Mirena Removal - Eliminating a possible cause of not being able to lose weight

esasse
esasse Posts: 17 Member
edited November 14 in Health and Weight Loss
So last year I lost about 25 lbs over the course of about 5 months. But throughout the remainder of the year it came back. I restarted my goal to lose weight at New Years and lost about 6 lbs in a month doing what I had done the year before. It was a very strict diet and working out 6 times a week. I had one bad day after I went out with some coworkers and the weight came back and I have struggled to re-lose it.

After taking some time to think about and read the internet, I have decided to have my Mirena IUD removed and have my tubes removed (yes removed, not tied). I am having them removed due to new research about ovarian cancer to prevent that, as there is a history of it in my family. I am in my 30s. I have 2 kids, 7 and 5. My husband and I are confident we do not want any more kids. Anyway since I have been on my Mirena I have gained about 35 lbs. I have also noticed that short of starving myself, the weight doesn't like to come off. I have noticed this about myself when I have been on hormonal birth control in the past in my 20s, so going back to the pill is not on option either. I read alot of stories about feeling bloated or stomach weight with the Mirena, and that is EXACTLY how I feel.

My surgery is scheduled for March 23. I am so excited to just eliminate this as possible cause of my struggle with my weight. I have a pretty good workout routine in place and have the diet thing under control. I see lots of posts of women thinking about having the Mirena removed or having their tubes tied and various results of doing so, but no comments about what BC method(s) they used after having the Mirena removed, nor before having their tubes tied. So I'd like to hear has it worked for you? Is it all in my head? Any feedback would be awesome. Thanks.
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  • goldenstone01
    goldenstone01 Posts: 25 Member
    Good luck on your surgery!
  • afur73
    afur73 Posts: 63 Member
    this story rings very true for my wife at the moment. i have suggested she have it removed but she hasnt done it yet. she has always struggled to lose weight when on any form of birth control.
    we have also came to the decision that we dont want any more kids, got 2 also.

    i am interested in finding out how it goes for you. i hope it works out for you.
  • esasse
    esasse Posts: 17 Member
    Thanks. I'll keep ya posted.
  • Tubbs216
    Tubbs216 Posts: 6,597 Member
    I also hoped the weight would drop off after I had mine removed, but no - it's the same, slow, steady slog that it's always been.

    Hope your surgery goes well. Is it a major op? I'm trying to get my husband in for the Snip, but he goes green whenever I mention it, so I'm starting to wonder whether I should get myself taken care of instead. (Don't really want to though. After 25 years of getting MY body messed around with, I feel like he should take one for the team...)
  • esasse
    esasse Posts: 17 Member
    What BC did you go to after you had yours removed? It is a general anesthesia procedure that takes less than an hour. Besides insurance, I am having it done vs him getting snipped because with the snip you still have to wait 3 months to see if it worked, where with the tubal it is instant. There is also a short recovery period.
  • Tubbs216
    Tubbs216 Posts: 6,597 Member
    Right now, just condoms, which I really hate. He's working away a lot at the moment, so scheduling appointments for him is difficult, which is why I'm wondering whether it might be better for me to take charge (again!)

    I don't want to take any chances. I have three kids and the youngest is 14. Even though I'm 47 and wondered if my fertility might be on the wane (I get pregnant way too easily!!) my period returned immediately after getting the Mirena removed, so I figure we have at least a few more years of worrying.
  • esasse
    esasse Posts: 17 Member
    Yeah I agree. I don't want to take any chances either.
  • jkal1979
    jkal1979 Posts: 1,896 Member
    I take bc pills right now. When I went to get my prescription renewed this week I talked to my doctor about getting a more permanent form of birth control. She recommended Essure, which doesn't involve surgery and takes about 3 months to set in. I'm seriously considering it so I don't have to continue to take bc pills until I hit menopause.
  • Vune
    Vune Posts: 674 Member
    I have the Mirena now, and while I can lose (and gain) weight just fine with it, I'm thinking about venturing to get a tubal again. I got the Mirena because I have a kidney transplant, and the health care center didn't feel comfortable with that invasive of a procedure and Essure only works if you have a normal immune response. Please keep us updated! Have they explained the details of how they perform the procedure to you? Is it laproscopic?
  • azulvioleta6
    azulvioleta6 Posts: 4,195 Member
    Have you been checked by an endocrinologist to see if you have any other metabolic issues?

    My guess is that this will help, but that it may not be the whole answer.
  • LittleNell107
    LittleNell107 Posts: 71 Member
    Hi - I had my Mirena removed on 13th February this year. I had many of the classic problems that seem to be associated with Mirena - hair loss, acne on my jaw line and boils on my neck, no libido AT ALL, bloating, puffy face and a ring of flab around my middle, (mmm - attractive!). I felt great after the removal (had read about the "Mirena crash" so I can't say I wasn't nervous) - about a day and a half after removal I had a severe bout of diarrhoea for two days or so (sorry - TMI!) and dropped about 3-4 lbs. I think this was related to the removal - I wasn't ill in the stomach 'flu sense and I hadn't eaten anything that could have caused the stomach "purge". The puffiness on my face and the "rubber ring" look around my middle disappeared immediately - my new efforts in exercising and eating correctly are, I think, gradually paying off (too soon to say really, since it's only a month since removal). Personally, if anyone suspects they are having problems with Mirena I would say get it removed - but I know it's great for a lot of women... it depends on the individual.

    We're using condoms now as I realised I've had about 25 years of artificial hormones from various types of bc - so I'm hoping to let my body balance itself hormonally.

    @esasse - Good Luck with your surgery!
  • esasse
    esasse Posts: 17 Member
    @jkal1979‌ I would do a lot of research about Essure before you go that route. I'll be honest the information that is out there scares me. Part of why I am wanting to do a tubal is to get the foreign objects out of my body. So I would just say do a lot of research before you go that route.

    @Vune‌ Yes we have gone over it. It will be laproscopic. Two holes about the size of a pen. He will then remove the mirena and both tubes, check around for any abnormalities and close me back up. I was also going to get an ablation but the insurance didn't cover very much of it so I changed my mind.

    @LittleNell107‌ That is really good to know and makes me feel better that I'm not the only one. I want to get as my body as close to naturally regulated as possible and feel this is the best way to do it. I have a good workout schedule of about 45min - 1hour 6 days a week. I eat pretty well..could be better. That's part of why I am doing this, so that one cheat day doesn't undo a months worth of work, which is what's been happening. Keep me updated with how it's going for you.
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    Tubbs216 wrote: »
    I also hoped the weight would drop off after I had mine removed, but no - it's the same, slow, steady slog that it's always been.

    Hope your surgery goes well. Is it a major op? I'm trying to get my husband in for the Snip, but he goes green whenever I mention it, so I'm starting to wonder whether I should get myself taken care of instead. (Don't really want to though. After 25 years of getting MY body messed around with, I feel like he should take one for the team...)

    I booked my hubby in for the snip next month.. hallefrickanleauhlea :bigsmile: I'll drag him there by his ear if I have to!!
    I went through 30 hours of pain having our 2 kids. He can go through a 20 minute procedure :wink:
  • esasse
    esasse Posts: 17 Member
    Hahaha I love that!!!
  • Blueseraphchaos
    Blueseraphchaos Posts: 843 Member
    I got my mirena removed in 2010 after i gained a lot of weight and was unable to lose any at all. Right after i had it removed, i lost 30 lbs. I went from condoms to the pill and the weight stayed off, although i didn't lose any more because i wasn't actively trying. Went on depo because i wanted something longer-term and gained all the weight back and then some, every single time i got a shot i gained 10 lbs overnight. It was crazy. I quit taking that and got put on a pill and have been losing weight on that.

    I have so many issues with my cycle that i don't want to be off something that regulates it, but i do wish i could just not have to deal with hormones. Good luck with everything!
  • esasse
    esasse Posts: 17 Member
    My friend mentioned an ablation. It gets rid of the lining of your uterus. It is used for those that have issues with your cycle. No hormones. You have to be done having kids though. I was going to do it with this but my insurance didn't cover it as much as I'd like.
  • GlitterMamma11
    GlitterMamma11 Posts: 143 Member
    I lost 10lbs in about two weeks after having my Mirena removed! I loved how well it worked and that I didn't have a period for 4yrs, but I didn't feel well while I had it. Felt so much better after it was removed!
  • Blueseraphchaos
    Blueseraphchaos Posts: 843 Member
    esasse wrote: »
    My friend mentioned an ablation. It gets rid of the lining of your uterus. It is used for those that have issues with your cycle. No hormones. You have to be done having kids though. I was going to do it with this but my insurance didn't cover it as much as I'd like.

    I have thought about ablation since I'm definitely done having kids, but i have a good friend who had it done and still got pregnant and now has a 3 year old (in addition to her 2 much older children). So I'm very wary, lol.
  • ChicagOH
    ChicagOH Posts: 75 Member
    I applaud OP for taking advantage of the new bc and procedures. A lot of women have a lot of unfounded fears and hang ups about having stuff removed/inserted/tied, etc. My husband a vasectomy 17 years ago when our 2nd child was just months old. No muss. No fuss for all these years. Push for it.
  • Amanda4change
    Amanda4change Posts: 620 Member
    edited March 2015
    I did the Depo for years with no issues (8 years to be exact) got a dose and my hormones went crazy. My OB said no more hormones for at least two years (we were done having kids) had my tubes tied and got pregnant with my son 16 months later. After he was born I did a copper IUD while waiting for hubby to get the two sperm counts after his vasectomy (to make sure we were in the clear). About 8 weeks after having the IUD placed it punctured my uterus and I had emergency surgery to remove it. If having your hubby get a vasectomy is an option I highly suggest it, it's a 30 minute procedure and even my hubby (who's a wimp about being sick or in pain) was back to "normal" in 3 days
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    I did the Depo for years with no issues (8 years to be exact) got a dose and my hormones went crazy. My OB said no more hormones for at least two years (we were done having kids) had my tubes tied and got pregnant with my son 16 months later. After he was born I did a copper IUD while waiting for hubby to get the two sperm counts after his vasectomy (to make sure we were in the clear). About 8 weeks after having the IUD placed it punctured my uterus and I had emergency surgery to remove it. If having your hubby get a vasectomy is an option I highly suggest it, it's a 30 minute procedure and even my hubby (who's a wimp about being sick or in pain) was back to "normal" in 3 days

    Holy crap! Talk about bad luck :disappointed:

  • Sabine_Stroehm
    Sabine_Stroehm Posts: 19,263 Member
    I had the mirena. Briefly. I HATED it. I'm so glad I had it removed, for weight control and other reasons. There ARE other options (other than hormonal BC).
    Good luck!
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    P.s I didn't mean bad luck about having your son :open_mouth: xx
  • Amanda4change
    Amanda4change Posts: 620 Member
    I did the Depo for years with no issues (8 years to be exact) got a dose and my hormones went crazy. My OB said no more hormones for at least two years (we were done having kids) had my tubes tied and got pregnant with my son 16 months later. After he was born I did a copper IUD while waiting for hubby to get the two sperm counts after his vasectomy (to make sure we were in the clear). About 8 weeks after having the IUD placed it punctured my uterus and I had emergency surgery to remove it. If having your hubby get a vasectomy is an option I highly suggest it, it's a 30 minute procedure and even my hubby (who's a wimp about being sick or in pain) was back to "normal" in 3 days

    Holy crap! Talk about bad luck :disappointed:


    If it wasn't for bad luck I'd have no luck. In my world Murphy was an optimist. If it can go wrong it will go wrong and the less likely it is to happen or the crazier the outcome the more likely it will happen to me.
  • CaliforniaRower
    CaliforniaRower Posts: 187 Member
    The Mirena caused me to get melasma (dark brown patches) on my skin within 6 weeks of insertion. My GYN claimed that wasn't the cause, but I did the research. I had three mostly-grown kids by then, so it sure wasn't pregnancy or hormones! I have NEVER been able to lose weight as easily since, and now - it's 6 years later - I'm in peri, so I feel really bummed. I DO think there's an awful lot about the Mirena no one tells us! It surely needs to be tested further.
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    I did the Depo for years with no issues (8 years to be exact) got a dose and my hormones went crazy. My OB said no more hormones for at least two years (we were done having kids) had my tubes tied and got pregnant with my son 16 months later. After he was born I did a copper IUD while waiting for hubby to get the two sperm counts after his vasectomy (to make sure we were in the clear). About 8 weeks after having the IUD placed it punctured my uterus and I had emergency surgery to remove it. If having your hubby get a vasectomy is an option I highly suggest it, it's a 30 minute procedure and even my hubby (who's a wimp about being sick or in pain) was back to "normal" in 3 days

    Holy crap! Talk about bad luck :disappointed:


    If it wasn't for bad luck I'd have no luck. In my world Murphy was an optimist. If it can go wrong it will go wrong and the less likely it is to happen or the crazier the outcome the more likely it will happen to me.

    naaaawww. If there is such a thing. ... You're next life will be a gooden xx

  • Amanda4change
    Amanda4change Posts: 620 Member
    I did the Depo for years with no issues (8 years to be exact) got a dose and my hormones went crazy. My OB said no more hormones for at least two years (we were done having kids) had my tubes tied and got pregnant with my son 16 months later. After he was born I did a copper IUD while waiting for hubby to get the two sperm counts after his vasectomy (to make sure we were in the clear). About 8 weeks after having the IUD placed it punctured my uterus and I had emergency surgery to remove it. If having your hubby get a vasectomy is an option I highly suggest it, it's a 30 minute procedure and even my hubby (who's a wimp about being sick or in pain) was back to "normal" in 3 days

    Holy crap! Talk about bad luck :disappointed:


    If it wasn't for bad luck I'd have no luck. In my world Murphy was an optimist. If it can go wrong it will go wrong and the less likely it is to happen or the crazier the outcome the more likely it will happen to me.

    naaaawww. If there is such a thing. ... You're next life will be a gooden xx

    There are days when I figure I must have been someone very bad (like Hitler) in a past life
  • esasse
    esasse Posts: 17 Member
    Thanks for all your feedback and stories. I am so excited. My husband would get a vasectomy but in addition to the extra time to make sure it takes, I think his insurance doesn't cover it as much as mine covers the tubal. I just want to get it done and over with. :)
  • afur73
    afur73 Posts: 63 Member
    i have today raised the subject of me getting a vasectomy, my wife isn keen on it as she isnt sure she is ready for something so 'permanent'. even though i have said for about 3 years that i dont want any more kids, she doesnt want any more either. i said that we would just use condoms until confirmation of vasectomy success.
  • Sabine_Stroehm
    Sabine_Stroehm Posts: 19,263 Member
    The Mirena caused me to get melasma (dark brown patches) on my skin within 6 weeks of insertion. My GYN claimed that wasn't the cause, but I did the research. I had three mostly-grown kids by then, so it sure wasn't pregnancy or hormones! I have NEVER been able to lose weight as easily since, and now - it's 6 years later - I'm in peri, so I feel really bummed. I DO think there's an awful lot about the Mirena no one tells us! It surely needs to be tested further.

    I'm sure you're right about Mirena. I remember my doc claiming that it had no systemic effects. Oh yeah? So bigger, sore boobs, migraines, low libido, acnes and bloating were just a coincidence? riiiiiiiiiggght.
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