Looking for other military females that need to get in shape

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I'm 4"11, 144 lbs. I need to be 125 to not be taped. I used to be 105 & could eat anything & stay that weight. Well now as I get older (I'm 27) it's not so easy. I have always been around 100lbs so now working out & being healthy is pretty new to me. My biggest struggle is my husband always taking me out. It's hard for me to be healthy with his bad influence. He eats anything & has a 6 pack! It doesn't even affect him! Fortunately for me I am overseas without him & really sticking to this and being more disciplined. Sorry for rambling