What's the surest way to know if your ex wants you back?

Feelgood97
Feelgood97 Posts: 89 Member
edited November 12 in Chit-Chat
You want to make sure you're not wasting your time on something futile.

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  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,226 Member
    edited February 2015
    I would think long and hard about why they're an ex. If you did the breaking up, you had reasons. If they did, then you'd need to be very confident that they aren't just coming using you as something to come back to.
  • krysmuree
    krysmuree Posts: 326 Member
    Alatariel75 wrote: »
    I would think long and hard about why they're an ex. If you did the breaking up, you had reasons. If they did, then you'd need to be very confident that they aren't just coming using you as something to come back to.

    So true.
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  • Cassie_DE
    Cassie_DE Posts: 58 Member
    Don't go back to something that wasn't good enough for either your ex or yourself. If you're still not sure, consult your family and close friends.
  • xotaaay
    xotaaay Posts: 30
    There's no 'surest' way to know really. Maybe they want you back & they are too shy/scared to tell you because they are afraid you don't want THEM back. I would say if they have been contacting you a lot then that shows they may want you back (unless you have children together and you have to communicate). If he/she is asking questions about your life, how you've been, then they probably miss you. Chances are, it WON'T work out the second (or third etc) time with your ex.
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  • LovingLifeInCalifornia
    LovingLifeInCalifornia Posts: 9,362 Member
    BLACKxLABEL wrote: »
    You wake up at 2 in the morning with her riding you

    LOL. Well, that would do it. Though...really you wouldn't be sure if she wanted you back or you were just the 2am booty call. Just saying.
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  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    god gave you two arms, why do you have two if most people only use one? use them both !!! Get plenty of wimmins and make sure you have one in each arm when you see your ex. This should pique her attention!
  • iwillsucceed0444
    iwillsucceed0444 Posts: 432 Member
    BLACKxLABEL wrote: »
    You wake up at 2 in the morning with her riding you

    You liked that babe, right? So are we getting back together?
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    in all truthfulness, you should focus on school, and a future. You do not need to be in any relationship until YOU are a catch. In the meantime....NO RELATIONSHIPS, just wrap that little guy and finish school, get a career, save some $$.
  • LovingLifeInCalifornia
    LovingLifeInCalifornia Posts: 9,362 Member
    BLACKxLABEL wrote: »
    LovingLifeInCalifornia wrote: »
    BLACKxLABEL wrote: »
    You wake up at 2 in the morning with her riding you

    LOL. Well, that would do it. Though...really you wouldn't be sure if she wanted you back or you were just the 2am booty call. Just saying.

    True, but for me, it always ended up meaning that things were "fixed"

    Until it wasn't...right? Because if it happened more than once, it was just a temporary "fix" ;)
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  • LovingLifeInCalifornia
    LovingLifeInCalifornia Posts: 9,362 Member
    BLACKxLABEL wrote: »
    LovingLifeInCalifornia wrote: »
    BLACKxLABEL wrote: »
    LovingLifeInCalifornia wrote: »
    BLACKxLABEL wrote: »
    You wake up at 2 in the morning with her riding you

    LOL. Well, that would do it. Though...really you wouldn't be sure if she wanted you back or you were just the 2am booty call. Just saying.

    True, but for me, it always ended up meaning that things were "fixed"

    Until it wasn't...right? Because if it happened more than once, it was just a temporary "fix" ;)

    Exactly. Same ole BS two weeks later..... Rinse and repeat

    At least she came back for more? :wink:
  • Follow_me
    Follow_me Posts: 6,120 Member
    Who cares? Aren't they an EX for a reason?
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