worst first date story.. go!
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So back when I was in my early 20's I had a date with this REALLLLLY good looking guy. At the time I had braces but we had skyped 2 days before the date and I know he saw them. So anyway, that night we meet up and when I see him he hugged me and I smiled and he said "Oh you have braces...." and I said "Uhh yeah is that a problem?" he shook his head and I ignored it and we went to get dinner. While sitting in the restaurant he looks at me and says "Ya know....I thought you'd be skinnier." (Mind you I only weighed like 125 at the time) So I threw my napkin on my plate and walked out. He followed me into the parking lot and said "I don't know why you are mad." So I told him off in front of all the people sitting on the deck and they aupplauded me as I walked away haha.
Another one, I agreed to pick up this guy (his car was being repaired) and go out to eat. Well....after he gets in my car he turns and looks at the back seat and says "You got a pretty big back seat." I kicked him out right then and there and left.
And people wonder why I am single....it's a-holes like this!0 -
haha you go girl! I've had many like that (the big back seat guy) that never made it to a date... like if that's how you are with someone you barely know.... i'll pass. I got better things to do in my big back seat (or in my case, and the oh so popular request, the big bed of my truck) lol0
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hanksmom79 wrote: »yopeeps025 wrote: »I wonder if you ignored him right after that question?
I should have just pretended I didn't hear him and gotten the h@!! out of there. The next 15 minutes were awful and awkward with comments from him like "It's not hard to meet people if you're hot" and equally ridiculous quotes. Live and learn
I won't cosign the bold but there is a little truth to it.
That sounds like his confidence is pushing toward cockiness.
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Big back seat guy or big back seat boy.
Some Men don't participate in those high school back seat activities anymore. Some have our own places0 -
yopeeps025 wrote: »Big back seat guy or big back seat boy.
Some Men don't participate in those high school back seat activities anymore. Some have our own places
even if you had your own place it could still be fun... just not for me. unless he had a very wide car. I'm a very tall woman... I don't see the combination of those two facts working well for me lol0 -
OMG I cant believe you actually stayed for the movie, I would have left after mini golf. I met this guy online and the whole date was terrible, it was like dating a two year old...The next day he got hired on by my company and I had to work next to him for 2 years...Worst date ever!0
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I cant believe I did either haha young and dumb.... young and extremely dumb lol
I've worked with an ex before and it was not pleasant...I think working with a guy you just went on a date with would have been just as bad lol0 -
madhatter2013 wrote: »I can't even imagine how some people raise families traveling with carnivals. Anyway, during that time (I was a teenager), the guy I was "with" fell asleep next to me one night with chew in his mouth. I woke up to him coughing it all over me. Not a first date, but gross as hell so I called it an experience and went back home to my parents.
My current bf and I love to go to fairs, truck pulls, and festivals and we, of course, drink. One night, after a few beers, he decides to get a little ambitious and kiss me. Cute, right?! With his dip in!!!!! Like full on make out session right before I'm supposed to drive onto the track, buckled in, truck running, ready to go. And let me tell you, he doesn't take a pinch of chew, he takes a big old finger full. I grabbed his beer and rinsed my mouth out with it so fast! OH HELL NO. Now we have rules about his dip habit...
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I will contribute to the thread though.
So my worst date ever was 100% my fault.
I was meeting someone for the first time in DC. I kept telling her there would be traffic and she with my cousin assured me there would not be too much. I should of known that the NBA playoff Wizards had there home game on the same night. I was 45 minutes late to the movie I wanted to see with her. Traffic was trash. I could not find parking so garage that was open late was my best bet.
She even called and said since I am late what should she do. I said well I would like for you to wait please. Am I surprised she did wait. IDK.
So now for the interaction of meeting her late as hell. I notice that her IRL was a little different than her profile pic and I know I look different than my. Close to 15 pounds slimmer to be exact. We decided go get dinner. Apparently she was a little late from happy hour and was still drunk slowly coming down. We went to Clydes and both had a meal with an alcoholic beverage. I notice these two black women and one white woman keep straight my way as in oh an interracial thing going on. I just kept laughing to myself about that. It always funny to see people would care some much about others doing whatever they want. When the bill came she so insist on paying her half even when I said I would. Her card came back decline and I just said please just my it on my card. She was like I can pay with another card. It worked out. We decided to watch the movie at a late showing around 10 45 for the long avengers.
I got people trying to talk to me and complain about the damn game. I didn't care about the Wizards or I would of watch the game at some point during the date. I was trying to be polite but at the same time I'm on a date. Go away with the basketball game.
Now for the movie. It's long. She fell asleep. We were cuddling. Apparently like every woman I cuddle with I am warmer and they feel so cold on me which feels refreshen. I did try to go for a kiss at the movie and was decline so I just let that go. No point in trying again until I feel she feels more comfortable with me. When the movie ended she did ask me to take her home. Now this is where I really messed up. For some reason I could not find the garage I parked in. The entrance was not anywhere near how I got in the joint. It was getting late and she decided to take a cab home.
I was so disappointed in myself. I expressed it to her. I think she might take some blame for me being late even though I knew I should of left earlier. She gave me this speech about how she didn't want to date me but was still down for wanting to hang out. Which is what I want. I don't want to date anymore at this moment. I definitely don't want to date someone 7 years older than me.
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Went out with a very nice guy a while back. We had a great time around town. Went to a local brewery and then to a bar to shoot a game of pool. Somewhere along the way he suggested we go check out the strip club. Dear men: Strip clubs are a no on the first date. If you haven't even seen me naked, looking at other women mostly naked isn't going to go over well. So disappointing.0
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Not worst, but funniest:
Met a woman online and we eventually met at a Mexican food place in Fort Worth. She looked rather lovely and was showing off her cleavage with the outfit. They were nice. Anyway...I digress. So, we're snacking on our chips/salsa, chatting it up, when all of the sudden, I broke a chip that split in a weird fashion. A piece of the chip flew across the table (in extra slow motion by the way) and landed directly into the crevice of her breasts. She and I watched it in awe from the breaking of the chip, to the flight, to the landing. Time stood still.
Well, I started laughing out of disbelief. She kindly excused herself to go to the restroom. Yeah...I never saw her again. She left.
But damn...was that funny!
Why would she leave if it was an accident?? I thought that was hilarious, bwahaha! If I was the lady I would be like "touchdown!". Too sensitive lol0 -
All in all, my worst date could have been a lot worse, but here is my first date in college story.
My first month in college, I got asked out at the university book store. I didn't really date casually, but said okay impulsively (Freshman year, try new things right?). We went to what he called a "family BBQ" that Sunday. I was nervous about going to the house of a person I didn't know, but "family BBQ" sounded harmless (youngggg, dumbbb). On the drive to his house he asked "do you smoke?". I said no cigarette smoke gives me headaches. He kept pressing me saying "no, do you smoke?". It took a few times, but I caught on (lol little innocent that I was). I said, uhh no I've never smoked anything. Smoke gives me a headache. He asked if I minded if he smoked. Well, yeah. (1) it gives me a headache and (2) you are supposed to be driving me home... He said he wouldn't smoke (right). We get to his house and it isn't a family BBQ, just a bunch of his friends. We hung out for an hour before he went outside and didn't come back. When I went out to find him, his friends implied that he had left "because he had to take care of some business" And uh, yeah, they're dealing drugs. So that's great. Their dealing drugs off of the front doorstep and I'm stuck without a way home. I go back inside and people are lighting incense and pulling closed the curtains. I can't even tell you all the things they were smoking/popping/sniffing. Drug buffet on the coffee table (and every other room). I can't walk home, because it's a bad neighborhood and it's dark. I called my friend, but I didn't know where I was. I braved the dark enough to walk to the end of the street and found the address. 30 minutes later my friend picks me up. My date was missing for a total of 4 hours before he "got back" and found out I was missing. When he called me to ask where I was, I told him to lose my number.0 -
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First date with my now husband of 10 years. we went to a birthday party for a friend of his. it was held at a chain resturante called cucina, cucina. I got horrible food poisening that of course clicked in shortly after getting back to his place. I litterlly exploded from both ends in his bathroom. I clogged the toilet, was a sweaty mess, and fearful i wouldnt be able to make it home alive. I was in there about 30 minutes.
i know he was completely grossed out but he came in, cleaned me up, but me in his bed and then cleaned the bathroom.
15 years together, 10 married and he still takes care of me.0 -
First date with my now husband of 10 years. we went to a birthday party for a friend of his. it was held at a chain resturante called cucina, cucina. I got horrible food poisening that of course clicked in shortly after getting back to his place. I litterlly exploded from both ends in his bathroom. I clogged the toilet, was a sweaty mess, and fearful i wouldnt be able to make it home alive. I was in there about 30 minutes.
i know he was completely grossed out but he came in, cleaned me up, but me in his bed and then cleaned the bathroom.
15 years together, 10 married and he still takes care of me.
omg
He is a KEEPER!! 0 -
rugbyphreak wrote: »madhatter2013 wrote: »I can't even imagine how some people raise families traveling with carnivals. Anyway, during that time (I was a teenager), the guy I was "with" fell asleep next to me one night with chew in his mouth. I woke up to him coughing it all over me. Not a first date, but gross as hell so I called it an experience and went back home to my parents.
My current bf and I love to go to fairs, truck pulls, and festivals and we, of course, drink. One night, after a few beers, he decides to get a little ambitious and kiss me. Cute, right?! With his dip in!!!!! Like full on make out session right before I'm supposed to drive onto the track, buckled in, truck running, ready to go. And let me tell you, he doesn't take a pinch of chew, he takes a big old finger full. I grabbed his beer and rinsed my mouth out with it so fast! OH HELL NO. Now we have rules about his dip habit...
my boyfriend has this same problem... we too have rules but do you think he listens? nope... one morning I was showering and he got home from work and was standing there talking to me and just spits in the shower!! while I was in there!!! oh it was so gross!0 -
branflakes1980 wrote: »
that's exactly what I told her!!! lol I was like good lord... if you don't like it then why waste your time to comment on the post. get over yourself lady 0 -
Ladies I do have a question. Do you feel that these worst dates ever where with a guy who you thought was
A) out of your league
B ) the most attractive guy you ever dated
C) guy of average look
D) Personality you thought was good enough over the look.
Lets be honest. I wonder how I could arrive at a date so late and have her still waiting? Matter of fact hold on. I will just go to the source itself and find out.0 -
yopeeps025 wrote: »Ladies I do have a question. Do you feel that these worst dates ever where with a guy who you thought was
A) out of your league
B ) the most attractive guy you ever dated
C) guy of average look
D) Personality you thought was good enough for the looks.
Lets be honest. I wonder how I could arrive at a date so late and have her still waiting? Matter of fact hold on. I will just go to the source itself and find out.
Both of mine = c0 -
michaela_g09 wrote: »rugbyphreak wrote: »madhatter2013 wrote: »I can't even imagine how some people raise families traveling with carnivals. Anyway, during that time (I was a teenager), the guy I was "with" fell asleep next to me one night with chew in his mouth. I woke up to him coughing it all over me. Not a first date, but gross as hell so I called it an experience and went back home to my parents.
My current bf and I love to go to fairs, truck pulls, and festivals and we, of course, drink. One night, after a few beers, he decides to get a little ambitious and kiss me. Cute, right?! With his dip in!!!!! Like full on make out session right before I'm supposed to drive onto the track, buckled in, truck running, ready to go. And let me tell you, he doesn't take a pinch of chew, he takes a big old finger full. I grabbed his beer and rinsed my mouth out with it so fast! OH HELL NO. Now we have rules about his dip habit...
my boyfriend has this same problem... we too have rules but do you think he listens? nope... one morning I was showering and he got home from work and was standing there talking to me and just spits in the shower!! while I was in there!!! oh it was so gross!
Been there, done that. I just ask him to spit closer to the drain than where I'm standing. I also make him tear open his spit cans so that I don't drink out of them by mistake. It's happened more than I'd like to admit. I finally got him to stop spitting straight out of my truck window because it was staining my paint. Such a horrible habit, but it stinks less than smoking, and to be honest with you, I love him to the moon and back, so it doesn't even matter.
Our first date was uneventful. Chilis. I got drunk. He got drunk. We sobered up in the parking lot at 3 am. We've been repeating that pattern, minus the Chilis, almost every weekend for three years now. lol
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MonkeyMel21 wrote: »yopeeps025 wrote: »Ladies I do have a question. Do you feel that these worst dates ever where with a guy who you thought was
A) out of your league
B ) the most attractive guy you ever dated
C) guy of average look
D) Personality you thought was good enough for the looks.
Lets be honest. I wonder how I could arrive at a date so late and have her still waiting? Matter of fact hold on. I will just go to the source itself and find out.
Both of mine = c
SO I got my answer from her. She said that she was just still feeling happy hour from before. Also she comment about how I didn't take her home. Now this comment she said I was exhausted and that well I didn't need to bring her home in the first place. That's not a negative comment at all. That's a oh I think that I maybe did better than I though even with it being my worst date ever.0 -
My worst experience was back in my college days. Every year, the college music dept. was involved in a production of Handel's Messiah at the Academy of Music in Philly. It was a big event and a lot of the students went. I bought tickets which were expensive to begin with, and then asked this woman I knew from classes -- she agreed to go and so I picked her up at her dorm and we walked over to the concert.... all's well at this point. We get seated and talk a little, concert starts and I attempt to hold her hand, not happening. She let me put my arm around the back of her chair, however. End of concert, I help her with her coat and suggest going by the city's christmas tree for a look -- she agrees and that's exactly what it was, walk past and look on the way back to her dorm. We get back and she thanks me for taking her, and then she tells me that I should have asked her roommate as she likes me and would have loved to go..... (now you tell me!)....0
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My worst experience was back in my college days. Every year, the college music dept. was involved in a production of Handel's Messiah at the Academy of Music in Philly. It was a big event and a lot of the students went. I bought tickets which were expensive to begin with, and then asked this woman I knew from classes -- she agreed to go and so I picked her up at her dorm and we walked over to the concert.... all's well at this point. We get seated and talk a little, concert starts and I attempt to hold her hand, not happening. She let me put my arm around the back of her chair, however. End of concert, I help her with her coat and suggest going by the city's christmas tree for a look -- she agrees and that's exactly what it was, walk past and look on the way back to her dorm. We get back and she thanks me for taking her, and then she tells me that I should have asked her roommate as she likes me and would have loved to go..... (now you tell me!)....
Your date reminds of one that I went on. Only difference is this girl took my virginity so I was used. Then tried to still get me to get at her friend.
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yopeeps025 wrote: »Ladies I do have a question. Do you feel that these worst dates ever where with a guy who you thought was
A) out of your league
B ) the most attractive guy you ever dated
C) guy of average look
D) Personality you thought was good enough over the look.
Lets be honest. I wonder how I could arrive at a date so late and have her still waiting? Matter of fact hold on. I will just go to the source itself and find out.
none of the above0 -
rugbyphreak wrote: »michaela_g09 wrote: »rugbyphreak wrote: »madhatter2013 wrote: »I can't even imagine how some people raise families traveling with carnivals. Anyway, during that time (I was a teenager), the guy I was "with" fell asleep next to me one night with chew in his mouth. I woke up to him coughing it all over me. Not a first date, but gross as hell so I called it an experience and went back home to my parents.
My current bf and I love to go to fairs, truck pulls, and festivals and we, of course, drink. One night, after a few beers, he decides to get a little ambitious and kiss me. Cute, right?! With his dip in!!!!! Like full on make out session right before I'm supposed to drive onto the track, buckled in, truck running, ready to go. And let me tell you, he doesn't take a pinch of chew, he takes a big old finger full. I grabbed his beer and rinsed my mouth out with it so fast! OH HELL NO. Now we have rules about his dip habit...
my boyfriend has this same problem... we too have rules but do you think he listens? nope... one morning I was showering and he got home from work and was standing there talking to me and just spits in the shower!! while I was in there!!! oh it was so gross!
Been there, done that. I just ask him to spit closer to the drain than where I'm standing. I also make him tear open his spit cans so that I don't drink out of them by mistake. It's happened more than I'd like to admit. I finally got him to stop spitting straight out of my truck window because it was staining my paint. Such a horrible habit, but it stinks less than smoking, and to be honest with you, I love him to the moon and back, so it doesn't even matter.
Our first date was uneventful. Chilis. I got drunk. He got drunk. We sobered up in the parking lot at 3 am. We've been repeating that pattern, minus the Chilis, almost every weekend for three years now. lol
I drank from his spitter ONCE because he used a Gatorade bottle that I was drinking out of and it still had some left and wasn't paying attention and picked it up and took a drink and I about gagged... I've never touched purple Gatorade or any drink without smelling it first again (he chews wintergreen so it a strong smell). and I agree with you, I'd rather him dip than smoke anyday! and I love him to death as well so I put up with it
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michaela_g09 wrote: »yopeeps025 wrote: »Ladies I do have a question. Do you feel that these worst dates ever where with a guy who you thought was
A) out of your league
B ) the most attractive guy you ever dated
C) guy of average look
D) Personality you thought was good enough over the look.
Lets be honest. I wonder how I could arrive at a date so late and have her still waiting? Matter of fact hold on. I will just go to the source itself and find out.
none of the above
So you're saying that to you looks was ________ for the worst date? @michaela_g09
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well he definitely did not look the way his profile pic made him look... I don't mean to be mean but he was ugly. but, that being said, it still would have been a god awful date even if he was hot as hell0
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michaela_g09 wrote: »well he definitely did not look the way his profile pic made him look... I don't mean to be mean but he was ugly. but, that being said, it still would have been a god awful date even if he was hot as hell
Well hows else should it be word. "I was unattractive to the real him from his profile pic." If he was ugly to you then it is what it is.
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well I could not say it all but he was a dick so I don't feel bad lol but yes he was ugly as sin to me lol he was skin and bones ... ugh.. the fact he tried to shove his tongue down my throat makes me want to bleach my mouth... and that was like 5 or 6 years ago haha0
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