First day fail - second day dreads

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  • minties82
    minties82 Posts: 907 Member
    We all have failure days. I had one yesterday. I ate so much food and did no exercise.

    I've been at this for 130+ days and lost 30kg, even with the bad days.

    Chin up!
  • socalkay
    socalkay Posts: 746 Member
    edited May 2015
    I was going to point out the same thing that laura789a brought up... if you eat a lot of carbs, you will feel very hungry and very often. Also, maybe try pre-logging a day so you see what calories you are planning to consume. Modify as needed before it goes in your mouth. It's a ll a learning process so you did not fail, you learned something.
  • CSARdiver
    CSARdiver Posts: 6,252 Member
    Think marathon - not sprint. Make small changes that are sustainable and small goal that are achievable. Once you've done this for a while successfully, then re-evaluate these goals and make new ones, but don't try anything drastic - that rarely works long term.
  • dubird
    dubird Posts: 1,849 Member
    You're just starting out, I wouldn't consider that a failure. Eye-opening, yes. But don't stress that much about the first few weeks. Get used to the idea of logging and look for trends and patterns. What worked for me was swapping out things slowly. I didn't start cutting large amounts right away or anything like that. By going slow, I was able to retrain myself on what a proper portion actually is, and what things worked for me. Takes longer, but it worked for me. Might not work for you, just food for thought.
  • BumbleBreeBuzz
    BumbleBreeBuzz Posts: 83 Member
    Counting calories is great, but i wouldn't get too hung up on it. Rather look at the content of what you are eating, especially on your bad days. Did i waste calories on something high in fat and sugar? Or was i sincerely hungry and chose the best option available? Thats what i do at least
  • davert123
    davert123 Posts: 1,568 Member
    I agree with all the people who point out this is all learning. Really don't worry, you haven't blown anything you have just found out some information that you didn't know about until today. Have a look at this as well and try and follow some of the links. Its a 101 in fitness and weightloss

    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/1080242/a-guide-to-get-you-started-on-your-path-to-sexypants/p1

    The only way I ever got fat was stopping - don't stop and you will succeed :-) Good luck
  • bclarke1990
    bclarke1990 Posts: 287 Member
    800 calories is less than a quarter of one pound. If you eat at a 300-500 deficit you'll overcome it in two days. Don't worry about small mistakes and just try to learn from them
  • juliebowman4
    juliebowman4 Posts: 784 Member
    I went to the bulk food store.....spent a fortune on pecans, walnuts, dates, dried blueberries, dried cranberries, dried strawberries, sesame seeds, dried Apple, dried mango, pumpkin seeds....
    Threw them all in a big tub and gave them a shake.
    Ta-da!! Healthy snacks, right?
    Not if one is calorie conscious
    Snack size for me= 45320000 calories.
    Real snack size to fit in my calorie goals= a newborn baby's handful.
    Sigh

    At that rate, I'll have the tub of stuff until 2017....
  • Dnarules
    Dnarules Posts: 2,081 Member
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    Bel_Esprit wrote: »
    I'd like to point out you don't know me to suggest my commitment levels to anything. Granted I see where you are coming from, but to make such a statement is in my opinion negative not to mention incorrect.
    Feel free to browse my Instagram. Bel_esprit
    As you will see I enjoy fitness food and life.
    Enjoy the rest of your day.
    I don't have to know you to know what it takes for people to achieve what they really want to achieve.
    There is desire and there is commitment. Lots of people want things. Just wanting something doesn't mean that it will be achieved.
    With commitment, there really are no obstacles, deterrences or setbacks that stop someone from achieving.

    So my comment isn't whether or not you enjoy "fitness food" (no real such thing), and life, but as to how you're just winging it without any real plan. It's not personal, it's an observation that I make with people over the 30 something years in the fitness industry.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

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    Is a moderator correcting grammar?

  • snowflakesav
    snowflakesav Posts: 649 Member
    No fail. Just learn. You are going to get this.
  • Bel_Esprit
    Bel_Esprit Posts: 8 Member
    Dnarules wrote: »
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    Bel_Esprit wrote: »
    I'd like to point out you don't know me to suggest my commitment levels to anything. Granted I see where you are coming from, but to make such a statement is in my opinion negative not to mention incorrect.
    Feel free to browse my Instagram. Bel_esprit
    As you will see I enjoy fitness food and life.
    Enjoy the rest of your day.
    I don't have to know you to know what it takes for people to achieve what they really want to achieve.
    There is desire and there is commitment. Lots of people want things. Just wanting something doesn't mean that it will be achieved.
    With commitment, there really are no obstacles, deterrences or setbacks that stop someone from achieving.

    So my comment isn't whether or not you enjoy "fitness food" (no real such thing), and life, but as to how you're just winging it without any real plan. It's not personal, it's an observation that I make with people over the 30 something years in the fitness industry.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    9285851.png

    Is a moderator correcting grammar?

    lol

    Let me fix that up for everyone
  • Bel_Esprit
    Bel_Esprit Posts: 8 Member
    "As you will see I enjoy fitness food and life."

    I missed out the comma!

    "As you will see I enjoy fitness, food and life."

    Now off to day 3 of my "uncommitted" journey lol

    Feeling happy off to the gym to do some weights after my morning run.
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