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Finding the right partner

inthslif
inthslif Posts: 96 Member
edited November 2024 in Motivation and Support
Having ur partner be the main motivation in ur weight loss is very important

Replies

  • Train4Foodz
    Train4Foodz Posts: 4,298 Member
    Hey there,
    Maybe you could elabotate on your post a little, it is a little vague. Partner in what way?
    As in romantic partner or fitness/gym partner?

    I find that having my goals centre stage and the urge to get to them motivate me the most.
    Relying on others for complete motivation isn't soemthing that I think would work 'long term' but I definately agree that having a partner of any kind, whether that be gym or life partner backing you up along the way helps!

    Have a great day!

    Adam
  • RodaRose
    RodaRose Posts: 9,562 Member
    Are you talking about having a supportive signifiant other at home?
  • inthslif
    inthslif Posts: 96 Member
    Adam2k10 wrote: »
    Hey there,
    Maybe you could elabotate on your post a little, it is a little vague. Partner in what way?
    As in romantic partner or fitness/gym partner?

    I find that having my goals centre stage and the urge to get to them motivate me the most.
    Relying on others for complete motivation isn't soemthing that I think would work 'long term' but I definately agree that having a partner of any kind, whether that be gym or life partner backing you up along the way helps!

    Have a great day!

    Adam

    Of course romantic. .....it helps greatly to have someone push u every day
  • inthslif
    inthslif Posts: 96 Member
    RodaRose wrote: »
    Are you talking about having a supportive signifiant other at home?

    Yes......someone to push u toward ur goal
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    edited February 2015
    inthslif wrote: »
    Adam2k10 wrote: »
    Hey there,
    Maybe you could elabotate on your post a little, it is a little vague. Partner in what way?
    As in romantic partner or fitness/gym partner?

    I find that having my goals centre stage and the urge to get to them motivate me the most.
    Relying on others for complete motivation isn't soemthing that I think would work 'long term' but I definately agree that having a partner of any kind, whether that be gym or life partner backing you up along the way helps!

    Have a great day!

    Adam

    Of course romantic. .....it helps greatly to have someone push u every day

    Any partner I have will never be my main motivation. I am my main motivation.
  • emdeesea
    emdeesea Posts: 1,823 Member
    Er no. People have to be their own motivation.

    There's no guarantee in life that your partner is always going to be there for you. And if you're single, there's nothing attractive about someone who can't stand on their own two feet and take care of themselves without being constantly pushed or patted on the back.

  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    _dracarys_ wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Adam2k10 wrote: »
    Hey there,
    Maybe you could elabotate on your post a little, it is a little vague. Partner in what way?
    As in romantic partner or fitness/gym partner?

    I find that having my goals centre stage and the urge to get to them motivate me the most.
    Relying on others for complete motivation isn't soemthing that I think would work 'long term' but I definately agree that having a partner of any kind, whether that be gym or life partner backing you up along the way helps!

    Have a great day!

    Adam

    Of course romantic. .....it helps greatly to have someone push u every day

    Any partner I have will never be my main motivation. I am my main motivation.

    This OP. You are doing it wrong but if it works your way for you it works.

  • inthslif
    inthslif Posts: 96 Member
    _dracarys_ wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Adam2k10 wrote: »
    Hey there,
    Maybe you could elabotate on your post a little, it is a little vague. Partner in what way?
    As in romantic partner or fitness/gym partner?

    I find that having my goals centre stage and the urge to get to them motivate me the most.
    Relying on others for complete motivation isn't soemthing that I think would work 'long term' but I definately agree that having a partner of any kind, whether that be gym or life partner backing you up along the way helps!

    Have a great day!

    Adam

    Of course romantic. .....it helps greatly to have someone push u every day

    Any partner I have will never be my main motivation. I am my main motivation.

    That's great. ....... I'm just saying it's really nice to have a partner who is working with u
  • inthslif
    inthslif Posts: 96 Member
    emdeesea wrote: »
    Er no. People have to be their own motivation.

    There's no guarantee in life that your partner is always going to be there for you. And if you're single, there's nothing attractive about someone who can't stand on their own two feet and take care of themselves without being constantly pushed or patted on the back.

    [/quotes
    There r no guarantees with ur partner. .....it just helps
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    inthslif wrote: »
    Adam2k10 wrote: »
    Hey there,
    Maybe you could elabotate on your post a little, it is a little vague. Partner in what way?
    As in romantic partner or fitness/gym partner?

    I find that having my goals centre stage and the urge to get to them motivate me the most.
    Relying on others for complete motivation isn't soemthing that I think would work 'long term' but I definately agree that having a partner of any kind, whether that be gym or life partner backing you up along the way helps!

    Have a great day!

    Adam

    Of course romantic. .....it helps greatly to have someone push u every day

    No.

    My partner isn't interested at all, but that has no effect on my motivation as I'm doing it for me, not him.
  • inthslif
    inthslif Posts: 96 Member
    inthslif wrote: »
    Adam2k10 wrote: »
    Hey there,
    Maybe you could elabotate on your post a little, it is a little vague. Partner in what way?
    As in romantic partner or fitness/gym partner?

    I find that having my goals centre stage and the urge to get to them motivate me the most.
    Relying on others for complete motivation isn't soemthing that I think would work 'long term' but I definately agree that having a partner of any kind, whether that be gym or life partner backing you up along the way helps!

    Have a great day!

    Adam

    Of course romantic. .....it helps greatly to have someone push u every day

    No.

    My partner isn't interested at all, but that has no effect on my motivation as I'm doing it for me, not him.

    That's ur opinion. ....i think having a partner working with u helps.......my opinion. ......u still need self motivation. .....that's a given
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    inthslif wrote: »
    Having ur partner be the main motivation in ur weight loss is very important

    I can agree that having your partner be supportive is nice and helpful. I disagree that they should be your main source of motivation.

    Are you losing weight because your partner wants you to? I don't think that is the best source of motivation if that is the case.
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    _dracarys_ wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Adam2k10 wrote: »
    Hey there,
    Maybe you could elabotate on your post a little, it is a little vague. Partner in what way?
    As in romantic partner or fitness/gym partner?

    I find that having my goals centre stage and the urge to get to them motivate me the most.
    Relying on others for complete motivation isn't soemthing that I think would work 'long term' but I definately agree that having a partner of any kind, whether that be gym or life partner backing you up along the way helps!

    Have a great day!

    Adam

    Of course romantic. .....it helps greatly to have someone push u every day

    Any partner I have will never be my main motivation. I am my main motivation.

    So much this.

  • inthslif
    inthslif Posts: 96 Member
    Lounmoun wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Having ur partner be the main motivation in ur weight loss is very important

    I can agree that having your partner be supportive is nice and helpful. I disagree that they should be your main source of motivation.

    Are you losing weight because your partner wants you to? I don't think that is the best source of motivation if that is the case.

    No..... I'm my main motivation. .....she introduced me to this app......we help each other. ...she loved me when I was heavy. ...never an issue
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    inthslif wrote: »
    Lounmoun wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Having ur partner be the main motivation in ur weight loss is very important

    I can agree that having your partner be supportive is nice and helpful. I disagree that they should be your main source of motivation.

    Are you losing weight because your partner wants you to? I don't think that is the best source of motivation if that is the case.

    No..... I'm my main motivation. .....she introduced me to this app......we help each other. ...she loved me when I was heavy. ...never an issue

    In your OP you said that a partner should be your main motivation? :huh:
  • inthslif
    inthslif Posts: 96 Member
    inthslif wrote: »
    Lounmoun wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Having ur partner be the main motivation in ur weight loss is very important

    I can agree that having your partner be supportive is nice and helpful. I disagree that they should be your main source of motivation.

    Are you losing weight because your partner wants you to? I don't think that is the best source of motivation if that is the case.

    No..... I'm my main motivation. .....she introduced me to this app......we help each other. ...she loved me when I was heavy. ...never an issue

    In your OP you said that a partner should be your main motivation? :huh:


    Ur right........I meant that ur partner should be ur main motivation besides yourself. .....working together helps ur relationship and progress
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    inthslif wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Lounmoun wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Having ur partner be the main motivation in ur weight loss is very important

    I can agree that having your partner be supportive is nice and helpful. I disagree that they should be your main source of motivation.

    Are you losing weight because your partner wants you to? I don't think that is the best source of motivation if that is the case.

    No..... I'm my main motivation. .....she introduced me to this app......we help each other. ...she loved me when I was heavy. ...never an issue

    In your OP you said that a partner should be your main motivation? :huh:


    Ur right........I meant that ur partner should be ur main motivation besides yourself. .....working together helps ur relationship and progress

    I don't know. I kind of disagree. My gym time is my time.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    PRMinx wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Lounmoun wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Having ur partner be the main motivation in ur weight loss is very important

    I can agree that having your partner be supportive is nice and helpful. I disagree that they should be your main source of motivation.

    Are you losing weight because your partner wants you to? I don't think that is the best source of motivation if that is the case.

    No..... I'm my main motivation. .....she introduced me to this app......we help each other. ...she loved me when I was heavy. ...never an issue

    In your OP you said that a partner should be your main motivation? :huh:


    Ur right........I meant that ur partner should be ur main motivation besides yourself. .....working together helps ur relationship and progress

    I don't know. I kind of disagree. My gym time is my time.

    Me too... There's nothing wrong with my relationship even though my husband isn't interested in what I do workout-wise.
  • inthslif
    inthslif Posts: 96 Member
    PRMinx wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Lounmoun wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Having ur partner be the main motivation in ur weight loss is very important

    I can agree that having your partner be supportive is nice and helpful. I disagree that they should be your main source of motivation.

    Are you losing weight because your partner wants you to? I don't think that is the best source of motivation if that is the case.

    No..... I'm my main motivation. .....she introduced me to this app......we help each other. ...she loved me when I was heavy. ...never an issue

    In your OP you said that a partner should be your main motivation? :huh:


    Ur right........I meant that ur partner should be ur main motivation besides yourself. .....working together helps ur relationship and progress

    I don't know. I kind of disagree. My gym time is my time.


    I get it.......every relationship is different
  • inthslif
    inthslif Posts: 96 Member
    PRMinx wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Lounmoun wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Having ur partner be the main motivation in ur weight loss is very important

    I can agree that having your partner be supportive is nice and helpful. I disagree that they should be your main source of motivation.

    Are you losing weight because your partner wants you to? I don't think that is the best source of motivation if that is the case.

    No..... I'm my main motivation. .....she introduced me to this app......we help each other. ...she loved me when I was heavy. ...never an issue

    In your OP you said that a partner should be your main motivation? :huh:


    Ur right........I meant that ur partner should be ur main motivation besides yourself. .....working together helps ur relationship and progress

    I don't know. I kind of disagree. My gym time is my time.

    Me too... There's nothing wrong with my relationship even though my husband isn't interested in what I do workout-wise.
    PRMinx wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Lounmoun wrote: »
    inthslif wrote: »
    Having ur partner be the main motivation in ur weight loss is very important

    I can agree that having your partner be supportive is nice and helpful. I disagree that they should be your main source of motivation.

    Are you losing weight because your partner wants you to? I don't think that is the best source of motivation if that is the case.

    No..... I'm my main motivation. .....she introduced me to this app......we help each other. ...she loved me when I was heavy. ...never an issue

    In your OP you said that a partner should be your main motivation? :huh:


    Ur right........I meant that ur partner should be ur main motivation besides yourself. .....working together helps ur relationship and progress

    I don't know. I kind of disagree. My gym time is my time.

    Me too... There's nothing wrong with my relationship even though my husband isn't interested in what I do workout-wise.

    I think it's important. ....not wrong
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