How many times have you been dumped in your life?

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  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    None :)
  • BlueEyedRedhead
    BlueEyedRedhead Posts: 5,169 Member
    Once at 15... We met on a church trip. He was in TX, I was in OH. We wrote love letters back and forth after I returned home, until one day he just quit writing. I was heartbroken.
  • AmberStarr_87
    AmberStarr_87 Posts: 1,291 Member
    Once.. I caught him in bed with someone, he jumped up & said "umm I guess we need to talk."... I may or may not have slashed his tires.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Are we talking relationships? Are we talking women I talk to at the bar? Are we talking every interaction with someone then later dumping?
  • YanskaNY
    YanskaNY Posts: 103 Member
    Four, and this latest time is the hardest to deal with.
  • Bill8855
    Bill8855 Posts: 4,267 Member
    1
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    Does it count if you MADE THEM dump you because you didn't want to be the one to dump them?
    Hmm..
  • fat2strongbeth
    fat2strongbeth Posts: 735 Member
    Never
  • nesian_twin
    nesian_twin Posts: 198
    2 times,and may they both rest in peace.

    LOL
  • lookin4gains
    lookin4gains Posts: 1,761 Member
    Twice.
  • KirbySmith46
    KirbySmith46 Posts: 198 Member
    Once. Very recent! :(
  • _Tink_
    _Tink_ Posts: 3,845 Member
    Once. I was the first girl he dated after ending a 4 year relationship, and he realized he wasn't over her. I was 17 and we only dated for a couple of weeks, so it wasn't heartbreaking.
  • palwithme
    palwithme Posts: 860 Member
    One time.
  • nowweseeyou
    nowweseeyou Posts: 1,235 Member
    2
  • AlainaKayy
    AlainaKayy Posts: 206 Member
    2
  • hyIianprincess
    hyIianprincess Posts: 302 Member
    Once. Took me by surprise because I thought everything was great. It really sucked
  • Benjinkan
    Benjinkan Posts: 1,107 Member
    Twice, one was mostly mutual - though technically she beat me to it. The other was heart breaking, but I now recognize that she felt she needed to make a whole raft of life changing decisions for her health and well being - I just happened to be on the wrong end of one of those decisions.
  • shreyashiganguly
    shreyashiganguly Posts: 30 Member
    Once. When I was 14. It felt like hell.
  • TannerBoyl
    TannerBoyl Posts: 55 Member
    Once. She broke up with me and then a week later tried to convince me that she didn't. We ended up getting back together and I had to end it. It was the right decision for both of us.
  • softblondechick
    softblondechick Posts: 1,275 Member
    By the same person or different people? I have learned one thing, once someone dumps you, move on. Don't let the drama continue.

    The world is full of men. Lots of them, nicer and better than the one who did not appreciate you
  • scottacular
    scottacular Posts: 597 Member
    edited March 2015
    _John_ wrote: »
    ?

    Five relationships, been dumped in all of them, so five times.
  • Altagracia220
    Altagracia220 Posts: 876 Member
    my first ex dumped me literally 8 or 9 times before i got sick of that person's *kitten* and dumped IT. that was 3 or 4 years ago. I grew from that experience and that was the last time i let someone I was in a relationship with treat me like garbage :)
  • fattofit_fritch26
    fattofit_fritch26 Posts: 131 Member
    edited March 2015
    Once...on new years day after driving back from a new years eve trip with our friends hahahahaha. It sucked for a few days, but in the end it was definitely for the best, got me out of an unhealthy relationship with a guy who brought out the worst in me
  • fitfabforties
    fitfabforties Posts: 370 Member
    does being dumped by text count????
  • 7seas_sailing
    7seas_sailing Posts: 224 Member
    Never. It's hard to get dumped when you can't even get a date. :(
  • needernt
    needernt Posts: 675 Member
    For some people being dumped is nothing important they wake next day and just as nothing happened to them. But some others are more sensitive they might end up in depression for weeks afterwards, or decide not to do it again.
  • kiousd
    kiousd Posts: 917 Member
    needernt wrote: »
    For some people being dumped is nothing important they wake next day and just as nothing happened to them. But some others are more sensitive they might end up in depression for weeks afterwards, or decide not to do it again.

    Took me years after my divorce to tell my wife now that I loved her. Even though I knew it from our first kiss that she was the one. We've been together for about 14 years. And married for 8 1/2 years. She is my lobster. Lol
  • vickyaida
    vickyaida Posts: 27 Member
    2
  • JackKopCh
    JackKopCh Posts: 8,042 Member
    None B) ........ :'(
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    Why cry? Jack

    None is good! :)

    Thankfully none for me as well!
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