How many times have you been dumped in your life?

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  • ccarlock08
    ccarlock08 Posts: 89 Member
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    4? 1 time was out of nowhere (cheated/he found someone better I guess who ended up dumping him later on...) The rest were pretty mutual
  • Ria_StayingFit
    Ria_StayingFit Posts: 6,891 Member
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    0

    I married my the second guy I ever dated and I dumped the first to go out with him. 19 years later I honk it may have been the right decision ;)
  • MissFitAfrica
    MissFitAfrica Posts: 34 Member
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    Once! And happened a few days ago :'(
  • MissFitAfrica
    MissFitAfrica Posts: 34 Member
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    Easier said then done!!! I don't want new candidates I want him :# But eh oh well it's life I suppose!



  • pechepanda
    pechepanda Posts: 7,939 Member
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    1, though maybe 0 since supposedly it doesn't count as being dumped when you forget about them for a few months....I disagree, but it worked out well.
  • IllBeBack1Day
    IllBeBack1Day Posts: 982 Member
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    One time to be honest !
    She didn't like the idea of being separated for three months :)
  • SilverRose89
    SilverRose89 Posts: 447 Member
    edited March 2015
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    _John_ wrote: »
    SilverRose89 wrote: »
    Twice. They were both idiots. Well rid.

    :smile:

    Why is the story never "they were amazing, but I just couldn't offer enough to maintain the relationship with them"?

    Because they weren't amazing and what I had to offer would never have been enough. I have dated two guys who I really shouldn't have because they just weren't great people at that time. It just so happened those two were the two that broke up with me. They both just went from girl to girl and only wanted one thing.

    My other relationships, they've been great. Even though they haven't always worked out, when they didn't it was a mutual decision and I've stayed friends with them.
  • SilverRose89
    SilverRose89 Posts: 447 Member
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    _John_ wrote: »
    Still, that, or something similar would speak better of a person about themselves and their pre-screening methods in their dating lives...

    I cannot speak any better about my pre-screening methods used by myself back then. Because they were non existent. Both instances were extremely poor decisions and judgement on my part. :)
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,642 Member
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    SilverRose89 wrote: »
    _John_ wrote: »
    Still, that, or something similar would speak better of a person about themselves and their pre-screening methods in their dating lives...

    I cannot speak any better about my pre-screening methods used by myself back then. Because they were non existent. Both instances were extremely poor decisions and judgement on my part. :)

    fwiw...that wasn't an attack on you....just what you said brought up some general questions I had.
  • ernurse167
    ernurse167 Posts: 26 Member
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    once, but it only lasted about a month and she was back. Our 3 year anniversary is in May!
  • SilverRose89
    SilverRose89 Posts: 447 Member
    edited March 2015
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    _John_ wrote: »
    fwiw...that wasn't an attack on you....just what you said brought up some general questions I had.

    No problem, not taken as such. But actually my comment did look a bit flippant and as if I thought they were idiots for dumping me. That isn't the case.

    Edited, because I just cannot quote today...
  • chivalryder
    chivalryder Posts: 4,391 Member
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    It doesn't really matter in the end.
  • BootCampC
    BootCampC Posts: 689 Member
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    637 x by the same person
  • Screwedntattooed
    Screwedntattooed Posts: 238 Member
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    Once
  • VeryKatie
    VeryKatie Posts: 5,937 Member
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    0... maybe 1 but not by someone who was officially a boyfriend. I haven't dated many people though, so 0 isn't impressive.
  • yourradimradletshug
    yourradimradletshug Posts: 964 Member
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    Enough to know that there sare a lot of a**holes out there! Still hoping to meet one of these "nice guys " that claim to be around here.
  • WarDamnJay
    WarDamnJay Posts: 1,916 Member
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    4 or 5 but two of them were by the same girl!
  • IllBeBack1Day
    IllBeBack1Day Posts: 982 Member
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    yourradimradletshug wrote: »
    Enough to know that there sare a lot of a**holes out there! Still hoping to meet one of these "nice guys " that claim to be around here.

    Sorry, i am taken :)
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,793 Member
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    I'm on my fouth (and last) marriage. I left my first wife. Numbers two and three dumped me.

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