Curios...what is usual the first feature on someone that attracts you?

Options
13

Replies

  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,041 Member
    Options
    Height
  • OneHundredToLose
    OneHundredToLose Posts: 8,534 Member
    Options
    Honestly, by far the most important thing for me is how we connect on a mental level. I'm willing to overlook a lot if the person is intriguing / witty / funny. Likewise, flawless physical features are worthless to me if there's just air between the ears.
  • Dez11B
    Dez11B Posts: 1,542 Member
    Options
    The mind. Then the curves
  • _SummerGirl_
    _SummerGirl_ Posts: 3,791 Member
    Options
    Facial structure - something about jawline and cheekbones does it for me. Next up...eyes.
  • SKMTX
    SKMTX Posts: 122 Member
    Options
    Eyes hands voice intelligence sense of humor
  • GabriellaEstrella
    GabriellaEstrella Posts: 1,514 Member
    Options
    Eyes & hands
  • aaronnn3
    aaronnn3 Posts: 6 Member
    Options
    FBB face boobs bum
  • Dez11B
    Dez11B Posts: 1,542 Member
    Options
    Nice curves but tight legs and butt
  • blossomh0lly
    blossomh0lly Posts: 342 Member
    Options
    Facial features and smile
  • mcclelland0484
    mcclelland0484 Posts: 55 Member
    Options
    Honestly....age. I find a wide range of women attractive. Slender to thick, blonde to brunette, blue eyes to brown eye...etc. looks due matter because their has to be a physical attraction in the first place. All the guys saying it's strictly personality are lying. Age is important for me. 5-8 years either way is about it. I don't want to raise an 18 yr old and I don't want to live 20 years past a partner. I had a friend marry a hot 38 yr old when he was 21. Now he is 38 and she is 56..... They still love one another but it looks a little weird.
  • anasvitlii
    anasvitlii Posts: 267 Member
    Options
    Height... Then smile and eyes
  • mhiggi02
    mhiggi02 Posts: 5,988 Member
    Options
    no set thing for me. Although smile, eyes and personality reign supreme
  • christianlee100
    christianlee100 Posts: 746 Member
    Options
    face. I love a pretty face.
  • inked_illini26
    inked_illini26 Posts: 14 Member
    Options
    Definitely the smile...my husband's still makes me melt!
  • OneHundredToLose
    OneHundredToLose Posts: 8,534 Member
    Options
    All the guys saying it's strictly personality are lying.

    Nope. I can't speak for everyone else, but honestly a girl isn't even on my radar until we've had a chance to talk. There is no factor more important to me than how compatible we are mentally. A beautiful girl with nothing upstairs is like the Mona Lisa painted on a napkin.

  • Snow__White
    Snow__White Posts: 1,650 Member
    Options
    Face