Transitioning from MyFitnessPal

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  • GoPerfectHealth
    GoPerfectHealth Posts: 254 Member
    I can't tell you how many people have told me that MFP is a gateway to an eating disorder.

    When I read on here how people knock every other way of eating as unsustainable for life, I cringe because they clearly think that weighing and measuring every solid and liquid that enters their body is something they should do for life. That's an eating disorder in the making and such unhealthy thinking.

    MFP is a tool, just like Weight Watchers or Jenny Craig ... Like them, it's not sustainable for life and shouldn't be thought of that way. but you don't need it anymore and everybody's goal on MFP should be to not need it.

    Transition slowly and trust that you have learned to intuitively eat well. If you get off track, you can start counting again. It's scary to give up something that served you well, but not doing it may lead to something unhealthy.

    Awesome job!

    Or, weighing and measuring for life can be exactly what some people need to do to prevent an early death. Studies show that successful maintainers continue the behaviors that helped them lose the weight.

  • gotolam
    gotolam Posts: 262 Member
    SideSteel wrote: »
    With all due respect I think the advice to "keep logging" is horrible and it's neglecting your feelings about this.

    There are people who do not do well with long term tracking/logging. Sounds to me like you're one of them and based on that I'd get yourself away from logging.

    You can do it cold turkey if that's your thing. I have limited experience with clients doing this but it tends to work best for people who have firmly established eating habits. So for example, people who have a consistent eating frequency, good appetite regulation, and basically consistent day to day eating habits and good self awareness.

    Another method you can take would be to gradually remove logging. This works better for some people because it allows you to ease yourself into it. If you go this route I'd start by logging a few days AFTER you eat rather than before. So for example log your food at the end of the day rather than before so that you're potentially less calorie focused during the day and you're not necessarily looking at your numbers and letting that dictate your food choices. A gradual approach would also allow you to troubleshoot a bit more along the way. A gradual approach also allows you some time to build self awareness about your food habits if you've not done so already.

    If you're maintaining successfully for a week or two this way, I'd remove a day or two of logging, preferably during the week (log weekends still). Give it another week or two, see how you're doing and how you feel. Over a month or two you'll peel away the logging habits and eventually full stop.

    In either case I'd really recommend that you continue to weigh yourself provided that weighing yourself doesn't cause issues. Keep track of a 7 day average of bodyweight and compare week to week averages. Allow yourself a range of acceptable weight so that you're not immediately resuming logging after a 1lb gain. I think a good 5lb window is appropriate for most people.

    If you find that you can't maintain weight without logging, do not conclude that this means you have to log. This means that you haven't established the necessary habits to maintain weight without logging but it does not mean that you can't acquire those habits.

    Finally I'll add that some people do need a set of rules in their diet to regulate energy intake. This is a trade off to not logging and it works really well for some people. But whether you need these depends on your CURRENT set of eating habits and how well you maintain those without logging.

    Most sensible thing I've read on MFP for a long time.
  • seska422
    seska422 Posts: 3,217 Member
    SallyinIL wrote: »
    This might not be a popular opinion but I need to keep track of my food in the same way that I need to keep track of my money. MFP for my food is just like having a budget plan my money. Because life changes so very much from day to day, saying I don't need to keep tabs on my money or my food is just looking for trouble.

    Just my $0.02.
    This makes a lot of sense.

    No one tells people that they need to get the hang of estimating money without keeping detailed records of their transactions.

    I think that sustained logging of food is more of an "eating order" than an "eating disorder", especially with the ease of logging online. Detailed records are much easier to keep these days than they used to be and you can go back through and look at trends when you have the data.
  • grandma107
    grandma107 Posts: 70 Member
    Vixenmd1 wrote: »
    Vixen, I am very sorry for your loss!
    Thank you it has been the roughest two weeks of my whole families life.

    I too send loving condolences. I have two sisters who also died from heat attacks albeit they did not take care of themselves. I went for a stress test due to fear of genetic heart issues. Time may not heal wounds but it teaches us how to move on. Blessings.
  • mr21mr21
    mr21mr21 Posts: 21 Member
    I view MFP the same as a spreadsheet I use to track my finances and net worth. I have developed good habits and generally make good decisions however it's nice to see the numbers also.
  • Whittedo
    Whittedo Posts: 352 Member
    SallyinIL wrote: »
    But honestly? I've seen what happens when I STOP logging things. I quickly forget what a portion size looks like and end up overeating.

    Yes, indeed. "Creeping Quantities" is what got me back to needing to take off pounds again.
    "Creeping Quantities" What a great name for a band

  • marcianne98
    marcianne98 Posts: 20 Member
    SallyinIL wrote: »
    This might not be a popular opinion but I need to keep track of my food in the same way that I need to keep track of my money. MFP for my food is just like having a budget plan my money. Because life changes so very much from day to day, saying I don't need to keep tabs on my money or my food is just looking for trouble.

    Just my $0.02.

    This is a great analogy!
    It's healthy in my opinion to keep tabs on something that can get out of control.
  • MelodyandBarbells
    MelodyandBarbells Posts: 7,724 Member
    OP can you tell us some more about why you want to transition? Is it because you don't want to feel tethered to the tool, or because people say you should or you feel it's the right thing to do at this point in your journey? I'm just reading so many conclusions on how it can be unhealthy to log long term but obviously this may or may not be the case for you. I myself continue to log but I do take breaks when I travel. In my case I eat all the food during those breaks, so coming back to log does feel necessary and more like part of my normal, daily routine that happens to include Weight Management activity, for ME.

    My suggestion would be to truly sort out your feelings on why you want to transition. At that point, the next step should be a bit more clear
  • barbecuesauce
    barbecuesauce Posts: 1,771 Member
    I'm 11-21 pounds above maintenance and the idea of continuing to weigh and log makes me feel like I will maintain this loss. But if you feel like it's not working for you, why not take baby steps? Eyeball your portions for a bit to see if you gain before you quit logging completely.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    edited April 2015
    I can't tell you how many people have told me that MFP is a gateway to an eating disorder.

    When I read on here how people knock every other way of eating as unsustainable for life, I cringe because they clearly think that weighing and measuring every solid and liquid that enters their body is something they should do for life. That's an eating disorder in the making and such unhealthy thinking.

    MFP is a tool, just like Weight Watchers or Jenny Craig ... Like them, it's not sustainable for life and shouldn't be thought of that way. but you don't need it anymore and everybody's goal on MFP should be to not need it.

    Transition slowly and trust that you have learned to intuitively eat well. If you get off track, you can start counting again. It's scary to give up something that served you well, but not doing it may lead to something unhealthy.

    Awesome job!

    I disagree with the bold statement above, and I have an eating disordered past. In fact, I think that kind of statement is bull and probably a projection from the person(s) who told you that.

    I commend you for not wanting to count calories for the rest of your life, but there are some of us who have no problem continuing to log food and count calories. I've always known what a portion looks like, but I never wanted to do portion control because staying fat and unhealthy benefited me. I've been in maintenance for over a year and I still weigh my food and count calories because I have a long history in obesity. However, when I was on vacation in Ireland last year, I did not log and I did not gain any weight, but I was more active than I am now so I burned off the calories.

    There is no right or wrong way to do weight loss or maintenance. Some people have never counted calories or logged food in their life and lost weight and kept it off, others do it from weight loss and for the rest of their lives.

    You need to do what's best for you.

  • peterjens
    peterjens Posts: 235 Member
    It's hard to manage what you can't measure.
  • SideSteel
    SideSteel Posts: 11,068 Member
    peterjens wrote: »
    It's hard to manage what you can't measure.

    If measuring is driving you nuts then it's in your best interest to learn strategies to succeed without measuring.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    edited April 2015
    SideSteel wrote: »
    peterjens wrote: »
    It's hard to manage what you can't measure.

    If measuring is driving you nuts then it's in your best interest to learn strategies to succeed without measuring.

    This is the bottom line. It's about the individual. Weighing and logging keep me food organized and sane, though I only do this at home. The moment it starts interfering with my day is the moment I look for another way to manage my weight.

    You have to find what works for you.
  • TraceyLynn089
    TraceyLynn089 Posts: 11 Member
    Thank you all for your suggestions. My wanting to transition from logging has nothing to do with the time it takes or the measuring. It takes next to no time to hop on to the app and log my food and measuring has become a constant for me....I actually continued to measure some things even during my week hiatus from MFP just because I know how easy it is to overestimate portions especially with things like cereal/granola. My wanting to transition is because have felt to a point that it has taken a control over me almost to an unhealthy point. (I absolutely am not one of the people that restrict calories to below a healthy goal). But, I get so concerned about each little calorie and sometimes forget to just listen to my body. During my training for an upcoming marathon I feel that I have made some definite progress in the mental aspect of balancing logging and not letting it control me...I had an IT band injury and my physical therapist suggested (without knowing I use MFP) that my diet may have had some contribution to my weakness. I also (sorry guys) went close to 3 months without a period. I was following MFP suggestions for calorie intake during this time have come to realize that there is no one size fits all for how much to eat. I have increased my calorie goals and now try to focus on listening to my body rather than focusing on the little calorie amounts (TRYING!! And this is why I was considering trying to transition from logging. For me it is hard NOT to focus on the calories when I see them while logging throughout the day). However, before, if I was getting close to my calorie limit and was still feeling hungry, I would not have eaten anymore for the day but now I will eat knowing that my body is telling me it needs more fuel and that is how I am trying to view my food now..it is fuel for my body.

    All this being said, after reading the comments and thinking about what would benefit ME the most, knowing myself, I do think that I am going to need to be a long time logger. As much as I know what I need to do to eat healthy, MFP brings accountability to the equation and I think that for myself...I need that aspect in order to maintain. BUT, I do think that I will try what many of you suggested and perhaps start logging at the END of the day so that I am not keeping a running tally on myself all day long. I think that would be a good balance of keeping myself accountable and also not letting the numbers control me.
  • helenbenzie75
    helenbenzie75 Posts: 95 Member
    The easiest way to convince yourself that you don't need tech items is to go on a vacation without them. Spend a week or two without internet access, you'll be surprised how quickly the craving for it goes away, jsut like the cravings for soda, or doughnuts did a few years ago.

    This so true, I pick up my phone all the time to check Facebook. Last year I went away to a log cabin with no WiFi (which was amazing) I couldn't use my phone. I didn't use Facebook for around4 months :smile:
  • brcossette
    brcossette Posts: 89 Member

    All this being said, after reading the comments and thinking about what would benefit ME the most, knowing myself, I do think that I am going to need to be a long time logger. As much as I know what I need to do to eat healthy, MFP brings accountability to the equation and I think that for myself...I need that aspect in order to maintain. BUT, I do think that I will try what many of you suggested and perhaps start logging at the END of the day so that I am not keeping a running tally on myself all day long. I think that would be a good balance of keeping myself accountable and also not letting the numbers control me.

    There's truth in everything that was said on both sides of this topic and the answer to the question is somewhere in the middle. Good job, good post and congratulations on your success.
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