Called a DILF!!!
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if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
Lol, well, also, sometimes people use acronyms without really thinking about what they mean. Like MILF gets used a lot and it's a little softer than the whole phrase spelled out.
This. And also, friends say stuff to each other that they wouldn't say to other people. NBD to me.
And why wouldn't it be a success? It's nice to feel like you are looking good, especially if it's been awhile since anybody has said that about you.
Exactly, its an expression, and was meant as a compliment without ANY thought to the F.
Sheesh, how do people go through life with ZERO sense of humor?
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if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
Lol, well, also, sometimes people use acronyms without really thinking about what they mean. Like MILF gets used a lot and it's a little softer than the whole phrase spelled out.
This. And also, friends say stuff to each other that they wouldn't say to other people. NBD to me.
And why wouldn't it be a success? It's nice to feel like you are looking good, especially if it's been awhile since anybody has said that about you.
I think the point we are missing here is a conversation between a man and his daughter's 20 year old friend.
EDTA : In a man's house in front of his daughter. The whole dynamics would further change if person is married or in a steady relationship that this friend knows about. I so apologize for this question. I just cannot fathom the idea of it being a success. But please again this is just me.0 -
I'm sure it was a lighthearted compliment as "DILF" and "MILF" have become synonymous with finding an older person attractive.0
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There was no "conversation" It was a comment, nothing more. There will be no F'ing of any kind in any way.0
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if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
Lol, well, also, sometimes people use acronyms without really thinking about what they mean. Like MILF gets used a lot and it's a little softer than the whole phrase spelled out.
This. And also, friends say stuff to each other that they wouldn't say to other people. NBD to me.
And why wouldn't it be a success? It's nice to feel like you are looking good, especially if it's been awhile since anybody has said that about you.
I think the point we are missing here is a conversation between a man and his daughter's 20 year old friend.
For some reason I thought that the daughter had just passed along the comment. Either way, though, still doesn't bother me. I might feel differently if he had said "she called me a DILF so I asked her out and we are meeting for drinks this Friday and after that..." But he didn't.
Same. Doesn't sound like OP is exactly Joey Buttafuoco.0 -
if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
nods.
Also interesting thumbnail picture- that exact picture is hanging up in a building I visit quiescently.0 -
I'd also like to go back and say- if this was a 16 year old boy- talking about 30-40 year old woman- no one would be surprised a boy would say that. She probably wouldn't overtly say something about being proud of it- but no one would be shocked if a boy of that age said oh yeah check out that MILF.0
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if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
Lol, well, also, sometimes people use acronyms without really thinking about what they mean. Like MILF gets used a lot and it's a little softer than the whole phrase spelled out.
This. And also, friends say stuff to each other that they wouldn't say to other people. NBD to me.
And why wouldn't it be a success? It's nice to feel like you are looking good, especially if it's been awhile since anybody has said that about you.
I think the point we are missing here is a conversation between a man and his daughter's 20 year old friend.
For some reason I thought that the daughter had just passed along the comment. Either way, though, still doesn't bother me. I might feel differently if he had said "she called me a DILF so I asked her out and we are meeting for drinks this Friday and after that..." But he didn't.
Same. Doesn't sound like OP is exactly Joey Buttafuoco.
Haha thanks!! Dont worry I threw out my zumba pants weeks ago!
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I'm going to have to agree with those who say that the situation was probably innocent enough but the report of said comment or complement was the issue. I don't think we would be having this conversation right now if you just said that your daughter's friend thought you looked good for an older man.0
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I see nothing wrong with it. A young woman...and a 20 year old IS a woman, that she is his daughter's friend is irrelevant, every woman is someone's daughter after all....expressed to a man who had lost weight that he is looking good.
if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
Lol, well, also, sometimes people use acronyms without really thinking about what they mean. Like MILF gets used a lot and it's a little softer than the whole phrase spelled out.
This. And also, friends say stuff to each other that they wouldn't say to other people. NBD to me.
And why wouldn't it be a success? It's nice to feel like you are looking good, especially if it's been awhile since anybody has said that about you.
I think the point we are missing here is a conversation between a man and his daughter's 20 year old friend.
EDTA : In a man's house in front of his daughter. The whole dynamics would further change if person is married or in a steady relationship that this friend knows about. I so apologize for this question. I just cannot fathom the idea of it being a success. But please again this is just me.
OF COURSE, he is happy about that. Anybody would be. Is a compliment not a compliment regardless of who it comes from? Even when men I have absolutely no interest in compliment me, I am always at least flattered...even if they say it in not the smoothest most PC way. We all like to look good and be thought of as attractive...nothing wrong with that.
She used the phrase, not him. And frankly, terms like that are frequently casually used just to express that an older person (compared to the person using the phrase) is attractive.
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Well done mate. It reminds me of Kevin Spacey in American Beauty.0
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I wish a girl had ever called me a DILF...I've been called a TW*T a few times by girls though
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*shrugs* I see nothing wrong with it.
I honestly think the outrage is because it was a 20 year old female saying it about a guy. The fact that she was his daughters friend is irrelevant. If it were reversed and it was a sons friend saying it about a mom I'm sure the response would be much different.0 -
Haha, well that beats, dude you really let yourself go!0
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Haha, well that beats, dude you really let yourself go!
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR LOSS. TRUST ME I HEARD A KID CALL ME A DUFF (DESIGNATED UGLY FAT FRIEND)
to all the people claiming its creepy...no it is not always about the F, it is about the compliment. nowadays it seems that no one can pay a compliment unless it is revolved around Fing. i think that a man that takes care of himself and his kids is one of the best looking things possible.
why cant anyone just understand that the person receiving it feels as if it is a compliment and not wanting to bang the kid's friend??????0 -
Haha, well that beats, dude you really let yourself go!
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR LOSS. TRUST ME I HEARD A KID CALL ME A DUFF (DESIGNATED UGLY FAT FRIEND)
to all the people claiming its creepy...no it is not always about the F, it is about the compliment. nowadays it seems that no one can pay a compliment unless it is revolved around Fing. i think that a man that takes care of himself and his kids is one of the best looking things possible.
why cant anyone just understand that the person receiving it feels as if it is a compliment and not wanting to bang the kid's friend??????
Probably because in communications delivery is more important than content. :huh:
ETA OP, btw congrats on the successful weight loss. I know how this feels so keep up the good work.0 -
Haha, well that beats, dude you really let yourself go!
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR LOSS. TRUST ME I HEARD A KID CALL ME A DUFF (DESIGNATED UGLY FAT FRIEND)
to all the people claiming its creepy...no it is not always about the F, it is about the compliment. nowadays it seems that no one can pay a compliment unless it is revolved around Fing. i think that a man that takes care of himself and his kids is one of the best looking things possible.
why cant anyone just understand that the person receiving it feels as if it is a compliment and not wanting to bang the kid's friend??????
Thanks! And you aren't a DUFF!!!
In my wildest dreams I didn't think I was offending anyone as CLEARLY the F part of DILF was a stupid expression and not some actual request. Sheesh, some people will invent drama anywhere for any reason. This is a weight loss/fitness support group, not the huffington post!
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Haha, well that beats, dude you really let yourself go!
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR LOSS. TRUST ME I HEARD A KID CALL ME A DUFF (DESIGNATED UGLY FAT FRIEND)
to all the people claiming its creepy...no it is not always about the F, it is about the compliment. nowadays it seems that no one can pay a compliment unless it is revolved around Fing. i think that a man that takes care of himself and his kids is one of the best looking things possible.
why cant anyone just understand that the person receiving it feels as if it is a compliment and not wanting to bang the kid's friend??????
Thanks! And you aren't a DUFF!!!
In my wildest dreams I didn't think I was offending anyone as CLEARLY the F part of DILF was a stupid expression and not some actual request. Sheesh, some people will invent drama anywhere for any reason. This is a weight loss/fitness support group, not the huffington post!
LOL. No foolin'!
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Haha, well that beats, dude you really let yourself go!
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR LOSS. TRUST ME I HEARD A KID CALL ME A DUFF (DESIGNATED UGLY FAT FRIEND)
to all the people claiming its creepy...no it is not always about the F, it is about the compliment. nowadays it seems that no one can pay a compliment unless it is revolved around Fing. i think that a man that takes care of himself and his kids is one of the best looking things possible.
why cant anyone just understand that the person receiving it feels as if it is a compliment and not wanting to bang the kid's friend??????
Thanks! And you aren't a DUFF!!!
In my wildest dreams I didn't think I was offending anyone as CLEARLY the F part of DILF was a stupid expression and not some actual request. Sheesh, some people will invent drama anywhere for any reason. This is a weight loss/fitness support group, not the huffington post!
thank you!
i do not know how old you are but i call my boyfriend a DILF because he is a dad and he is good looking plus he takes care of the kids....
i get the deleivery may have bothered people but to each their own. no sense of humor. obviously people didnt have an issue with dude banging Stifflers mom0 -
After losing 10 pounds in 3 weeks on a healthy low carb plan, my oldest daughter's best friend called me a DILF.
I have been on an off here for a year. Some success but nothing life changing. I think I found my keys to success: eggs for breakfast, a mountain of green veggies/salad with a protein on top. Diet Dr Pepper to handle my sweet cravings.
Thought I have a long way to go, I am quite happy!
DILF? Do I Look Fat? I don't get what she's saying?0 -
After losing 10 pounds in 3 weeks on a healthy low carb plan, my oldest daughter's best friend called me a DILF.
I have been on an off here for a year. Some success but nothing life changing. I think I found my keys to success: eggs for breakfast, a mountain of green veggies/salad with a protein on top. Diet Dr Pepper to handle my sweet cravings.
Thought I have a long way to go, I am quite happy!
DILF? Do I Look Fat? I don't get what she's saying?
Well played! This guy gets it!
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Mandea0321 wrote: »People need to stop assuming that just because he said "daughters friend" that this friend is under age or that he would even consider dating/ "F"ing her. I think I'd see that as a compliment, however an awkward one, but I would find it flattering anyway.
No need to be jealous guys
With daughters that age myself, it would be awkward!! But it would be a compliment - still weird, but a compliment.
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The more interesting reaction would be my wife's ...0 -
Had to google DILF and wish I hadn't - I'm getting old!0
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amandarunning wrote: »Had to google DILF and wish I hadn't - I'm getting old!
First time I've seen it too but I got the idea quick lol.0 -
amandarunning wrote: »Had to google DILF and wish I hadn't - I'm getting old!
OHH! I had to google too. 0 -
I just have to say this.....I've seen countless threads where women say their goal is "to be a MILF" or that someone called them a MILF and they love it. This shouldn't be any different. Also, 20 year olds are adults, and it is not uncomfortable or wrong to be complimented by them, regardless of how old you are. I met my wife when I was 35, she 22. Deal with it.0
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I just have to say this.....I've seen countless threads where women say their goal is "to be a MILF" or that someone called them a MILF and they love it. This shouldn't be any different. Also, 20 year olds are adults, and it is not uncomfortable or wrong to be complimented by them, regardless of how old you are. I met my wife when I was 35, she 22. Deal with it.
BRAVO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you for that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!0 -
I just have to say this.....I've seen countless threads where women say their goal is "to be a MILF" or that someone called them a MILF and they love it. This shouldn't be any different. Also, 20 year olds are adults, and it is not uncomfortable or wrong to be complimented by them, regardless of how old you are. I met my wife when I was 35, she 22. Deal with it.
BRAVO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you for that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anytime.....I don't think the OP is going to do anything regrettable, but all these prison jokes are particularly offensive when you realize a 20 year old is an adult pretty much everywhere.....0 -
Great compliment!
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