Goal: Perfect version of myself.

Vijolala
Vijolala Posts: 5 Member
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Helloooo!! I'm not sure ,do I want a support or do I want to support . Just do what you do,keep going . As a matter of fact I think you are beautiful! I just feel tired of myself , always looking in a mirror and seeing imperfection . But I know that I could be! And I will. And you will do that too.

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  • Jonny15121983
    Jonny15121983 Posts: 573 Member
    You're obviously a kind and thoughtful person, that is what I think you should be looking at rather than judging yourself in the mirror. Is there really such a thing as perfect? Perhaps a perfect vision of yourself but when you get there do you really think you will be happy or will you just find something else to dislike? Nowadays I try to ask myself who I am as a person when I look in the mirror, that is what really counts, everything outside will fade in time. I hope you can keep smiling and love yourself.
  • Shelleyt1800
    Shelleyt1800 Posts: 1 Member
    Looking at your picture you seem very wise beyond your years. Good advice.
  • Jonny15121983
    Jonny15121983 Posts: 573 Member
    Haha thank-you but I'm actually aged beyond my looks :D
  • Vijolala
    Vijolala Posts: 5 Member
    You know in my opinion everyone is perfect , but one is more damage than another . I want to prove for myself that no number , but you being healthy means more . And yes I do try to reach some number and sadly in nearly future I will be the same human being as I was five kilos more.. I just wish to care about more meaningful things . But it's great when people do reach them goals even in weight . Cause sometimes you need to *kitten* your brain before society did it for you . It's a big circle cause anyway you will be *kitten* .
  • Jonny15121983
    Jonny15121983 Posts: 573 Member
    That is very true and we are all damaged in our own ways, even if some do hide it better than others. It seems like this is as much a mental journey for you as it is a physical one, I won't offend by trying to claim I understand, how could anyone really understand what you are going through inside? You aren't alone in this type of journey though, I'm walking my own path of a combination of weight and finding happiness inside again. Society can be cruel but people can be so kind, I hope that you can find and hold onto some of those people as they can really brighten up your life. Any idea what sort of meaningful things you are looking for?

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