turn it around right now!
Now that I know what you sound like, I can not picture you losing it like this 😂2 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
ETA.. I know that sounds chauvinistic but it's a long story...
HAHAHA
My grandmother never drove. Whenever she needed to go somewhere, she would tell her husband. He would grumble about it and then drive her. She never needed to drive and never wanted to. He took care of it.
When my parents go out, my dad drives. My mom navigates. lol (cuz guys don't ask for directions..... so you always need a good navigator!)
My brother always drives and my sister-in-law avoids it like the plague. They have 4 kids. She is scared of driving and getting stuck somewhere with all the kids.
When I was married, I always drove. But that's because it was my car, and he had a suspended license.
Personally, I love driving. And that works out, because I get carsick after 20 minutes, if I am not driving..... But if I didn't? I would totally be in the passenger seat, DOMINATING the radio.
Also, I like the whole "man taking care of his family" like a guardian/protector sort of deal. But I come from a more traditional old school type of family.
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Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
ETA.. I know that sounds chauvinistic but it's a long story...
HAHAHA
My grandmother never drove. Whenever she needed to go somewhere, she would tell her husband. He would grumble about it and then drive her. She never needed to drive and never wanted to. He took care of it.
When my parents go out, my dad drives. My mom navigates. lol (cuz guys don't ask for directions..... so you always need a good navigator!)
My brother always drives and my sister-in-law avoids it like the plague. They have 4 kids. She is scared of driving and getting stuck somewhere with all the kids.
When I was married, I always drove. But that's because it was my car, and he had a suspended license.
Personally, I love driving. And that works out, because I get carsick after 20 minutes, if I am not driving..... But if I didn't? I would totally be in the passenger seat, DOMINATING the radio.
Also, I like the whole "man taking care of his family" like a guardian/protector sort of deal. But I come from a more traditional old school type of family.
If the choice was "I drive or I vomit all over the car" I'd definitely give up the driver's seat, heh1 -
@Mr_Healthy_Habits, I think I may remember your long story, and it was your responsibility, if my memory is right.
I don't mind being a passenger as long as I feel safe with the driver, some people I don't want driving me anywhere, their driving terrifies me.
I'm a nervous driver, and take it as a big responsibility. I don't like having passengers because I don't want to be responsible for them, makes me even more nervous. I prefer to be a passenger usually for this reason.
The weather Channel is showing falling triangles for the next 2 days here (falling triangles are never good), and I'm getting jittery thinking about driving in it.1 -
I think I am an excellent driver.1
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CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »liftorgohome wrote: »Mini skirts and cleavage. Boobies!liftorgohome wrote: »Sense of humor
looks like you're backsliding brother. You can't have both
Such a cynic...3 -
laprimaJenny wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
I feel the act of driving does not need to be gendered.
That's not what I'm saying...
But I think in cases where two people get in the car... The man should drive...
I see it as my responsibility to get us there, something I take on my shoulders..
It's a long story...
Are you trying to say, that the responsibility to get his family to their destination safely, is the mans responsibility?
Exactly...
The responsibility, burden however you want to look at it...
I'd rather it be on me...
I'm not saying women shouldn't be allowed to drive 😂
I understand what you are trying to say and I understand the thought process behind it all. But there have been many times where my husband felt it was his responsibility to drive despite how much he drank, for example. Would it be more safe for him to drive because I had one glass of wine all night, compared to his 3 in this instance?! Or is it better to determine who is the most sober in the moment?! I adore when my husband feels it’s his obligation as a man and father to provide us safety. Yet, at the same time, nothing feels worse than that feeling as if my capabilities are deemed less than his.
That last part is well stated and something I should try to remember, thanks for the perspective 💕0 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »If he can always be my designated driver regardless of distance.
Honestly, call me old fashioned...
But driving is a man's job... It drives me crazy to look over at another car and see some Dude sitting there letting his woman drive...
Although I realize sometimes exceptions are necessary...
ETA.. I know that sounds chauvinistic but it's a long story...
HAHAHA
My grandmother never drove. Whenever she needed to go somewhere, she would tell her husband. He would grumble about it and then drive her. She never needed to drive and never wanted to. He took care of it.
When my parents go out, my dad drives. My mom navigates. lol (cuz guys don't ask for directions..... so you always need a good navigator!)
My brother always drives and my sister-in-law avoids it like the plague. They have 4 kids. She is scared of driving and getting stuck somewhere with all the kids.
When I was married, I always drove. But that's because it was my car, and he had a suspended license.
Personally, I love driving. And that works out, because I get carsick after 20 minutes, if I am not driving..... But if I didn't? I would totally be in the passenger seat, DOMINATING the radio.
Also, I like the whole "man taking care of his family" like a guardian/protector sort of deal. But I come from a more traditional old school type of family.
I totally get it... Dis me and all lol...
But he who controls the wheel, picks the music 🤷🏽♂️😂...0
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