What is the worst thing you can say to YOU?

cuckoo_jenibeth
cuckoo_jenibeth Posts: 1,434 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat

We all tend to be pretty hard on ourselves, sometimes even cruel! What self-defeating language are you ready to admit to and then put in your past for good?

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  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,060 Member
    I can't. I hate myself. Why even bother?

    Self defeating statements like this only hamper anyone in life. People can choose to not let these be the case.

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  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    wake up
  • BlueEyedRedhead
    BlueEyedRedhead Posts: 5,169 Member
    You're fat and ugly
  • _Tink_
    _Tink_ Posts: 3,845 Member
    I give up.
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    You're gonna fail!
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    It's too heavy
  • carlsonrobb
    carlsonrobb Posts: 914 Member
    Taste this
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    Might as well not even try!
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,622 Member
    BlueEyedRedhead wrote: »
    You're fat and ugly

    My daily affirmation to my mirror
  • BlueEyedRedhead
    BlueEyedRedhead Posts: 5,169 Member
    strozman wrote: »
    BlueEyedRedhead wrote: »
    You're fat and ugly

    My daily affirmation to my mirror

    I understand <3

  • cuckoo_jenibeth
    cuckoo_jenibeth Posts: 1,434 Member
    I notice that I celebrate any loss achieved by a friend, but tend to put "only" in front of my losses, or downplay it all together!
  • lexlowe
    lexlowe Posts: 908 Member
    edited February 2015
    I know I will fail so there's no point in even trying.
    or
    You're bald and that makes you ugly.
  • SJunczyk
    SJunczyk Posts: 430 Member
    You never see things through to the end, so why bother. Should just give up and accept the You that you are.
  • Adc7225
    Adc7225 Posts: 1,318 Member
    I can't do that!

    I used to say that about new exercises or activity in general, now I tell myself I can do that one day. I believe in taking my time and making sure I am doing it right and it will benefit me.
  • Cindy4FunFit
    Cindy4FunFit Posts: 2,732 Member
    You can't do this.
  • cuckoo_jenibeth
    cuckoo_jenibeth Posts: 1,434 Member
    lexlowe wrote: »
    I know I will fail so there's no point in even trying.
    or
    You're bald and that makes you ugly.

    For the record...I believe that God gave some men hair & made the others perfect!
  • tat2cookie
    tat2cookie Posts: 1,899 Member
    Why bother?
  • Igotthatcake
    Igotthatcake Posts: 169 Member
    take your clothes off
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    you are the spawn of a monster and therefore do not deserve a single shred of happiness
    you are too ugly,your body is disgusting and no one will ever love you

  • MrsBooBear
    MrsBooBear Posts: 12,618 Member
    As long as everyone else is happy, that's all that matters..
  • lexlowe
    lexlowe Posts: 908 Member
    jenibethbu wrote: »
    lexlowe wrote: »
    I know I will fail so there's no point in even trying.
    or
    You're bald and that makes you ugly.

    For the record...I believe that God gave some men hair & made the others perfect!

    Oh I'm going to remember that when I feel a bit down about myself, thanks!
  • palwithme
    palwithme Posts: 860 Member
    This is impossible. You are nuts for even trying.
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