The Dreaded Office Job & lack of Exercise
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ceoverturf wrote: »Well...that was somewhat demeaning. I guess those showers in our locker room are just for decoration? I'll have to apologize to management, I've actually been using them! I've been doing it wrong.
Yeah, I get that it might not be as convenient...but it also comes across as just excuses. If you want to make it work, you can make it work.
(For the record, there are several women at my gym who manage to work out over the noon hour, and somehow are able to emerge "put back together" enough to go back to work, so it's not impossible).
Demeaning? No. Practical? Maybe.
Yes, some women can do a 45-minute workout and a 15-minute wash n' go and be fine. I'm not going to generalize to apply this to everyone.
But most of us are not quite that lucky to be roll-out-of-shower presentable and we need a bit more time. And since most lunch 'hours' are really only a half hour, if that, it does make the suggestion of the noontime gym visit a bit impractical for many women.
The fact that it was suggested by two men on this thread might mean that they simply didn't think of it. And since OP has a hectic schedule, I was looking to simply point out that it may not be possible for her to add noontime stress to that.
If I'm wrong, then hey, go for it.0 -
And FWIW, I do cycle to work as much as possible in the spring, summer and fall. My building has a gym with showers and changing rooms downstairs, and I make use of them. But it does involve packing a bunch of stuff with me -- change of clothes, hair product, hairdyer, makeup -- and leaving myself about 30 minutes when I get to the office to shower and get ready. Then I have to cart all that stuff back home with me.
I do it 'cause I just make it part of my routine, and I have the option of leaving a half hour earlier. I wouldn't be able to do it at lunchtime though -- it would take too long.
And I'm pretty low-maintenance as women go.0 -
ErikThaRed wrote: »I have a desk job that has me sitting for most of the day. I take my 1 hour lunch break to go for a walk. Since I bring my lunch most days I can eat at my desk during the day and then still have the time to get the walk in. I also am not "stuck" to my desk as you mentioned you are, so when I go to fill up my water bottle, or hit the bathroom, I take the longest route around the office there and back to try and get in the steps I need.
Yep that. I walk on my lunch break. Also, there's an app called the 7 minute workout. Works your whole body in 7 minutes. It's a great little routine to get the blood flowing and get a spot of exercie in.0 -
Isolation exercises at my desk help me.
Clench your abs for 30 secs
use full water bottles to do arm curls
do leg lifts under your desk
take a break and do jumping jacks for 1 min and stretch
Search the internet for workouts to do at your desk for other ideas
I plan out my food for the next day the night before to make sure my meals and snacks stay under my calorie goal and that I have 350-500 left for dinner.
I would say to add more nuts for protein to your diet if you're not already since you are a vegetarian.0 -
ceoverturf wrote: »
Similarly - I eat lunch at my desk and use my lunch "break" to use the gym.
Sounds nice, but OP is a woman. I don't want to generalize, but *most* women don't really have the option of doing this because it takes us longer to shower, change and do our hair and makeup after a gym workout. It's harder for us than it is for you guys to just splash some water on the face, towel off and go back to our desks.
It's not fair but that's just the modern workplace reality. Most of you men have no idea what we women are expected to do just to look "business appropriate".
Uhhh....I'm a woman (last time I checked, hang on i'll check again. YUP, I'm a GIRL! LOL!) and I'm able to get in a workout during my lunch, shower AND look "business appropriate" after my lunchtime workout.
Excuses are like a**holes - everyone's got at least one.
Now to address the OP: Get up in the morning and do some yoga, try to squeeze in some walking during the day and make a plan to start hitting the gym after work a few days a week. You'll be amazed at how much better you'll start feeling as well as how it helps manage the stress of your day. Good luck!
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Excuses. The one thing that got me started on my weight loss journey was my boss telling me stop making excuses... I was always too busy with work or running to pick the kids up, or get them bathed or to school the next day.... I now find the time to exercise and I plan my food in advance. Life is busy, but it's short... A 10 hour work day leaves plenty for meal planning and exercise... You can nail this if you want to... Choices.0
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ceoverturf wrote: »
Similarly - I eat lunch at my desk and use my lunch "break" to use the gym.
Sounds nice, but OP is a woman. I don't want to generalize, but *most* women don't really have the option of doing this because it takes us longer to shower, change and do our hair and makeup after a gym workout. It's harder for us than it is for you guys to just splash some water on the face, towel off and go back to our desks.
It's not fair but that's just the modern workplace reality. Most of you men have no idea what we women are expected to do just to look "business appropriate".
This is very true. I was running late once and came to work without makeup on. My boss wanted to send me home because I looked terrible (her words). She thought I was sick and didn't want me making everyone else sick.
I work a desk job and there are a couple women here that do a lunch time workout but they also spend a good 20-30 minutes fixing themselves back up afterwards and stay later because of it. We have a flexible schedule so it works fine for them. I don't think the OP has that option.0 -
Lots of good ideas here. Thanks.0
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ceoverturf wrote: »Well...that was somewhat demeaning. I guess those showers in our locker room are just for decoration? I'll have to apologize to management, I've actually been using them! I've been doing it wrong.
Yeah, I get that it might not be as convenient...but it also comes across as just excuses. If you want to make it work, you can make it work.
(For the record, there are several women at my gym who manage to work out over the noon hour, and somehow are able to emerge "put back together" enough to go back to work, so it's not impossible).
Demeaning? No. Practical? Maybe.
Yes, some women can do a 45-minute workout and a 15-minute wash n' go and be fine. I'm not going to generalize to apply this to everyone.
But most of us are not quite that lucky to be roll-out-of-shower presentable and we need a bit more time. And since most lunch 'hours' are really only a half hour, if that, it does make the suggestion of the noontime gym visit a bit impractical for many women.
The fact that it was suggested by two men on this thread might mean that they simply didn't think of it. And since OP has a hectic schedule, I was looking to simply point out that it may not be possible for her to add noontime stress to that.
If I'm wrong, then hey, go for it.
By demeaning - I meant that you assumed all us guys did was "splash a little water on our face, and towel off." And yes, that seems pretty demeaning.
In any event, like the above poster said, excuses are like ...holes. If you want to make it work, you can find a way to make it work. Or you can assume you're the only person with a hectic/busy schedule and make excuses why you're SOOOO busy that you can't find time to fit a work out in, but everyone else can. (general "you" - not addressed to any particular poster here).0 -
ceoverturf wrote: »
Similarly - I eat lunch at my desk and use my lunch "break" to use the gym.
Sounds nice, but OP is a woman. I don't want to generalize, but *most* women don't really have the option of doing this because it takes us longer to shower, change and do our hair and makeup after a gym workout. It's harder for us than it is for you guys to just splash some water on the face, towel off and go back to our desks.
It's not fair but that's just the modern workplace reality. Most of you men have no idea what we women are expected to do just to look "business appropriate".
Yes--but another option is using your lunch break or 15-minutes breaks for quick walks.
Those generally only require a change of shoes.
I try to walk around my block (one mile) three times a day on my various breaks. Granted, I mostly work from home and nobody cares how I look...but I generally don't get very sweaty, especially in the winter.
I'm not a very high-maintenance woman, but there is no way I would look presentable for work after a real workout. That's why I do them at the end of the day and then shower.0 -
I do use my lunch hour for walks, and I also cycle to and from the office in the warmer months.
They're not excuses; they're practical solutions. Just because somebody doesn't do exactly what you do doesn't mean they're not doing something else that's working for them.0 -
I do use my lunch hour for walks, and I also cycle to and from the office in the warmer months.
They're not excuses; they're practical solutions. Just because somebody doesn't do exactly what you do doesn't mean they're not doing something else that's working for them.
Sure. I think that a lot of men really do underestimate how much effort goes into female hygiene. Especially if you need to wear a lot of makeup, or if like me you have impossible hair--it can easily take 20-30 minutes to get put-together again.0 -
I am out of the house by 7:00 taking my kids to school then off to work. Work is technically from 9-6 but we are usually here until later. As of now I am taking two late night Kickboxing classes which start at 9:15-10:15. I'm in bed by 11PM. So far this has been working for me.0
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azulvioleta6 wrote: »I do use my lunch hour for walks, and I also cycle to and from the office in the warmer months.
They're not excuses; they're practical solutions. Just because somebody doesn't do exactly what you do doesn't mean they're not doing something else that's working for them.
Sure. I think that a lot of men really do underestimate how much effort goes into female hygiene. Especially if you need to wear a lot of makeup, or if like me you have impossible hair--it can easily take 20-30 minutes to get put-together again.
It doesn't take me 20-30 min to get my hair put together again. I have naturally curly hair which can be a b*tch. I keep bobby pins and head bands in my desk in case my hair is absolutely insane. It takes me five min to pin up my hair.
Otherwise, i use dry shampoo, oil absorbing sheets & waterproof mascara.
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azulvioleta6 wrote: »Sure. I think that a lot of men really do underestimate how much effort goes into female hygiene. Especially if you need to wear a lot of makeup, or if like me you have impossible hair--it can easily take 20-30 minutes to get put-together again.
Yeah, I mean, this varies from one woman to another. But it is one of those things that many men tend to underestimate.
Anyway, OP, I hope you've gotten some good ideas here on how you can get more exercise into your desk job life. Feel free to pick and choose the ones that sound practical, and try taking baby steps, incorporating a bit at a time until it becomes habit.
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I do use my lunch hour for walks, and I also cycle to and from the office in the warmer months.
They're not excuses; they're practical solutions. Just because somebody doesn't do exactly what you do doesn't mean they're not doing something else that's working for them.
And I think that's a fine idea.
By "excuses" I mean the idea that you can't do ANYTHING over the noon hour because, hair and makeup.
If I implied that you HAD to go to the gym over the noon hour, I apologize - I didn't mean to. Just that for someone (like the OP) who admittedly doesn't really have time or energy before or after work to get some movement in, it's another option.azulvioleta6 wrote: »I do use my lunch hour for walks, and I also cycle to and from the office in the warmer months.
They're not excuses; they're practical solutions. Just because somebody doesn't do exactly what you do doesn't mean they're not doing something else that's working for them.
Sure. I think that a lot of men really do underestimate how much effort goes into female hygiene. Especially if you need to wear a lot of makeup, or if like me you have impossible hair--it can easily take 20-30 minutes to get put-together again.
And to be fair, I think a lot of women underestimate how much effort some of guys actually make too. Yanno...to be fair and all.0 -
My take is a bit different. I've been circling around this issue for several years. After my second child I was almost down to pre baby weight but in the last 9 years have put on 60 lbs from a 3hr return commute and a high stress, desk job. Mornings are tough with two kids and husband who travels = on my own a lot and kids are not quite old enough to be left alone. Nights are stress-filled marathon to pick up the kids/make dinner/take them to sports/homework. Lunches are a short cram, no time to workout. Weekends are for housework and activities with the kids since those are in short supply through the week.
I've come to the conclusion that I need a new job closer to home/working from home - easier said than done but I'm working on it. Sometimes your health is more important and your job is indeed the problem. No getting around it and you can beat your head against the wall trying - I've done that and the stress ball keeps a rollin' - packing on those pounds!0 -
PlanetVelma wrote: »azulvioleta6 wrote: »I do use my lunch hour for walks, and I also cycle to and from the office in the warmer months.
They're not excuses; they're practical solutions. Just because somebody doesn't do exactly what you do doesn't mean they're not doing something else that's working for them.
Sure. I think that a lot of men really do underestimate how much effort goes into female hygiene. Especially if you need to wear a lot of makeup, or if like me you have impossible hair--it can easily take 20-30 minutes to get put-together again.
It doesn't take me 20-30 min to get my hair put together again. I have naturally curly hair which can be a b*tch. I keep bobby pins and head bands in my desk in case my hair is absolutely insane. It takes me five min to pin up my hair.
Otherwise, i use dry shampoo, oil absorbing sheets & waterproof mascara.
My naturally curly hair* really cannot be saved without a shower. I sweat profusely from the head. Plus I can't blow dry it much, so fixing my hair alone takes me an hour. After a workout, my hair is completely soaking wet.
*I was once asked by an online friend who had never met me in person if my curly hair was more like Bonnie Bedelia or a poodle. Sadly, poodle is the honest answer. It takes a while to get closer to Bonnie Bedelia.
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I forgot to add one of my other multi-tasking tips. . . I exercise while I am blow drying my hair and brushing my teeth, plenty of leg lifts and squats can be done in that 10 minutes in the morning.0
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ceoverturf wrote: »I do use my lunch hour for walks, and I also cycle to and from the office in the warmer months.
They're not excuses; they're practical solutions. Just because somebody doesn't do exactly what you do doesn't mean they're not doing something else that's working for them.
And I think that's a fine idea.
By "excuses" I mean the idea that you can't do ANYTHING over the noon hour because, hair and makeup.
If I implied that you HAD to go to the gym over the noon hour, I apologize - I didn't mean to. Just that for someone (like the OP) who admittedly doesn't really have time or energy before or after work to get some movement in, it's another option.azulvioleta6 wrote: »I do use my lunch hour for walks, and I also cycle to and from the office in the warmer months.
They're not excuses; they're practical solutions. Just because somebody doesn't do exactly what you do doesn't mean they're not doing something else that's working for them.
Sure. I think that a lot of men really do underestimate how much effort goes into female hygiene. Especially if you need to wear a lot of makeup, or if like me you have impossible hair--it can easily take 20-30 minutes to get put-together again.
And to be fair, I think a lot of women underestimate how much effort some of guys actually make too. Yanno...to be fair and all.
I got yo' back, dude! LOL! I think the excuses about hair/make up are LAME. and I'm a girl! If there's a will, there's a way!
I use waterproof mascara & eyeliner in the morning, so when I workout at lunch I don't have to worry about anything running or smudging. I also use dry shampoo, oil absorbing sheets and pin my hair up if needed.
It's all about time management - for men OR women!0 -
PlanetVelma wrote: »
I got yo' back, dude! LOL! I think the excuses about hair/make up are LAME. and I'm a girl! If there's a will, there's a way!
I still get about two hours of exercise a day...not really letting excuses slow me down much.0 -
ceoverturf wrote: »
Similarly - I eat lunch at my desk and use my lunch "break" to use the gym.
Sounds nice, but OP is a woman. I don't want to generalize, but *most* women don't really have the option of doing this because it takes us longer to shower, change and do our hair and makeup after a gym workout. It's harder for us than it is for you guys to just splash some water on the face, towel off and go back to our desks.
It's not fair but that's just the modern workplace reality. Most of you men have no idea what we women are expected to do just to look "business appropriate".
Well I'm glad that no one in my workplace cares about that excuse (they would rather see me fit, healthy and happy)... as long as I don't stink I'm good... I use my lunch break often for working out because it's the only time I can get to do it...
Seriously OP... make time... even if it's a few minute walk breaks during your day (you're working 12 days 6 days a week according to your post you are entitled to 15 minutes every 4 hours... use it and your productivity will go up)... eat at a decent calorie deficit and find ways to get off your butt... I walk our hallway for 15 minutes 2-3 times a day when our weather isn't desirable... when I'm able to (per doctors orders) I go to the park or the gym for my lunch break... I need to for my sanity and my well being...0 -
azulvioleta6 wrote: »PlanetVelma wrote: »azulvioleta6 wrote: »I do use my lunch hour for walks, and I also cycle to and from the office in the warmer months.
They're not excuses; they're practical solutions. Just because somebody doesn't do exactly what you do doesn't mean they're not doing something else that's working for them.
Sure. I think that a lot of men really do underestimate how much effort goes into female hygiene. Especially if you need to wear a lot of makeup, or if like me you have impossible hair--it can easily take 20-30 minutes to get put-together again.
It doesn't take me 20-30 min to get my hair put together again. I have naturally curly hair which can be a b*tch. I keep bobby pins and head bands in my desk in case my hair is absolutely insane. It takes me five min to pin up my hair.
Otherwise, i use dry shampoo, oil absorbing sheets & waterproof mascara.
My naturally curly hair* really cannot be saved without a shower. I sweat profusely from the head. Plus I can't blow dry it much, so fixing my hair alone takes me an hour. After a workout, my hair is completely soaking wet.
*I was once asked by an online friend who had never met me in person if my curly hair was more like Bonnie Bedelia or a poodle. Sadly, poodle is the honest answer. It takes a while to get closer to Bonnie Bedelia.
Thank you for understanding the struggle of curly haired girls.
I don't think that earlier statement is demeaning at all. I have yet to meet a man who avoids an afternoon workout because his hair would be out of sorts for the rest of the day.
Unfortunately, my hair is not capable of being "put back together" after a long workout. When the frizz begins, it's game over. That means lunch gym visits are out. It's annoying, not a deal breaker. If my schedule doesn't allow for a morning workout, I go in the evening. I keep a gym bag in the car, and tie my hair back when it gets ridiculous (and it does get ridiculous, every single time)
What it comes down to for me is doing everything I can to make sure it's possible to get in a good workout no matter what. That's all there is to it.0
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