Standing up for yourself and harassment

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  • So_Much_Fab
    So_Much_Fab Posts: 1,146 Member
    Sounds like OP of this thread needs advice from you!

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1015364-unwanted-attention
  • clareyoung80
    clareyoung80 Posts: 177 Member
    I'm curious about your age. I'm 45. When I was in my 20's, I had problems with confrontation, too, but as I've aged, had kids, gotten busy, etc..., I've come to the conclusion that life's too short to put up with people like this. Good for you for standing up for yourself and demanding your right to be left alone. And that life coach claim? I all BS. Sounds more like A$$pberger's to me.

    I'm early 30's, formerly very shy as a teen but less so through my twenties. And yeah, I've not got kids but I can imagine they propel you to be more forthright with stuff! I'm ok most of the time, but with persistent stranger confrontation not so much!

    And ditto on him having some kind of social problem...
  • clareyoung80
    clareyoung80 Posts: 177 Member
    Sounds like OP of this thread needs advice from you!

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1015364-unwanted-attention

    Ha! Thank you!! Get the horribleness over and done with!
  • clareyoung80
    clareyoung80 Posts: 177 Member
    Imagine how nice life woulda been if you had adopted this way of thinking years ago, when you first learned to speak.
    Its so freeing.
    I highly recommend it.

    It would have saved me a lot of hassle for sure, and school would have been a darn sight more enjoyable!

    Here here!

    Ha!!
  • RivenV
    RivenV Posts: 1,667 Member
    Okay between this and the gym manager creep thread I am convinced the Zombie Apocalypse has started. This is phase 1 where they case out the joint and prod their first intended dinners for fightbackishness. Fight back ladies, Fight back....pour Tapatio Sauce liberally all over yourselves!
    I'm on it.
  • clareyoung80
    clareyoung80 Posts: 177 Member
    Okay between this and the gym manager creep thread I am convinced the Zombie Apocalypse has started. This is phase 1 where they case out the joint and prod their first intended dinners for fightbackishness. Fight back ladies, Fight back....pour Tapatio Sauce liberally all over yourselves!
    I'm on it.

    Damn... If Walking Dead has taught me anything, it's that confrontation skills are paramount in the zombie apocalypse...
  • Moxie42
    Moxie42 Posts: 1,400 Member
    He must be an amazing life coach :noway: Good for you on standing up for yourself! I just recently started doing that too and it's incredibly liberating!
  • Zombella
    Zombella Posts: 491 Member
    Good for you! I hate when people don't respect your decisions, especially when it comes to wanting to be left alone. Also, who says stuff like that, as in you have abandonment issues? That is odd..
  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    Dude sounds like a crushing bore. Congrats on not punching him, which must have been tempting.