Healthy Weight/BMI?

forestfamilies
forestfamilies Posts: 6
edited November 13 in Health and Weight Loss
So I'm currently 5'5" with a weight of 110 lbs and a BMI of 18.3. Is that healthy? Some of my friends are suggesting that I need to gain weight, but I very strongly disagree -- I still think I'm too big!
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  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    edited February 2015
    I don't put one ounce of trust in a BMI. I think mine is somewhere in the mid 20's basically saying that I am obese. my body fat % is in the low 13. I'm in better shaped then young men half my age in most cases. Don't be a slave to a number.
  • malibu927
    malibu927 Posts: 17,562 Member
    edited February 2015
    Healthy BMI is from 18.5-25, so yes, you are slightly underweight
  • MoiAussi93
    MoiAussi93 Posts: 1,948 Member
    Based on BMI, you are at the border of underweight and healthy. You may or may not be healthy at that weight...it depends on your frame and other factors.

    However, assuming your friends are good friends and have your best interests at heart, the fact that several of them think you need to gain probably means that you should at least consider it. Even if healthy, their comments may indicate that you would look better if you gained a little.
  • MoiAussi93
    MoiAussi93 Posts: 1,948 Member
    Chieflrg wrote: »
    I don't put one ounce of trust in a BMI. I think mine is somewhere in the mid 20's basically saying that I am obese. my body fat % is in the low 13. I'm in better shaped then young men half my age in most cases. Don't be a slave to a number.
    BMI in the mid 20's is NOT obese. 25-29.9 is overweight. Obese begins at 30.

  • peleroja
    peleroja Posts: 3,979 Member
    Your profile says you're 18 - if that's true, you're probably just fine. Teenagers are often perfectly healthy on the lower end of the BMI spectrum.

    However, you certainly don't need to be losing weight. If you don't like the way your body looks, you might consider strength training to lower your body fat percentage and look more muscular/"toned", but if you think you look heavy than that is more likely to be a mental thing than something you need to change physically.
  • Sued0nim
    Sued0nim Posts: 17,456 Member
    So I'm currently 5'5" with a weight of 110 lbs and a BMI of 18.3. Is that healthy? Some of my friends are suggesting that I need to gain weight, but I very strongly disagree -- I still think I'm too big!

    You're a teenager, your BMI is underweight which has a higher risk of health issues; your friends are suggesting you put on weight and yet you say you still think you are too big

    Do you have the mental capacity to read that last line objectively and realise that kind of thinking is disordered and you may need to seek help?
  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    MoiAussi93 wrote: »
    Chieflrg wrote: »
    I don't put one ounce of trust in a BMI. I think mine is somewhere in the mid 20's basically saying that I am obese. my body fat % is in the low 13. I'm in better shaped then young men half my age in most cases. Don't be a slave to a number.
    BMI in the mid 20's is NOT obese. 25-29.9 is overweight. Obese begins at 30.
    I stand corrected, nonetheless my point is the same. There isn't one sane person is this world that would see me in real life and consider me "overweight". I don't put much into body scales or BMI in most cases.

  • MoiAussi93
    MoiAussi93 Posts: 1,948 Member
    edited February 2015
    Chieflrg wrote: »
    MoiAussi93 wrote: »
    Chieflrg wrote: »
    I don't put one ounce of trust in a BMI. I think mine is somewhere in the mid 20's basically saying that I am obese. my body fat % is in the low 13. I'm in better shaped then young men half my age in most cases. Don't be a slave to a number.
    BMI in the mid 20's is NOT obese. 25-29.9 is overweight. Obese begins at 30.
    I stand corrected, nonetheless my point is the same. There isn't one sane person is this world that would see me in real life and consider me "overweight". I don't put much into body scales or BMI in most cases.
    I just looked at your pics, and agree you aren't overweight (not that my opinion should matter!). However, you look to be significantly more muscular than the average person on the street. And even if your BMI is slightly over 25, you are close enough where it makes sense that the difference is muscle.

    For the vast majority of the population...over 90% is my guess... BMI is a good indicator. Most people, even those who do work out, don't do enough of it to build that kind of muscle mass. I am doing body weight exercises three times a week, and am currently a BMI of 26...just a few pounds overweight. However, I am under no delusions that a few sets of squats, my sorry excuse for pushups, and some ab exercises is creating so much muscle that BMI does not apply to me.

    I have seen dozens of threads of people claiming they have large muscular frames and BMI is irrelevant to them. I look at their pics if they have them, and 9 times out of 10 see no visible muscle definition at at least a moderate amount of pudge. These people are fooling themselves.

  • jenglish712
    jenglish712 Posts: 497 Member
    BMI is an actuarial tool for insurance. It works on populations well, but there are outliers of course. But you take 1,000 or 10,000 Individuals in the US with a BMI of high 20s or low 30s you will find relatively few people who are "overweight" due to being overmuscled rather than overfat. You will also some (I would argue more but not with any data) people with a healthy BMI who are overfat but just so undermuscled they have low bodyweight.

    But once you start putting on muscle then both the scale and BMI become much less relevant. I can actually file a form with my insurance as a way to request bodyfat % be used instead of BMI in asking for preferential rate.
  • rabbitjb wrote: »
    So I'm currently 5'5" with a weight of 110 lbs and a BMI of 18.3. Is that healthy? Some of my friends are suggesting that I need to gain weight, but I very strongly disagree -- I still think I'm too big!

    You're a teenager, your BMI is underweight which has a higher risk of health issues; your friends are suggesting you put on weight and yet you say you still think you are too big

    Do you have the mental capacity to read that last line objectively and realise that kind of thinking is disordered and you may need to seek help?

    That was the most condescending thing I have ever read.
  • pollypocket1021
    pollypocket1021 Posts: 533 Member
    rabbitjb wrote: »
    So I'm currently 5'5" with a weight of 110 lbs and a BMI of 18.3. Is that healthy? Some of my friends are suggesting that I need to gain weight, but I very strongly disagree -- I still think I'm too big!

    You're a teenager, your BMI is underweight which has a higher risk of health issues; your friends are suggesting you put on weight and yet you say you still think you are too big

    Do you have the mental capacity to read that last line objectively and realise that kind of thinking is disordered and you may need to seek help?

    That was the most condescending thing I have ever read.

    It didn't seem condescending at all to me. The statements you made in the original post are very typical of statements made by individuals with eating disorders. That is an objective assessment. Someone who has an ED will not be able to see that objectively and will justify it til kingdom come.
  • rabbitjb wrote: »
    So I'm currently 5'5" with a weight of 110 lbs and a BMI of 18.3. Is that healthy? Some of my friends are suggesting that I need to gain weight, but I very strongly disagree -- I still think I'm too big!

    You're a teenager, your BMI is underweight which has a higher risk of health issues; your friends are suggesting you put on weight and yet you say you still think you are too big

    Do you have the mental capacity to read that last line objectively and realise that kind of thinking is disordered and you may need to seek help?

    That was the most condescending thing I have ever read.

    It didn't seem condescending at all to me. The statements you made in the original post are very typical of statements made by individuals with eating disorders. That is an objective assessment. Someone who has an ED will not be able to see that objectively and will justify it til kingdom come.

    It's very well a possibility that I may have an eating disorder -- that's not what I was on about. But "do you have the mental capacity" seems a bit condescending to me.
  • Sued0nim
    Sued0nim Posts: 17,456 Member
    Eating disorders are mental illnesses...do you have the mental capacity to recognise you potentially have one and seek help or are you attempting to divert attention from your OP and the huge warning klaxon it sounds with accusations of condescension?

    The mental capacity to step outside yourself and see your thought processes and actions objectively is not common in those suffering from illnesses. Certainly not those who are not ready to seek help.


  • malibu927
    malibu927 Posts: 17,562 Member
    rabbitjb wrote: »
    So I'm currently 5'5" with a weight of 110 lbs and a BMI of 18.3. Is that healthy? Some of my friends are suggesting that I need to gain weight, but I very strongly disagree -- I still think I'm too big!

    You're a teenager, your BMI is underweight which has a higher risk of health issues; your friends are suggesting you put on weight and yet you say you still think you are too big

    Do you have the mental capacity to read that last line objectively and realise that kind of thinking is disordered and you may need to seek help?

    That was the most condescending thing I have ever read.

    It didn't seem condescending at all to me. The statements you made in the original post are very typical of statements made by individuals with eating disorders. That is an objective assessment. Someone who has an ED will not be able to see that objectively and will justify it til kingdom come.

    It's very well a possibility that I may have an eating disorder -- that's not what I was on about. But "do you have the mental capacity" seems a bit condescending to me.

    If you believe you have one, then you need to speak to a professional. She didn't do anything wrong.
  • rabbitjb wrote: »
    Eating disorders are mental illnesses...do you have the mental capacity to recognise you potentially have one and seek help or are you attempting to divert attention from your OP and the huge warning klaxon it sounds with accusations of condescension?

    The mental capacity to step outside yourself and see your thought processes and actions objectively is not common in those suffering from illnesses. Certainly not those who are not ready to seek help.


    I think you might be reading into this way too much to the point of seeing things that aren't there. I just think you could've worded your post better is all, although I appreciate your feedback.
  • Sued0nim
    Sued0nim Posts: 17,456 Member
    rabbitjb wrote: »
    Eating disorders are mental illnesses...do you have the mental capacity to recognise you potentially have one and seek help or are you attempting to divert attention from your OP and the huge warning klaxon it sounds with accusations of condescension?

    The mental capacity to step outside yourself and see your thought processes and actions objectively is not common in those suffering from illnesses. Certainly not those who are not ready to seek help.


    I think you might be reading into this way too much to the point of seeing things that aren't there. I just think you could've worded your post better is all, although I appreciate your feedback.


    No I'm trying to give you objective clarity ...I'm not reading too much into someone who thinks they are too big whilst professing an underweight BMI and mentioning friends who are worried enough to be talking to you about putting on weight

    I actually think this is either a huge cry for help, or a troll posting

    And I think you need to speak to your parents and your primary care physician

    If you were my child, either biologically or a professional charge, I would already have a professional team involved in trying to support and help you.
  • rabbitjb wrote: »
    So I'm currently 5'5" with a weight of 110 lbs and a BMI of 18.3. Is that healthy? Some of my friends are suggesting that I need to gain weight, but I very strongly disagree -- I still think I'm too big!

    You're a teenager, your BMI is underweight which has a higher risk of health issues; your friends are suggesting you put on weight and yet you say you still think you are too big

    Do you have the mental capacity to read that last line objectively and realise that kind of thinking is disordered and you may need to seek help?


    She's just asking a question ! So many people are rude on this site. Don't say she is disordered if you haven't met her or seen a picture of her! Being so short and 110lbs sounds normal to me especially because your young. Ignore nasties xxxxxxxx

    That was the most condescending thing I have ever read.

  • P.a I cannot work the quote thing lol I Don't know why your sentence is at the end xxx
  • Sometimes you just don't realise how thin you are because the brain takes time to catch up
    after a loss... I've experienced this before going to a shop and buying size twelve when I'm a 6-8 and not realising. X
  • Sued0nim
    Sued0nim Posts: 17,456 Member
    edited February 2015
    rabbitjb wrote: »
    So I'm currently 5'5" with a weight of 110 lbs and a BMI of 18.3. Is that healthy? Some of my friends are suggesting that I need to gain weight, but I very strongly disagree -- I still think I'm too big!

    You're a teenager, your BMI is underweight which has a higher risk of health issues; your friends are suggesting you put on weight and yet you say you still think you are too big

    Do you have the mental capacity to read that last line objectively and realise that kind of thinking is disordered and you may need to seek help?


    She's just asking a question ! So many people are rude on this site. Don't say she is disordered if you haven't met her or seen a picture of her! Being so short and 110lbs sounds normal to me especially because your young. Ignore nasties xxxxxxxx



    Go back and read the OP...her friends ask her to put on weight and she still thinks she's big. 5'5 is fairly average height, 110 is an underweight weight at that height. Going lower can put her even more at risk of serious health issues.

    Some people (not necessarily the OP) seem to aspire to extreme levels of underweight on this board, why should that go unchallenged? This is not a pro-Ana site or similar, there are unfortunately many sites where the underweight are glorified. MFP is designed for healthy approaches to healthy weight loss or gain and it's a great community to be part of

  • jlaw_1992
    jlaw_1992 Posts: 40 Member
    rabbitjb wrote: »
    This is not a pro-Ana site or similar, there are unfortunately many sites where the underweight are glorified. MFP is designed for healthy approaches to healthy weight loss and it's a great community to be part of

    Thank goodness for that. I got fatshamed on a photo board elsewhere earlier... with a BMI of 22.9. Wut just happened.

  • triciab79
    triciab79 Posts: 1,713 Member
    You have a disorder. You need to get some help. If you are a BMI of 18.3 and think you are fat then you are not objective. I can be obsessive about my weight but I still look at this logically and can say that no one who is 5'4" and 123lbs can be considered fat. If at 5'5" and 110 you cannot 100% see that there is no way you should be attempting to lose weight then you need counseling, yesterday.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    If you think you're too big, you have a problem. I'm not saying they're right in that you need to gain weight. Some people are a little smaller and are just fine. However, the fact that you think you need to keep losing despite being classified as underweight means you need to take a long hard look at yourself and make sure you don't have serious body image issues or an eating disorder.
  • I have three sisters all between 5"3-5"6 and they are all around 100 to 120 pounds and they do not have an ED (even though people would say they did) in fact they are very healthy and probably ate more than their friends but just healthy choices. You cannot make assumptions like that. It's incredibly rude.. it's your body your descisions as long as you are happy and healthy be whatever weight you want 180 or 110 or whatever.
  • juggernaut1974
    juggernaut1974 Posts: 6,212 Member
    I have three sisters all between 5"3-5"6 and they are all around 100 to 120 pounds and they do not have an ED (even though people would say they did) in fact they are very healthy and probably ate more than their friends but just healthy choices. You cannot make assumptions like that. It's incredibly rude.. it's your body your descisions as long as you are happy and healthy be whatever weight you want 180 or 110 or whatever.

    It's not just the stats alone.

    It's the low stats, combined with the fact she has friends commenting that she needs to put on weight, all the while thinking she's still "fat".

    Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't...but taking EVERYTHING into consideration, it's certainly something that needs to be explored. And it's certainly NOT condescending to suggest so.
  • Sued0nim
    Sued0nim Posts: 17,456 Member
    edited February 2015
    I have three sisters all between 5"3-5"6 and they are all around 100 to 120 pounds and they do not have an ED (even though people would say they did) in fact they are very healthy and probably ate more than their friends but just healthy choices. You cannot make assumptions like that. It's incredibly rude.. it's your body your descisions as long as you are happy and healthy be whatever weight you want 180 or 110 or whatever.

    Interestingly I have 3 sisters too, from 5'3 to 5'7 ...I have not the foggiest idea what they weigh :grinning:

    I'll just leave this here shall I?
    Bmi-Chart-Man-Women-Ruler.jpg

  • MoiAussi93
    MoiAussi93 Posts: 1,948 Member
    rabbitjb wrote: »
    rabbitjb wrote: »
    So I'm currently 5'5" with a weight of 110 lbs and a BMI of 18.3. Is that healthy? Some of my friends are suggesting that I need to gain weight, but I very strongly disagree -- I still think I'm too big!

    You're a teenager, your BMI is underweight which has a higher risk of health issues; your friends are suggesting you put on weight and yet you say you still think you are too big

    Do you have the mental capacity to read that last line objectively and realise that kind of thinking is disordered and you may need to seek help?


    She's just asking a question ! So many people are rude on this site. Don't say she is disordered if you haven't met her or seen a picture of her! Being so short and 110lbs sounds normal to me especially because your young. Ignore nasties xxxxxxxx



    Go back and read the OP...her friends ask her to put on weight and she still thinks she's big. 5'5 is fairly average height, 110 is an underweight weight at that height. Going lower can put her even more at risk of serious health issues.

    Some people (not necessarily the OP) seem to aspire to extreme levels of underweight on this board, why should that go unchallenged? This is not a pro-Ana site or similar, there are unfortunately many sites where the underweight are glorified. MFP is designed for healthy approaches to healthy weight loss and it's a great community to be part of
    She is exactly one pound underweight based on BMI...so I think you may be being a bit overly dramatic. It is quite possible that it is a healthy weight for her. Her friends may be asking her to put on weight because she really needs to. Or they may just be used to seeing her heavier. Or they may be heavier and consider heavier normal. We just don't know.

    To question her mental capacity is a bit condescending to me. Not everybody who is thin has an eating disorder. And while she certainly should consider what her friends are saying, I don't think we can assume anything here. We don't have enough information.

  • Sued0nim
    Sued0nim Posts: 17,456 Member
    edited February 2015
    MoiAussi93 wrote: »
    rabbitjb wrote: »
    rabbitjb wrote: »
    So I'm currently 5'5" with a weight of 110 lbs and a BMI of 18.3. Is that healthy? Some of my friends are suggesting that I need to gain weight, but I very strongly disagree -- I still think I'm too big!

    You're a teenager, your BMI is underweight which has a higher risk of health issues; your friends are suggesting you put on weight and yet you say you still think you are too big

    Do you have the mental capacity to read that last line objectively and realise that kind of thinking is disordered and you may need to seek help?


    She's just asking a question ! So many people are rude on this site. Don't say she is disordered if you haven't met her or seen a picture of her! Being so short and 110lbs sounds normal to me especially because your young. Ignore nasties xxxxxxxx



    Go back and read the OP...her friends ask her to put on weight and she still thinks she's big. 5'5 is fairly average height, 110 is an underweight weight at that height. Going lower can put her even more at risk of serious health issues.

    Some people (not necessarily the OP) seem to aspire to extreme levels of underweight on this board, why should that go unchallenged? This is not a pro-Ana site or similar, there are unfortunately many sites where the underweight are glorified. MFP is designed for healthy approaches to healthy weight loss and it's a great community to be part of
    She is exactly one pound underweight based on BMI...so I think you may be being a bit overly dramatic. It is quite possible that it is a healthy weight for her. Her friends may be asking her to put on weight because she really needs to. Or they may just be used to seeing her heavier. Or they may be heavier and consider heavier normal. We just don't know.

    To question her mental capacity is a bit condescending to me. Not everybody who is thin has an eating disorder. And while she certainly should consider what her friends are saying, I don't think we can assume anything here. We don't have enough information.

    She says she thinks she's too big!
  • MoiAussi93 wrote: »
    rabbitjb wrote: »
    rabbitjb wrote: »
    So I'm currently 5'5" with a weight of 110 lbs and a BMI of 18.3. Is that healthy? Some of my friends are suggesting that I need to gain weight, but I very strongly disagree -- I still think I'm too big!

    You're a teenager, your BMI is underweight which has a higher risk of health issues; your friends are suggesting you put on weight and yet you say you still think you are too big

    Do you have the mental capacity to read that last line objectively and realise that kind of thinking is disordered and you may need to seek help?


    She's just asking a question ! So many people are rude on this site. Don't say she is disordered if you haven't met her or seen a picture of her! Being so short and 110lbs sounds normal to me especially because your young. Ignore nasties xxxxxxxx



    Go back and read the OP...her friends ask her to put on weight and she still thinks she's big. 5'5 is fairly average height, 110 is an underweight weight at that height. Going lower can put her even more at risk of serious health issues.

    Some people (not necessarily the OP) seem to aspire to extreme levels of underweight on this board, why should that go unchallenged? This is not a pro-Ana site or similar, there are unfortunately many sites where the underweight are glorified. MFP is designed for healthy approaches to healthy weight loss and it's a great community to be part of
    She is exactly one pound underweight based on BMI...so I think you may be being a bit overly dramatic. It is quite possible that it is a healthy weight for her. Her friends may be asking her to put on weight because she really needs to. Or they may just be used to seeing her heavier. Or they may be heavier and consider heavier normal. We just don't know.

    To question her mental capacity is a bit condescending to me. Not everybody who is thin has an eating disorder. And while she certainly should consider what her friends are saying, I don't think we can assume anything here. We don't have enough information.

    Thank you, that's all I've been saying this whole time.
  • Feelgood97
    Feelgood97 Posts: 89 Member
    My BMI is 22.4 :p
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