Been feeling depressed lately

jlking523

so I hate my stomach lol, it doesn't hang... But it's freaking there! And I've been sad about it lol. I've been talking to this guy... And I like him... And he likes me.. He's a personal trainer but I'm scared he's going to see my stomach one day and run lol... I always wear a waist trainer, so with that on my body honestly looks bomb.. I'm not trying to trick him it just makes me feel good... And tbh I don't look much different out of it.. Besides my stomach lol.... Anyway.. I just need some motivation and advice... My confidence is slowly draining.

meads1992

Well he is a personal trainer so be upfront with him! I bet he'd love to help you and besides if he doesn't like you because of a little belly... Then he isn't worth your time! He should like you for your personality before your body! Take a gamble! Let him know, be confident and work on it! you can do it! Besides most personal trainors I've met said they don't care if their girl is as fit as them. They do that for a living. You look great, flaunt it!

cursedcristy

If he is a personal trainer chances are that he already knows you got just a little extra even if you are wearing a waist trainer. He probably thinks you look amazing and has a silly on security himself that you either adore about him or haven't even noticed.

You look amazing and you're doing great !

Mr_Stabbems

@meads1992 this woman has it spot on.

rbiss

I'm sure he sees all types of body. Confidence is sexy, so just rock it.

jlking523

Thanks everyone!! This really is helping me feel better lol. And he did say he would help me achieve my goals! So maybe he won't care.