Random Useful Advice
This may be old, but its message is still relevant and worth sharing. 
(For those who are unfamiliar with this one and want the music and video, search YouTube for: Baz Luhrmann - Everybody's Free (To Wear Sunscreen). The first one is the original video.)
Ladies and gentlemen of the class of 2015, wear sunscreen.
If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it.
The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience.
I will dispense this advice now.
Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth.
Oh, never mind...
You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded.
But trust me, in twenty years you will look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you, and how fabulous you really looked.
You are not as fat as you imagine.
Don't worry about the future.
...or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum.
The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindsides you at 4 p.m. on some idle Tuesday.
Do one thing every day that scares you.
...sing...
Don't be reckless with other peoples' hearts,
don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.
...floss...
Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind.
The race is long... and in the end, it's only with yourself.
Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults.
If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.
...stretch...
Don't feel guilty if you don't know what want to do with your life.
The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives.
Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't know.
Get plenty of calcium.
Be kind to your knees, you'll miss them when they're gone.
Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't
Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't
Maybe you'll divorce at 40
Maybe you'll dance the "Funky Chicken" on your 75th wedding anniversary.
Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either.
Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's.
Enjoy your body, use it every way you can.
Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.
Dance.
Even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.
Read the directions even if you don't follow them.
Do not read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly!
Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good.
Be nice to your siblings, they are your best link to your past
and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Understand that friends come and go
But with a precious few, we should hold on.
Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle,
for as the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.
Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard
Live in northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft
Travel.
Accept certain inalienable truths:
Prices will rise, politicians will philander, you too will get old.
And when you do, you'll fantasize that when *you* were young
Prices were reasonable, politicians were noble
And children respected their elders.
Respect *your* elders.
Don't expect anyone else to support you.
Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse
But you never know when either one might run out.
Don't mess too much with your hair, or by the time you're forty, it will look eighty-five.
Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it.
Advice is a form of nostalgia... dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling for more than it's worth.
...but trust me on the sunscreen.
(For those who are unfamiliar with this one and want the music and video, search YouTube for: Baz Luhrmann - Everybody's Free (To Wear Sunscreen). The first one is the original video.)
Ladies and gentlemen of the class of 2015, wear sunscreen.
If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it.
The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience.
I will dispense this advice now.
Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth.
Oh, never mind...
You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded.
But trust me, in twenty years you will look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you, and how fabulous you really looked.
You are not as fat as you imagine.
Don't worry about the future.
...or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum.
The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindsides you at 4 p.m. on some idle Tuesday.
Do one thing every day that scares you.
...sing...
Don't be reckless with other peoples' hearts,
don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.
...floss...
Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind.
The race is long... and in the end, it's only with yourself.
Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults.
If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.
...stretch...
Don't feel guilty if you don't know what want to do with your life.
The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives.
Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't know.
Get plenty of calcium.
Be kind to your knees, you'll miss them when they're gone.
Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't
Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't
Maybe you'll divorce at 40
Maybe you'll dance the "Funky Chicken" on your 75th wedding anniversary.
Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either.
Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's.
Enjoy your body, use it every way you can.
Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.
Dance.
Even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.
Read the directions even if you don't follow them.
Do not read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly!
Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good.
Be nice to your siblings, they are your best link to your past
and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Understand that friends come and go
But with a precious few, we should hold on.
Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle,
for as the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.
Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard
Live in northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft
Travel.
Accept certain inalienable truths:
Prices will rise, politicians will philander, you too will get old.
And when you do, you'll fantasize that when *you* were young
Prices were reasonable, politicians were noble
And children respected their elders.
Respect *your* elders.
Don't expect anyone else to support you.
Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse
But you never know when either one might run out.
Don't mess too much with your hair, or by the time you're forty, it will look eighty-five.
Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it.
Advice is a form of nostalgia... dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling for more than it's worth.
...but trust me on the sunscreen.
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