What's YOUR weakness when it comes to the opposite gender?
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_sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »When I walk in to the room to change and he drops his phone because he rather watch me....
Phone down, please begin4 -
When we decide to get together with no plans. Absolutely no plans. Nothing for meals, nothing for entertainment, absolutely nothin. Just to chillax together.
We’ll let the mood dictate what we’re going to do.
What will we eat? Who cares. We’ll figure it out.
What we gonna fo?Who cares.
Where we gonna go? Who cares if we do but if we decide to we’ll hop in the truck snd just drive.
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When he’s kind and always treats you the same no matter what kind of mood he’s in1
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When we decide to get together with no plans. Absolutely no plans. Nothing for meals, nothing for entertainment, absolutely nothin. Just to chillax together.
We’ll let the mood dictate what we’re going to do.
What will we eat? Who cares. We’ll figure it out.
What we gonna fo?Who cares.
Where we gonna go? Who cares if we do but if we decide to we’ll hop in the truck snd just drive.
This is good stuff my man0 -
Shakashakara wrote: »When he’s kind and always treats you the same no matter what kind of mood he’s in
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Shakashakara wrote: »When we decide to get together with no plans. Absolutely no plans. Nothing for meals, nothing for entertainment, absolutely nothin. Just to chillax together.
We’ll let the mood dictate what we’re going to do.
What will we eat? Who cares. We’ll figure it out.
What we gonna fo?Who cares.
Where we gonna go? Who cares if we do but if we decide to we’ll hop in the truck snd just drive.
This is good stuff my man
Bro, I appreciate the compliment, no disrespect, but it’s not good stuff. It’s my opinion about how women should be treated and my weakness towards women.
But, I understand where yer coming from.2 -
Shakashakara wrote: »When we decide to get together with no plans. Absolutely no plans. Nothing for meals, nothing for entertainment, absolutely nothin. Just to chillax together.
We’ll let the mood dictate what we’re going to do.
What will we eat? Who cares. We’ll figure it out.
What we gonna fo?Who cares.
Where we gonna go? Who cares if we do but if we decide to we’ll hop in the truck snd just drive.
This is good stuff my man
Bro, I appreciate the compliment, no disrespect, but it’s not good stuff. It’s my opinion about how women should be treated and my weakness towards women.
But, I understand where yer coming from.
Not sure how you thought i meant it. Just saying it sounds lovely 😁Edit: do i need to change my profile pic to a radioactive pancake again for you to know me? 😌1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Shakashakara wrote: »When he’s kind and always treats you the same no matter what kind of mood he’s in
Yeah you see me ☺️1 -
Dudes… I’m FBR and got no idea.1
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Shakashakara wrote: »
I can’t say or people will get but hurt.
Full Blown…
My engine is running like the timing needs advanced significantly.2 -
Reliable. And clear with what they want. And not afraid to show it.2
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Smart, Funny, Adventurous, Dependable, Caring, Spontaneous, I could go on ... I just have way too many weaknesses!!!2
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Shakashakara wrote: »
Prove it... Lots of people can just waltz in here and pretend that 🙄...5 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Shakashakara wrote: »
Prove it... Lots of people can just waltz in here and pretend that 🙄...
I’m caco_ethes! 👹😎2 -
Consistency. Effort. Compromise. Nice arms.2
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I've been locked in the house for over 1-yr.
I forget... who are the guys again... the taller ones?3 -
When he's happy with just us1
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@Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Shakashakara wrote: »
Prove it... Lots of people can just waltz in here and pretend that 🙄...
I posted in the selfie thread like a week ago 🤣2 -
Shakashakara wrote: »@Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Shakashakara wrote: »
Prove it... Lots of people can just waltz in here and pretend that 🙄...
I posted in the selfie thread like a week ago 🤣
Ppff... I post lots of places with your photo 🤷🏽♂️...
😂... Kidding 😁5 -
Shakashakara wrote: »
Why do you people do that??!!
It messes with my already meager little brain in such a huge way. Couldn't have been all that long ago because I remember you.
But it's valuable information which I'll forget in about 45 seconds if I don't find a post-it soon. 4 -
Engagement. It's intoxicating.
I've gotten so used to past bf's taking loyalty & commitment for granted & rarely having eye contact (after that 1st 6-mo period, when they knew they had me & gave up... their challenge was over, I guess), 'til the day I've had enough & am packing to leave... then suddenly, flowers, eye contact with puppy eyes & attention.
Too late, ya dud... you had < fill in the blank > months/yrs to do all that & didn't. Suddenly, one pink Anne Klein heel is out the door with my last box of steak knives & white tea towels & now you want to have deep meaningful engagement, rather than your usual lying about like an elderly canine, watching Star Trek reruns for the 100th time this year? Ah, nah, no, not again.
I was at the market 2-days ago & some random dude asked me a question in the produce isle with prolonged, direct eye contact. I was so unnerved, I almost bolted like a frightened deer on my untanned getaway sticks. Now, I realize many of us have been shut-in for over 1-yr... & admittedly, as an introvert who isn't usually comfortable with creatures of the human persuasion, it's not hard for me to feel off-kilter, even just shopping... but, I forgot that there are others besides me who try to be present.
My only thought was... is that how normal men interact with normal women? That hadn't happened to me in 1, 2, 3, ah lots of years.
The last time I had direct eye contact like that with a man, was the day I left my ex-bf to move from CO to CA, more than a few yrs ago... & he was trying to convince me to stay, with flowers (partially wilted, filler flowers on sale from the supermarket), handwritten love notes tucked into my packed belongings, saying my name (gee, when was the last time I'd heard that... ah, months, a year, from my mum?) & intense, big, round puppy eyes. My only thought then was... how meaningless, with your wilted flowers.
Engagement is intoxicating, when it's meaningful. I don't like people to think they have no meaning. A tiny bit of engagement goes a long way, especially to a shy, quiet introvert like me.
Now, is that so hard?4 -
BraydanTaffy wrote: »Engagement. It's intoxicating.
I've gotten so used to past bf's taking loyalty & commitment for granted & rarely having eye contact (after that 1st 6-mo period, when they knew they had me & gave up... their challenge was over, I guess), 'til the day I've had enough & am packing to leave... then suddenly, flowers, eye contact with puppy eyes & attention.
Too late, ya dud... you had < fill in the blank > months/yrs to do all that & didn't. Suddenly, one pink Anne Klein heel is out the door with my last box of steak knives & white tea towels & now you want to have deep meaningful engagement, rather than your usual lying about like an elderly canine, watching Star Trek reruns for the 100th time this year? Ah, nah, no, not again.
I was at the market 2-days ago & some random dude asked me a question in the produce isle with prolonged, direct eye contact. I was so unnerved, I almost bolted like a frightened deer on my untanned getaway sticks. Now, I realize many of us have been shut-in for over 1-yr... & admittedly, as an introvert who isn't usually comfortable with creatures of the human persuasion, it's not hard for me to feel off-kilter, even just shopping... but, I forgot that there are others besides me who try to be present.
My only thought was... is that how normal men interact with normal women? That hadn't happened to me in 1, 2, 3, ah lots of years.
The last time I had direct eye contact like that with a man, was the day I left my ex-bf to move from CO to CA, more than a few yrs ago... & he was trying to convince me to stay, with flowers (partially wilted, filler flowers on sale from the supermarket), handwritten love notes tucked into my packed belongings, saying my name (gee, when was the last time I'd heard that... ah, months, a year, from my mum?) & intense, big, round puppy eyes. My only thought then was... how meaningless, with your wilted flowers.
Engagement is intoxicating, when it's meaningful. I don't like people to think they have no meaning. A tiny bit of engagement goes a long way, especially to a shy, quiet introvert like me.
Now, is that so hard?
Untanned get away sticks 💀😂 I love that. This was written well and it resonates with me. I hope you find someone who keeps trying. I end up with those types all the time too. You’re a piece of furniture until you leave.1 -
OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Engagement. It's intoxicating.
I've gotten so used to past bf's taking loyalty & commitment for granted & rarely having eye contact (after that 1st 6-mo period, when they knew they had me & gave up... their challenge was over, I guess), 'til the day I've had enough & am packing to leave... then suddenly, flowers, eye contact with puppy eyes & attention.
Too late, ya dud... you had < fill in the blank > months/yrs to do all that & didn't. Suddenly, one pink Anne Klein heel is out the door with my last box of steak knives & white tea towels & now you want to have deep meaningful engagement, rather than your usual lying about like an elderly canine, watching Star Trek reruns for the 100th time this year? Ah, nah, no, not again.
I was at the market 2-days ago & some random dude asked me a question in the produce isle with prolonged, direct eye contact. I was so unnerved, I almost bolted like a frightened deer on my untanned getaway sticks. Now, I realize many of us have been shut-in for over 1-yr... & admittedly, as an introvert who isn't usually comfortable with creatures of the human persuasion, it's not hard for me to feel off-kilter, even just shopping... but, I forgot that there are others besides me who try to be present.
My only thought was... is that how normal men interact with normal women? That hadn't happened to me in 1, 2, 3, ah lots of years.
The last time I had direct eye contact like that with a man, was the day I left my ex-bf to move from CO to CA, more than a few yrs ago... & he was trying to convince me to stay, with flowers (partially wilted, filler flowers on sale from the supermarket), handwritten love notes tucked into my packed belongings, saying my name (gee, when was the last time I'd heard that... ah, months, a year, from my mum?) & intense, big, round puppy eyes. My only thought then was... how meaningless, with your wilted flowers.
Engagement is intoxicating, when it's meaningful. I don't like people to think they have no meaning. A tiny bit of engagement goes a long way, especially to a shy, quiet introvert like me.
Now, is that so hard?
Untanned get away sticks 💀😂 I love that. This was written well and it resonates with me. I hope you find someone who keeps trying. I end up with those types all the time too. You’re a piece of furniture until you leave.
TY for your nice words. I guess if we live long enough, most of us have had relationship woes.
In reality, once I realized I/we create or allow everything, I changed. Who knew it was so easy to walk away.
Be well...1 -
OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Engagement. It's intoxicating.
I've gotten so used to past bf's taking loyalty & commitment for granted & rarely having eye contact (after that 1st 6-mo period, when they knew they had me & gave up... their challenge was over, I guess), 'til the day I've had enough & am packing to leave... then suddenly, flowers, eye contact with puppy eyes & attention.
Too late, ya dud... you had < fill in the blank > months/yrs to do all that & didn't. Suddenly, one pink Anne Klein heel is out the door with my last box of steak knives & white tea towels & now you want to have deep meaningful engagement, rather than your usual lying about like an elderly canine, watching Star Trek reruns for the 100th time this year? Ah, nah, no, not again.
I was at the market 2-days ago & some random dude asked me a question in the produce isle with prolonged, direct eye contact. I was so unnerved, I almost bolted like a frightened deer on my untanned getaway sticks. Now, I realize many of us have been shut-in for over 1-yr... & admittedly, as an introvert who isn't usually comfortable with creatures of the human persuasion, it's not hard for me to feel off-kilter, even just shopping... but, I forgot that there are others besides me who try to be present.
My only thought was... is that how normal men interact with normal women? That hadn't happened to me in 1, 2, 3, ah lots of years.
The last time I had direct eye contact like that with a man, was the day I left my ex-bf to move from CO to CA, more than a few yrs ago... & he was trying to convince me to stay, with flowers (partially wilted, filler flowers on sale from the supermarket), handwritten love notes tucked into my packed belongings, saying my name (gee, when was the last time I'd heard that... ah, months, a year, from my mum?) & intense, big, round puppy eyes. My only thought then was... how meaningless, with your wilted flowers.
Engagement is intoxicating, when it's meaningful. I don't like people to think they have no meaning. A tiny bit of engagement goes a long way, especially to a shy, quiet introvert like me.
Now, is that so hard?
You’re a piece of furniture until you leave.
I would like to be an end-table.
No.
Wait.
A Recliner.... yeah, a Recliner.
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Motorsheen wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »BraydanTaffy wrote: »Engagement. It's intoxicating.
I've gotten so used to past bf's taking loyalty & commitment for granted & rarely having eye contact (after that 1st 6-mo period, when they knew they had me & gave up... their challenge was over, I guess), 'til the day I've had enough & am packing to leave... then suddenly, flowers, eye contact with puppy eyes & attention.
Too late, ya dud... you had < fill in the blank > months/yrs to do all that & didn't. Suddenly, one pink Anne Klein heel is out the door with my last box of steak knives & white tea towels & now you want to have deep meaningful engagement, rather than your usual lying about like an elderly canine, watching Star Trek reruns for the 100th time this year? Ah, nah, no, not again.
I was at the market 2-days ago & some random dude asked me a question in the produce isle with prolonged, direct eye contact. I was so unnerved, I almost bolted like a frightened deer on my untanned getaway sticks. Now, I realize many of us have been shut-in for over 1-yr... & admittedly, as an introvert who isn't usually comfortable with creatures of the human persuasion, it's not hard for me to feel off-kilter, even just shopping... but, I forgot that there are others besides me who try to be present.
My only thought was... is that how normal men interact with normal women? That hadn't happened to me in 1, 2, 3, ah lots of years.
The last time I had direct eye contact like that with a man, was the day I left my ex-bf to move from CO to CA, more than a few yrs ago... & he was trying to convince me to stay, with flowers (partially wilted, filler flowers on sale from the supermarket), handwritten love notes tucked into my packed belongings, saying my name (gee, when was the last time I'd heard that... ah, months, a year, from my mum?) & intense, big, round puppy eyes. My only thought then was... how meaningless, with your wilted flowers.
Engagement is intoxicating, when it's meaningful. I don't like people to think they have no meaning. A tiny bit of engagement goes a long way, especially to a shy, quiet introvert like me.
Now, is that so hard?
You’re a piece of furniture until you leave.
I would like to be an end-table.
No.
Wait.
A Recliner.... yeah, a Recliner.
You have lovely Corinthian leather.
I don't mean that in a sexist way.
Or, maybe I do... cuz I've never seen a female Corinthian recliner.2 -
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