Help? Looking to find the fun in this again!

Vain_Witch · June 2013

I've *actively* been at this new lifestyle for a little over 6 months now. At first, I LOVED every second of it! I couldn't wait for my next workout and would sometimes work out multiple times in a day. Since then, I've gotten to a more reasonable way of doing things where I workout 5 days a week (3 days strength and cardio and 2 days pure cardio).

But something has just changed in the last month or so. I actually still really enjoy logging my calories and trying to figure out the daily puzzle that is my macros, but working out has become a chore. Don't get me wrong, I'm still doing it and sticking to my goals, but some (most) days I literally feel like I'm forcing myself to get to the gym. On strength training days I'm fine once I get there. There's just some sick pleasure I find in pushing my muscles like that. lol But I've really started HATING cardio! Where I used to be able to spend an hour on a treadmill without thinking anything of it, I now struggle to push myself to finish on some days. I've increased the intensity and started walking a mile each way to/from the gym so I could shorten the amount of time I have to spend doing cardio at the gym and I've even tried switching things up and trying out the elliptical instead (this is a big deal for me as I was NEVER able to do the elliptical before because of issues with my legs). But I still hate it.

Has anyone else run into this kind of rut? And what have you done to break out of it? I'm looking for any ideas!

LivingtheLeanDream · June 2013

I've not got to that stage...YET!! I've been actively workout out daily since January so maybe its too soon LOL
maybe you need to change up your workout, try something different, even if its just getting outside to walk fast/jog? or check out some new workouts, I've came across some fab ones lately by Jessica Smith and she has loads on youtube - you wont get bored with her and she has a great style with her

Hope you get through your funk - keep in mind all the hard work so far has paid off...keep your eye firmly on your goal - the workouts are TOTALLY WORTH THE EFFORT :-D great sense of well being/ being toned/ extra fitness..so keep up the great work

Morninglory81 · June 2013

Maybe try a cardio class to switch things up?

SkinnyMsFitness · June 2013

Hi! Yes! I think everyone suffers from lost motivation from time-to-time; the important thing is to ensure you stick with your routine, even though you may not 'feel like it.' Try to switch things up...do activities that you don't normally do...expand on things.

Try to focus on the positive things...like how great you feel after you work out...instead of how much you dread going to workout.

Good luck! Happens to the best of us!

LorinaLynn · June 2013

Can you do your cardio outside instead?

I would rather shove bamboo shoots under my fingernails while listening to Justin Bieber on a constant loop than run on a treadmill, and I hate the elliptical even more, but put me outside and I'm golden. And if I happen to get bored during a run, I still have to get home. There is no quitting. :laugh:

micqs · June 2013

Look for fitness classes to spice it up! Zumba is an absolute blast. I find going to the gym day in and day out just gets boring and monotonous. Any fitness class offered would be a great change. If there is a pool or body of water near you, try swimming. There is do much to do In Terms of fitness in a pool! Look for a ladies group to go out and walk/run with.

DaveJ_43 · June 2013

I get into these phases too. For me, variety helps keep me interested. Did I see you looking at Insanity earlier? Insanity, P90X, and other Beachbody programs offer variety. You could also add yoga to the mix - there are many varieties of yoga to explore too. Having workout buddies also helps - your end up motivating each other. Running with buddies worked well for me (when I was younger and still had knees). It was a lot of fun training for long races with a buddy. Also agree with Pamela's comment - sticking to a routine helps. Anyway, hope you figure out what works for you!

nika_bolinhos · June 2013

How about dance classes? They are great for cardio and it's something you can see yourself improving with time, it helps you to keep motivated

badbradclark · June 2013

Sometimes you need an off day - or an off week. Maybe your body is telling you that you've pushed hard for 6 months and it needs a break. Just like your muscles need time to repair themselves between workouts, your whole body and mind might just need a few days to refresh and recharge. But make sure it is a controlled downtime - don't over-indulge or allow yourself to slip back into habits that you might have broken over the last 6 months.

Southernb3lle · June 2013

YES! Considering that I have been off and on for the last 2 years. Sometimes I really enjoy this and sometimes I just can't get into it. I do agree that you need a day or 2 rest from exercise..it helps me anyway. I have managed to lose about 50 lbs altogether (and not gain much back)...slow and steady.

Southernb3lle · June 2013

YOGA! I love it. I had not done it in a while but incorporated it back in with Beachbody's YBB.

MeadeNJ · June 2013

Give it a break. If it becomes a chore more than a pleasure than it's time to find something else that provides the same results while keeping it interesting. Cardio 'in a gym' is by nature a long and uneventful type of exercise that provides minimal benefits compared to other possible approaches such as: weight lifting, Tabata/High-Intensity-Interval-Training (HIIT), etc. Maybe you need to switch to outdoor training, enter a competition of some type, get involved in a sport (karate, climbing, etc.). Never STOP everything, just keep trying new things.

RunnerElizabeth · June 2013

I'd rather kill myself then spend 5 days a week running on the treadmill. I don't even know what to do with an elliptical or stationary bike. Why would one want to stay in one place for 30 minutes to an hour? There is no play list in the world that good.

This is largely a matter of personal preference, but I really only take my cardio inside when I risk death by asthma attack due to high pollen count. So that would be my first advice, take your workout outside, go running, ride a bike, actually cover some distance when you workout, the fresh air and real sense of accomplisment when you realize you actually went somewhere will be good for you.

Other than outside, try something new, a boxing class a dance class, try something you find interesting but have always been nervous to try.

billsica · June 2013

You could take a bit of a break.
I like lifting right now and running. I might throw some swimming in too.

..and just run outside.

Have you thought about signing up for a competition? That way your not working out, but training. 5ks are all over and pretty cheap.

1ConcreteGirl · June 2013

If I don't cardio, why do you think you have to?

CharliesInCharge · June 2013

she knows of what she speaks.. look at her pics if you ever have the chance

I like cardio more than most but you don't NEED to do it.. you do what works for you

lifting heavy works for 1concretegirl for sure

Vain_Witch · June 2013

Everyone (including my trainer) keeps telling me that cardio is necessary for burning fat (which I still have some to burn off), strength training is meant for building muscle and BOTH are what I still need at this point. If someone can prove to me that this isn't true, I will worship at your feet for life! lol!

1ConcreteGirl · June 2013

You can pay me via paypal. :P

skullshank · June 2013

dont worry OP...i'll worship her feet for you.

Factory_Reset · June 2013

IN, I deserve to be worshiped.

1ConcreteGirl · June 2013

Your traner means well, but anyone who has said cardio is necessary for burning fat is completely wrong. Strength training will not make you build muscle if you are at a deficit, either.

AllTehBeers · June 2013

True story. What burns fat is eating a calorie deficit.

Vain_Witch · June 2013

lol! Hmmmm...my bank account may not agree with the amount I would owe you! :-D

If you don't do any cardio, and strictly weights...how often do you lift and how long are your workouts generally? Do you incorporate anything other than lifting?

Oh, and for everyone suggesting running...Unfortunately not an option for me. My doctor told me no running...I tried to prove him wrong recently and after a few weeks going strong with the C25K program, my damn bad leg gave out again. FOR NOW, I'm going to listen to the doctor...That being said, I do walk A LOT. If it's within a mile or so from my house I just walk there unless it's pouring rain and my daughter is with me.

billsica · June 2013

Its true you don't need it. I enjoy cardio so I do it. I enjoy feet so I lick them. I lift weight because I'm a man.

mwilke · June 2013

HAHAHAHA! That is probably the funniest thing that I have read! Love it! And very true. I think I have only used a treadmill at the gym once before I was even seriously trying to be healthy. All of my walks and jogs are outside. When it rains and snows, I thought about trying to run in place- just not sure if I would enjoy it as much...

iulia_maddie · June 2013

Yes. This^^

Cardio helps with creating that deficit. But if you are in control of your eating, you don't need it.
I basically do cardio once in a while when I go way overboard on my calories. Sometimes not even then.

1ConcreteGirl · June 2013

I lift four times a week, generally for about 90 minutes. I do 5 minutes of walking and two minutes of jump rope to warm up, so if you want to call that cardio, that's the extent of it.

zlauerMom · June 2013

This was my gut reaction, too.

ellen_kay · June 2013

I have but am just the opposite. I would rather do the cardio instead of weight/strength training. Those days are a struggle. I ended up taking the week off of strength training last week and did just cardio. But I am back at it this week. We'll see how it goes. Try to mix it up some. Maybe your are just bored with the routine.

Finnellappe · June 2013

I found getting started a nightmare, and I can imagine it would be just as bad getting back into things. I'm doing stuff I find fun to get my exercise though, like jump rope, hula hoop and jumping jacks. All staples of my childhood before I started getting fat, and still loads of fun

spirytwynd · June 2013

It sounds like you have gotten a bunch of good suggestions. So why should I respond? Because I have screen ink to spare? ;-)) Seriously (or at least a little bit more seriously), find the fun. If you can find the fun and the passion, it will help boost you back up. Yes, working out can be challenging, but it shouldn't be an exercise in drudgery. Cardio comes in so many flavors. Tired of the treadmill? Get out and ride a bike. Even better if you ride with a friend. Go find a good hill and run up and down it. Play a game of volley ball or ultimate frisbee. Get out and get involved. Cardio doesn't have to be tied to a treadmill or an ellyptical machine. Try the Zumba thing, or yoga. Mix it up and put a fresh face on it. Cardio is simply moving faster and keeping it up. There are more flavors of cardio than there are flavors of Baskin Robbins ice cream! Everything from paddling a canoe to running in a Tough Mudder event. It is all out there for you to discover and enjoy! Find the passion again. Live, love, breathe and enjoy! :-)) Good luck!!

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