How/why I'm cutting out chocolate completely!

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For me, anything chocolate is my kryptonite. It is sooo delicious to me, if I just have a taste of it I turn into the shark in Finding Nemo. So I just decided to drop it cold turkey. I've been at it since July 3rd, and with some slip-ups, I've been progressively getting better and it's been 10 days now chocolate-free (*chocoholics anonymous*)! My goal is just to make my taste buds forget how good it tastes, and convince my mind that "I don't really like chocolate," which I've been repeating to myself as kind of a mantra. The longer it goes, the less I want to break my streak as well. The good things about this, is that I can still have any other dessert thing -- ice cream, baklava, strawberry shortcake, etc etc. Because with those things, I don't have an insatiable desire and can be completely satisfied after a few bits.

I'm ready to do this for the rest of my life, as well. It really is just a food item that is delicious while I'm eating it and then can't control myself over it and it ruins everything. I've tried to do it in moderation (1x per week) and that just reminds me how much I love it and I really can't resist it. I cut out soda as well, when I was 14, and only have it when I'm drinking now, and even then, don't really like it. My friends who are vegetarian say and think, "oh, I don't eat meat" automatically -- this is how I imagine myself with chocolate.

And just quickly I want to say that I've been keeping track by a calendar print-out of July and August on my wall. I put a smiley face on days I don't have chocolate. I am rewarding myself by : 3 successful consecutive days => $5 to MAC, and 5 sucessful days => $10 to MAC. Each day I fail it is $1, and the next day $-2, etc. I'm keeping track of my tab right next to the calendar. It's very visual and 'public' -- even if the only one in my room to see it is me, it's still *out there* so visible and I want to be proud of it, of lots of lil smiley faces on it! :):) (I had a dream the other night where I was showing my LDR boyfriend it, actually)

Anyway, I wanted to post this to maybe give anyone an alternative, if they really can't deal with moderation for whatever their vice food is. And wanted to show off my method. Lololol <3

Anyone can feel free to add me! :)
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  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
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    A life without chocolate is a life I don't want to live. Good luck, but it sounds kind of depressing to cut out something you love so much.
  • sue1244
    sue1244 Posts: 2 Member
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    You go girl. Hope you are still seeing smilie faces. It is great that you realize what your trigger is and I'm sure you feel more in control now.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
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    Good for you. It's just a food and there are lots of other foods. It seems disordered to think you can't live a happy life without a certain food.
  • MoiAussi93
    MoiAussi93 Posts: 1,948 Member
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    It sounds like you found a method that works for you that you can maintain. If it's a problem food for you, not eating it is better than constantly struggling with it.
  • BasicGreatGuy
    BasicGreatGuy Posts: 857 Member
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    MoiAussi93 wrote: »
    It sounds like you found a method that works for you that you can maintain. If it's a problem food for you, not eating it is better than constantly struggling with it.

    +1
  • TeaBea
    TeaBea Posts: 14,517 Member
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    A life without chocolate is a life I don't want to live. Good luck, but it sounds kind of depressing to cut out something you love so much.

    This^

    I won't give up chocolate forever....so I'm learning to manage it now.
  • DeguelloTex
    DeguelloTex Posts: 6,652 Member
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    It works for you and leaves more chocolate for the rest of us.

    Win/win.
  • rybo
    rybo Posts: 5,424 Member
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    That does not seem like a healthy view towards chocolate, but good luck with that
  • queenliz99
    queenliz99 Posts: 15,317 Member
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    This is sad. Say you live to 100, 80 years with no chocolate would be impossible IMO.
  • JayRuby84
    JayRuby84 Posts: 557 Member
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    It seems like an easy way to become even more obsessed with chocolate.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
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    A life without chocolate is a life I don't want to live. Good luck, but it sounds kind of depressing to cut out something you love so much.
    Agreed! I love my chocolate and refuse to cut it out.


    Jee, I used to not be able to moderate chocolate, but I can now. It took a lot of hard work and willpower but I can have a thing in the house now and not scarf it down, including chocolate.

    What I tell myself is I have control over food, it does not have control over me.

  • jeebieheebies
    jeebieheebies Posts: 68 Member
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    I don't think it's depressing because /yeah/, it *is* a disordered view towards chocolate. I legitimately can't get enough of it. But (1) I'm teaching myself not to like it basically, so it won't be anything to miss. (2) Chocolate gives me immediate and hedonistic pleasure, and then leaves me with regret and guilt. It isn't the kind of happiness that I value in the long-term. :) Maybe eventually I will incorporate back in though, I'm not ruling that out completely but for now, I am trying to train myself to make "nah, I don't like/eat chocolate." an automatic phrase, like "nah, I don't drink soda" is. :blush:
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
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    Good for you. It's just a food and there are lots of other foods. It seems disordered to think you can't live a happy life without a certain food.

    By the same token, thinking you can't eat a certain food ever again is disordered thinking.
  • jeebieheebies
    jeebieheebies Posts: 68 Member
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    I'm not thinking I can't eat it ever again -- I'm thinking I don't want to eat it ever again.
  • BasicGreatGuy
    BasicGreatGuy Posts: 857 Member
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    If chocolate is her nemesis, it doesn't make sense for her to keep sabotaging her progress. All that does it continue the cycle.

    Every person has a weakness. For some people, conquering the weakness and still having it around isn't a problem. For others, they can't or don't want that weakness around. It doesn't mean that their life can't or won't be happy.

    The OP is learning her limits and is working a system that appears to be helping her. Instead of saying how terrible life would be without chocolate, why not say well done, OP. If you are happy with your new path, that is what matters.
  • DeguelloTex
    DeguelloTex Posts: 6,652 Member
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    If thinking I can't live a happy life without corn tortillas is disordered thinking, then I have disordered thinking. I can live with that.
  • msf74
    msf74 Posts: 3,498 Member
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    I don't think it's depressing because /yeah/, it *is* a disordered view towards chocolate. I legitimately can't get enough of it. But (1) I'm teaching myself not to like it basically, so it won't be anything to miss. (2) Chocolate gives me immediate and hedonistic pleasure, and then leaves me with regret and guilt. It isn't the kind of happiness that I value in the long-term. :) Maybe eventually I will incorporate back in though, I'm not ruling that out completely but for now, I am trying to train myself to make "nah, I don't like/eat chocolate." an automatic phrase, like "nah, I don't drink soda" is. :blush:

    You sound self aware which is great. Good luck with your experiment.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
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    SLLRunner wrote: »
    Good for you. It's just a food and there are lots of other foods. It seems disordered to think you can't live a happy life without a certain food.

    By the same token, thinking you can't eat a certain food ever again is disordered thinking.

    Outside of allergy or intollerance, I would agree. Giving any single food that type of importance seems disordered to me.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
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    I'm not thinking I can't eat it ever again -- I'm thinking I don't want to eat it ever again.

    Yeah, that's what I got from your OP. It's an important distiction. Best of luck.

    I did the same thing years ago with cheesecake. I love cheesecake and never used to turn it down. I haven't had any in over 10 years. It just stopped being worth the calories to me. I haven't missed it.
  • 999tigger
    999tigger Posts: 5,235 Member
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    Good for you, especially if it works. It wont make your tatsebuds forget though imo. Restriction is often a double edged strategy that can make people binge, but good luck. It works for some.