Second Attempt...Where's the Motivation??

So, I have tried this before, with the result that my husband lost ten pounds and I gained five! Now, he isn't interested, but I certainly am tired of waiting; I am looking for friends to help me stay motivated!! I am looking to lose 53 pounds by my 31st birthday!! Ohh and teacher by day, mother to two rascals-5 and 3, by night!