How old were you when you had your first date and first kiss?

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CaptainBrownie
CaptainBrownie Posts: 99 Member
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I'm 20 and I've never had either haha. The opportunity has presented itself a few times but I just always end up running away from it.

I'm a loser aren't I? I've gotten this old and never even experienced a relationship! Ahh at least I have my cats to keep me company.
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  • callmejessica
    callmejessica Posts: 1,868 Member
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    My 25-year old friend has never kissed a guy, never had a boyfriend...I don't think she's even held hands with a guy before! Everyone goes at their own pace. You're not a loser!
  • _Tink_
    _Tink_ Posts: 3,845 Member
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    I was almost 16. I never dated much.
  • CaptainBrownie
    CaptainBrownie Posts: 99 Member
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    callmejessica wrote: »
    My 25-year old friend has never kissed a guy, never had a boyfriend...I don't think she's even held hands with a guy before! Everyone goes at their own pace. You're not a loser!

    I've never held hands either haha, unless you count primary school where we were asked to partner up with the person next to us and hold hands when crossing the road.


  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
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    First kiss 14, first date 16
  • fallenoaks37
    fallenoaks37 Posts: 9
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    First kiss and date at 17. I regret not waiting for someone of quality. First relationship at 26. We've been married for 6 years now.
  • CaptainBrownie
    CaptainBrownie Posts: 99 Member
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    fallenoaks37 wrote: »
    First kiss and date at 17. I regret not waiting for someone of quality. First relationship at 26. We've been married for 6 years now.

    You give me hope!

  • mamameaof2kiddos
    mamameaof2kiddos Posts: 6,611 Member
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    21 then got married right away lol
  • ladd_alvy1986
    ladd_alvy1986 Posts: 203
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    took me awhile but once I got into college that changed lol 19 was first kiss and date.
  • ladd_alvy1986
    ladd_alvy1986 Posts: 203
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    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!
  • MezaEza
    MezaEza Posts: 267 Member
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    CaptainBrownie wrote: »
    I'm 20 and I've never had either haha. The opportunity has presented itself a few times but I just always end up running away from it.

    I'm a loser aren't I? I've gotten this old and never even experienced a relationship! Ahh at least I have my cats to keep me company.

    Totally not a loser! I'm in the exact same!
    I used to worry about it when i was younger and most of my friends were getting boyfriends but it doesn't bother me anymore.
    I'd rather find some one I genuinely like instead of the first person who comes along!
  • mamameaof2kiddos
    mamameaof2kiddos Posts: 6,611 Member
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    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)
  • ladd_alvy1986
    ladd_alvy1986 Posts: 203
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    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)

    I love hearing about stuff like that, it shows that love is not dead!!
  • CaptainBrownie
    CaptainBrownie Posts: 99 Member
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    MezaEza wrote: »
    CaptainBrownie wrote: »
    I'm 20 and I've never had either haha. The opportunity has presented itself a few times but I just always end up running away from it.

    I'm a loser aren't I? I've gotten this old and never even experienced a relationship! Ahh at least I have my cats to keep me company.

    Totally not a loser! I'm in the exact same!
    I used to worry about it when i was younger and most of my friends were getting boyfriends but it doesn't bother me anymore.
    I'd rather find some one I genuinely like instead of the first person who comes along!

    Same here. I know my friends completely regret their first kisses. I want mine to mean something as cringey as that sounds.
  • paintguru77
    paintguru77 Posts: 7 Member
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    I think I was 17 for both. Too much other stuff going on in HS.
  • justinegibbons
    justinegibbons Posts: 918 Member
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    14 for my first kiss, 16 for my first date
  • mamameaof2kiddos
    mamameaof2kiddos Posts: 6,611 Member
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    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)

    I love hearing about stuff like that, it shows that love is not dead!!

    Love is growing like a weed :)
  • MezaEza
    MezaEza Posts: 267 Member
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    CaptainBrownie wrote: »
    MezaEza wrote: »
    CaptainBrownie wrote: »
    I'm 20 and I've never had either haha. The opportunity has presented itself a few times but I just always end up running away from it.

    I'm a loser aren't I? I've gotten this old and never even experienced a relationship! Ahh at least I have my cats to keep me company.

    Totally not a loser! I'm in the exact same!
    I used to worry about it when i was younger and most of my friends were getting boyfriends but it doesn't bother me anymore.
    I'd rather find some one I genuinely like instead of the first person who comes along!

    Same here. I know my friends completely regret their first kisses. I want mine to mean something as cringey as that sounds.

    I totally get you! :)

  • ladd_alvy1986
    ladd_alvy1986 Posts: 203
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    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)

    I love hearing about stuff like that, it shows that love is not dead!!

    Love is growing like a weed :)

    You know it, Let it grow, let it grow!! (Singing in my best frozen impression lol)
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
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    19 years old

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