Anorexic v.s. Fat Words Hurt

JoRocka

sofaking6 wrote: »

melimomTARDIS wrote: »

being called "skinny b1tch" hurts. I used to be fat, now I am thin, and when someone calls you that, it actually isnt very nice at all.

So you say, and I believe you, but I cannot believe that I would personally be anything but ecstatic to hear that.

I think it's one of those things- when someone's trying to insult you- and be mean- you're going to know it- and be insulted.

I've been called every name under the sun- including C you next Tuesday- many times- and only once was I TRULY offended. Seriously- c*mguzzlingdumspterwhore- whatever- didn't care. Because I knew they weren't really serious- or it was out of anger.

It was when someone else ACTUALLY called me the C you next Tuesday- and MEANT it specifically to be degrading- then I was mad.

So you can be any shape and size and be insulted- somewhere someone will have something to say- people insult me I'm sure- and sometimes I'm offended- sometimes I'm not. But ultimately if someone's trying to be mean and belittle you- it doesn't matter- it's still wrong and hurtful. The actual shape or position the person is receiving the insult is irrelevant. It's not about them anyway.