What has helped you be most successful?

KateSimpson17
KateSimpson17 Posts: 282 Member
edited November 21 in Health and Weight Loss
I've tried MFP several times over the last few years, but this is the longest I've ever stuck with it (3 weeks and down around 5 lbs)! What made me successful this time was making friends and discovering the forums. What in your life or MFP has helped you be successful?
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  • strong_curves
    strong_curves Posts: 2,229 Member
    Patience, consistency & a food scale.
  • DeguelloTex
    DeguelloTex Posts: 6,652 Member
    Patience and leaving emotion out of it. And a food scale.
  • CJsf1t
    CJsf1t Posts: 414 Member
    Patience, consistency & a food scale.
    ^This. I have still a long long way to go but this time I am so motivated that I have not let any negative experiences to hold me back .

  • Kalikel
    Kalikel Posts: 9,603 Member
    My Synthroid, first and foremost.

    Cleaning up my diet.

    Exercise.
  • Lourdesong
    Lourdesong Posts: 1,492 Member
    Patience and leaving emotion out of it. And a food scale.

    Same, on all points.

  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    food scale+ the end game that while take a long time
  • KateSimpson17
    KateSimpson17 Posts: 282 Member
    Patience, consistency & a food scale.

    getting a food scale was a big thing for me too! I used to make sure I had at least an extra 100 calorie deficit because I had no idea how much food I was actually eating. My food scale is probably the best $10 I ever spent... even if my boyfriend thinks it makes me look like a drug dealer lol
  • TheVirgoddess
    TheVirgoddess Posts: 4,535 Member
    Consistency.
  • clarelara24
    clarelara24 Posts: 27 Member
    edited July 2015
    Definitely patience. Also smaller portions and more fruit instead of snacks like chocolate and crisps. Still have days off though :-)
  • _benjammin
    _benjammin Posts: 1,224 Member
    Patience, consistency & a food scale.

  • socioseguro
    socioseguro Posts: 1,679 Member
    Taking responsibility and accountability for my actions, measuring and logging all my food, planning and cooking my own meals. Using MFP.
  • mbcieslak87
    mbcieslak87 Posts: 206 Member
    Everything that was said above - especially consistency and a food scale! But also, keeping in mind that this is a lifestyle change, and that with life comes exceptions and special events... learning to not beat myself up over slip-ups was the hardest part for me...
  • MommyL2015
    MommyL2015 Posts: 1,411 Member
    A food scale and my treadmill.
  • accidentalpancake
    accidentalpancake Posts: 484 Member
    Kids.
  • KateSimpson17
    KateSimpson17 Posts: 282 Member
    Everything that was said above - especially consistency and a food scale! But also, keeping in mind that this is a lifestyle change, and that with life comes exceptions and special events... learning to not beat myself up over slip-ups was the hardest part for me...

    THIS! Allowing yourself to mess up sometimes is a big deal, at least for me. As someone on another thread said "If you get a flat you wouldn't get out and slash the other three tires"!
  • theawill519
    theawill519 Posts: 242 Member
    I've learned to absolutely love exercise. I don't love to diet, but the exercise I do motivates me to stay within my calorie goal.

    Also, I want to be healthy, not just skinny.
  • atypicalsmith
    atypicalsmith Posts: 2,742 Member
    Thea519 wrote: »
    I've learned to absolutely love exercise. I don't love to diet, but the exercise I do motivates me to stay within my calorie goal.

    Also, I want to be healthy, not just skinny.

    Same here! I don't want to waste all those calories burned on stupid stuff that could negate my deficit!
  • TerraRoberts24
    TerraRoberts24 Posts: 34 Member
    Exercise and realizing that I don't have to starve myself to be healthy and in shape. Once I figured that out, I have been so happy. I can eat so much, as long as I stick to my calories, and still maintain or lose. So that's helped me a lot. Also, keeping a food journal daily has helped immensely.
  • nvmomketo
    nvmomketo Posts: 12,019 Member
    Limiting how often I eat out. I eat much better and more safely (I'm a celiac) at home than I ever could in a restaurant.

    Reading a lot on diet and nutrition helps a lot. Most doctors don't help with weight and nutrition, so I needed to educate myself on what (I consider to be) a healthy WOE.
  • bennettinfinity
    bennettinfinity Posts: 865 Member
    I think the major themes have been covered sufficiently, but I would add the one thing that helped me down the path of 'lifestyle change' was when faced with choices, asking myself 'is this a choice I can live with for the rest of my life?'

    - Give up chocolate? Nope
    - Exercise daily? Yep
    - Forego holiday/birthday celebrations? Nope
    - Weigh my food? Yep
    - etc.
  • CatMom8
    CatMom8 Posts: 6 Member
    edited July 2015
    Came back to MFP without the 'tude the last time I had. It is keeping me honest (for the most part.) Weighing and measuring my food. Going low carb. Exercise, which I am slowly ramping up. Finding protein shakes that I can use, as I am lactose intolerant. Finding wonderful online support groups. I always hated going to Weight Watchers meetings, etc. But I like the online component. I feel more relaxed. I have learned a lot! Oh.. and trying harder to "listen" to my belly and not overeat. VERY difficult.
  • KrisiAnnH
    KrisiAnnH Posts: 352 Member
    Exercise; realising I can workout at home, that there are tons of workouts for free online (so no excuses!) and that it's not for weight loss (unless you count a bigger deficit) but to make me healthier/fitter overall. Weighing scale too as many people have said.

    Also realising that I can eat pretty much whatever I want (within moderation) and still lose weight. I used to think as long as I was eating 'healthy' foods it didn't matter how much of it I was eating, and that I had to have no junk or 'bad' foods. Definitely not the case, a big part of why I think I've stuck with it so long is that I'm not restricting :)
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  • jaqcan
    jaqcan Posts: 498 Member
    Using a food scale
    Eating at home
    Planning a weekly menu
    Planning for a snack after dinner
    Not drinking my calories by cutting out/back alcohol
    Eating breakfast when I'm hungry, not just because I woke up.
  • MoiAussi93
    MoiAussi93 Posts: 1,948 Member
    Eliminating added sugar.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
    Fear. I hate the thought of having disease or to take meds everyday just because I wanted to eat too many chips.
  • WickedPineapple
    WickedPineapple Posts: 698 Member
    (1) Food scale. (2) Finding other coping techniques for dealing with stress/anxiety/depression. (3) Eating out less and cooking/baking more.
  • GreenValli
    GreenValli Posts: 1,054 Member
    Logging my food everyday and knowing that there are others that are on this weight loss journey like me who are being patient and consistent also.

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  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    Patience and leaving emotion out of it. And a food scale.

    This.

    It's really helpful to me to approach this analytically. So what I did was think of my weight as a problem to solve like I'd approach a problem at work. I figured out what I was doing to gain weight and changed that--obviously what I was doing was eating excess calories, but I figured out precisely how I was doing it and the least painful way to instead have a calorie deficit. I also decided to create good habits, like exercise. And because I like data I used this tool and others (like a spreadsheet) to monitor stuff. When I messed up that was something to fix, not something to get upset or down on myself about. It was a logical problem, not an emotional thing. This made a huge difference in my ability to do it and sustain what I was doing and made it more interesting also.

    Creating a community helps too. For various reasons I didn't want to talk about weight loss with people off line, so MFP was helpful there, but now that I'm into exercise and training activities it's easy to find communities and that helps me with motivation (as does training for things). For example, I got into running more by signing up for races and I've gotten much more serious about swimming by signing up for a masters swim group (which is also more fun than laps on my own).
  • candykay0605
    candykay0605 Posts: 1,019 Member
    the success stories really really help
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