MY BIGGEST INSECURITY. HELP?

My CANKLES. I got them through genetics, I'm 146lbs actually now 142! (Yay) my goal weight is 130lbs! But I just can't seem to ever get over MY CACNKLES that my friends say are hardly noticeable... But I don't even like wearing flats because I HATE THEM. Anyone else have this insecurity? How do you deal with it? Does weight loss help with them?