Any tips to help me ignore the good things in life - beer and chocolate?

brettb97
brettb97 Posts: 240 Member
edited November 2024 in Motivation and Support
I've a weak spot for these.....help!!!!
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  • zoeysasha37
    zoeysasha37 Posts: 7,088 Member
    Fit them into your day if you want them. I lost all my weight while enjoying the foods I love in moderation
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    Have some once in awhile. Make it fit into your calorie goal.
  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    Don't ignore them, just have them in moderation. It's not likely sustainable to complete cut them out, so budget for them!
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    I still drink beer...just less of it than I used to. I don't eat much milk chocolate anymore, but often have a square or two of dark chocolate for desert.
  • BasicGreatGuy
    BasicGreatGuy Posts: 857 Member
    Put a big sign on the front of your refrigerator with the following...Do I love the temporary feeling of beer and chocolate more than I do getting healthy, so that I can live a longer life?
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    Put a big sign on the front of your refrigerator with the following...Do I love the temporary feeling of beer and chocolate more than I do getting healthy, so that I can live a longer life?

    That's depressing. You can have some beer and chocolate and still live a long life.
  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    arditarose wrote: »
    Put a big sign on the front of your refrigerator with the following...Do I love the temporary feeling of beer and chocolate more than I do getting healthy, so that I can live a longer life?

    That's depressing. You can have some beer and chocolate and still live a long life.

    Second that. My mental health would suffer if I skipped the things I love, and my body is healthy with them.
  • IILikeToMoveItMoveIt
    IILikeToMoveItMoveIt Posts: 1,172 Member
    I had to cut them out until I had the will power to consume in moderation...
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    You don't need to ignore any food items.

    You need to learn portion control and eat beer and chocolate in moderation.
  • BasicGreatGuy
    BasicGreatGuy Posts: 857 Member
    edited July 2015
    arditarose wrote: »
    Put a big sign on the front of your refrigerator with the following...Do I love the temporary feeling of beer and chocolate more than I do getting healthy, so that I can live a longer life?

    That's depressing. You can have some beer and chocolate and still live a long life.

    I don't think there is anything depressing about advising a person who has publicly acknowledged in this thread and another, ( a lack of will power to exercise and eating a lot of junk food etc) that it may not be in his or her best interest (for many reasons) to put that temptation constantly before them. It is counter-productive, in my opinion.

    If a person wasn't struggling in this manner, my reply would have been different.
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
    arditarose wrote: »
    Put a big sign on the front of your refrigerator with the following...Do I love the temporary feeling of beer and chocolate more than I do getting healthy, so that I can live a longer life?

    That's depressing. You can have some beer and chocolate and still live a long life.

    I don't think there is anything depressing about advising a person who has publicly acknowledged in this thread and another, ( a lack of will power to exercise and eating a lot of junk food etc) that it may not be in his or her best interest (for many reasons) to put that temptation constantly before them. It is counter-productive, in my opinion.

    If a person wasn't struggling in this manner, my reply would have been different.

    I think that there's a big difference between saying, "This doesn't fit into my goals right now," and "This will make me live a shorter, less healthy life." If someone chooses to ignore chocolate or beer, that's fine. But learning to include it in moderation won't shorten their life span!

  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    arditarose wrote: »
    Put a big sign on the front of your refrigerator with the following...Do I love the temporary feeling of beer and chocolate more than I do getting healthy, so that I can live a longer life?

    That's depressing. You can have some beer and chocolate and still live a long life.

    I don't think there is anything depressing about advising a person who has publicly acknowledged in this thread and another, ( a lack of will power to exercise and eating a lot of junk food etc) that it may not be in his or her best interest (for many reasons) to put that temptation constantly before them. It is counter-productive, in my opinion.

    If a person wasn't struggling in this manner, my reply would have been different.

    I think that there's a big difference between saying, "This doesn't fit into my goals right now," and "This will make me live a shorter, less healthy life." If someone chooses to ignore chocolate or beer, that's fine. But learning to include it in moderation won't shorten their life span!

    ^this
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    arditarose wrote: »
    Put a big sign on the front of your refrigerator with the following...Do I love the temporary feeling of beer and chocolate more than I do getting healthy, so that I can live a longer life?

    That's depressing. You can have some beer and chocolate and still live a long life.

    I don't think there is anything depressing about advising a person who has publicly acknowledged in this thread and another, ( a lack of will power to exercise and eating a lot of junk food etc) that it may not be in his or her best interest (for many reasons) to put that temptation constantly before them. It is counter-productive, in my opinion.

    If a person wasn't struggling in this manner, my reply would have been different.

    I think that there's a big difference between saying, "This doesn't fit into my goals right now," and "This will make me live a shorter, less healthy life." If someone chooses to ignore chocolate or beer, that's fine. But learning to include it in moderation won't shorten their life span!

    Right. Thank you.
  • quietblue08
    quietblue08 Posts: 17 Member
    There are just some foods that i call my trigger foods. Right now, im not in a place to try and allow myself to fit those into my day. Some people just arnt ready for that, and thats ok. You take it one day at a time... if u cant stop at one or two beers or bites then dont tempt yourself
  • quietblue08
    quietblue08 Posts: 17 Member
    There are just some foods that i call my trigger foods. Right now, im not in a place to try and allow myself to fit those into my day. Some people just arnt ready for that, and thats ok. You take it one day at a time... if u cant stop at one or two beers or bites then dont tempt yourself
  • quietblue08
    quietblue08 Posts: 17 Member
    There are just some foods that i call my trigger foods. Right now, im not in a place to try and allow myself to fit those into my day. Some people just arnt ready for that, and thats ok. You take it one day at a time... if u cant stop at one or two beers or bites then dont tempt yourself
  • BasicGreatGuy
    BasicGreatGuy Posts: 857 Member
    arditarose wrote: »
    Put a big sign on the front of your refrigerator with the following...Do I love the temporary feeling of beer and chocolate more than I do getting healthy, so that I can live a longer life?

    That's depressing. You can have some beer and chocolate and still live a long life.

    I don't think there is anything depressing about advising a person who has publicly acknowledged in this thread and another, ( a lack of will power to exercise and eating a lot of junk food etc) that it may not be in his or her best interest (for many reasons) to put that temptation constantly before them. It is counter-productive, in my opinion.

    If a person wasn't struggling in this manner, my reply would have been different.

    I think that there's a big difference between saying, "This doesn't fit into my goals right now," and "This will make me live a shorter, less healthy life." If someone chooses to ignore chocolate or beer, that's fine. But learning to include it in moderation won't shorten their life span!

    It was a shock motivation suggestion. Sometimes, a person needs something in their face to get them motivated. Once he or she has established a healthy foundation (in several areas) in training, adding some of those previous temptations back (if still desired) in moderation isn't necessarily a bad thing.

    I made a specific post to the OP, because I had followed previous posts. I wasn't making a statement that applied to every person without exception.

    If the OP doesn't like my suggestion, that is fine. I would have done him a disservice, if I hadn't given him an honest opinion. I agree it was terse. But, like I said, if the situation was different, my reply would have been different.

    You disagree with me and that is fine. I don't give out one size fits all answers.
  • larali1980
    larali1980 Posts: 162 Member
    I loved beer but unfortunately cannot have it. If alcohol is not a problem for you, you should be able to indulge once in a while. Just skip breakfast or something to counteract the calories. (OK, I know that is bad advice...)
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    Put a big sign on the front of your refrigerator with the following...Do I love the temporary feeling of beer and chocolate more than I do getting healthy, so that I can live a longer life?

    Naah. Just have them, but make sure you stay within calories #IIFYM
  • brettb97
    brettb97 Posts: 240 Member
    Great advice guys! Keep it coming! :)
  • tottie3912
    tottie3912 Posts: 48 Member
    I love beer, even more than chocolate. But cannot stop at one or two (beers that is). Nor am I able to only indulge on the weekends. So I quit. Maybe someday I will regain the control I once had many years ago. But this is what I have to do right now. If it's not a prob for you, then fit it in.
  • emodavis
    emodavis Posts: 44 Member
    Put a big sign on the front of your refrigerator with the following...Do I love the temporary feeling of beer and chocolate more than I do getting healthy, so that I can live a longer life?

    Actually, I do love the temporary feeling of beer and chocolate more than I do getting healthy. I also like how (insert food here) tastes more than skinny feels.

    If you have the self-control to actually use moderation (I don't), then do it. If not, don't.
  • brettb97
    brettb97 Posts: 240 Member
    Thanks for all the tips and advice guys, really appreciate. Friend me if you want. :)
  • jumpybeans
    jumpybeans Posts: 71 Member
    I love my beer as well! Unfortunately I was drinking it more out of boredom than enjoyment, and my one beer a day turned into three. Couple that with zero exercise and we all know that that means.

    I fit it into my day if I want. If I'm going for a 10km rollerblade I know I can fit that beer in there. If I'm not exercising for whatever reason I'll go easy on my meals. Moderation is key.
  • bunnywestley81
    bunnywestley81 Posts: 178 Member
    I like wine. Chocolate I can take or leave.

    I take an average over the week for my calories, basically I'm super good with a couple of fast days and exercise in the week, at the weekend I don't worry too much. Seems to work OK for me.
  • Stacey765
    Stacey765 Posts: 86 Member
    Put a big sign on the front of your refrigerator with the following...Do I love the temporary feeling of beer and chocolate more than I do getting healthy, so that I can live a longer life?

    I don't think this would work for me - - pretty sure I would say "yes" every time :)

    Seriously though, I buy my beer at Kroger where you don't have to buy a whole pack, you can mix and match for a 6 pack, or just buy one bottle. So that's what I do. If I don't, I have the one - then, really what's one more? After that? Well, crap I am over my calories for the day anyway, might as well have another... impulse control is not my friend :wink:

  • KenziesFrenzies
    KenziesFrenzies Posts: 1,014 Member
    I've lost my weight while still enjoying the stuff I love.. Just track it! I'm a beer and wine drinker, I just don't drink so much during the week, and track it all on the weekend.

    I'm super excited and feel like I need to share my latest discovery for keeping my evening chocolate cravings under control, I have one of these guys!

    Dark-and-Caramel-Sea-Salt-131026.jpg

    Something about them being individually wrapped keeps me from eating more than one.
    Plus, only 70 calories, 7 g of sugar. Pretty darn good for a 'sweet' at the end of the day (when I typically crave one).
  • daveinreston
    daveinreston Posts: 15 Member
    For me, a chocolate-flavored protein powder mixed with water helps with the chocolate cravings and fills me up.
  • rsclause
    rsclause Posts: 3,103 Member
    I have food, scotch, wine and beer everyday and can lose weight. You need to eat in moderation and get out to run your *kitten* off on the same days. I run to enjoy running and enjoy life.
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