How did you gain your weight in the first place?

I just came from a weight watchers meeting where I brought up the issue of emotional eating. I very seldom overeat because of hunger--it's almost always to soothe my frayed emotions. But most of the ladies didn't seem to know what I was talking about. I just thought that was how everyone gained weight. Anyone?
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  • lindaloo1213
    lindaloo1213 Posts: 283 Member
    edited September 2015
    Boredom, lack of ambition. Didnt make time for myself to workout and I always failed miserably at eating well if I didnt work out.
    Quite honestly I just really love food. It tastes good. And I ate too much and didnt move enough. I have found my balance now.
  • Timelordlady85
    Timelordlady85 Posts: 797 Member
    stress, boredom, hungry and not caring about the nutrition and calorie count. That is how I gained my weight.
  • MommyL2015
    MommyL2015 Posts: 1,411 Member
    I ate too much.
  • DeguelloTex
    DeguelloTex Posts: 6,652 Member
    I ate too much and moved too little.
  • ald783
    ald783 Posts: 688 Member
    College, law school, beer, desire to eat take-out Thai 3 nights a week, lack of exercise, etc.

    I'm not really an emotional eater. I just like to eat (and drink). From age 19-25 or so, I didn't do too well with moderation.
  • LBuehrle8
    LBuehrle8 Posts: 4,044 Member
    I ate way too much because I just didn't care. Not an emotional eater. I'm one who won't eat when stressed or upset.
  • momoharuno
    momoharuno Posts: 141 Member
    I really had no concept of portion sizes and obviously was eating too much, in a way I think it was a bit of denial too because I knew I was putting too much on my plate but I could just wave away the thought and eat my food. I'm thankful I had a problem that is easily cured by a food scale. I have a lot of sympathy for emotional eaters because it's a lot harder to fix the root problem, I wish you the best of luck in your journey! :)
  • siluridae
    siluridae Posts: 188 Member
    Unholy amounts of cereal. Coke too, when I was younger.
  • Whitezombiegirl
    Whitezombiegirl Posts: 1,042 Member
    I was grieving and stopped home cooking and pre preparing my breakfast and lunch. I started grabbing convenience food and gained 10lbs. I'm doing okay now- but I nipped it in the bud before it became an issue.
  • parfia
    parfia Posts: 184 Member
    edited September 2015
    Two back to back pregnancies - stayed active at the gym and walking with the first and miscarried at 12 weeks so just lay still in fear for most of my second pregnancy and gained 5 stone by the time my little girl arrived :/
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  • parfia
    parfia Posts: 184 Member
    parfia wrote: »
    Two back to back pregnancies - stayed active at the gym and walking with the first and miscarried at 12 weeks so just lay still in fear for most of my second pregnancy and gained 5 stone by the time my little girl arrived :/
  • cityruss
    cityruss Posts: 2,493 Member
    I ate too much.

    I ate too much because I love food and really didn't care.
  • MrsCaitlinBeltran
    MrsCaitlinBeltran Posts: 241 Member
    Oh, you are not alone! I am a recovering emotional eater. Anytime anything happened where I felt out of control, I'd want a treat to "make me feel better". Unfortunately, it doesn't really work--just makes you feel worse. Nowadays, I openly talk with my hubby or my mom about my fears or things that I'm getting anxiety over when I feel like I'm going to eat to stuff my emotions. Doing this has definitely helped to curb my emotional eating and has just made my life better all around. I hope you have someone you can talk with--it really helps! :)
  • floskiis
    floskiis Posts: 7 Member
    I have gone up and down a lot over the years, used to have anorexia and since recovery I have found it very hard to find a happy medium between eating too much and too little. Last November I moved from England to America and I have found the culture surrounding food very different, as a result I've gained weight just from being here surrounded by fast food joints and having regular meals out.
  • sunandmoons
    sunandmoons Posts: 415 Member
    edited September 2015
    Cheesecake factory. Haha. Just eating what i wanted when I wanted. I do the same just in moderation to fit my calorie goal.
  • AspenDan
    AspenDan Posts: 703 Member
    I never ate a "lot"..I drank a lot of soda and what I did eat was high calorie and low volume, so over 10 years I got up to 337.
    Now I'm watching my calories and down to 280 this morning =)
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    I'm an emotional eater, although there's a whole long list of things, including just liking good food and restaurants.
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,052 Member
    Sure, lots of emotional eating here. After I learned ways to soothe myself other than with food, I gained weight from mindless eating. Fortunately, that's a lot easier for me to overcome. Really all I need is to commit to log my food and not go over my calories.

    Exercise is great for soothing myself. I especially like to weed or prune. And since I have a garden in my back yard and work from home, it's very accessible. When I worked in an office, I would exercise before work or at lunch prophylactically, and go for a walk around the building if needed.

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  • sherbear702
    sherbear702 Posts: 650 Member
    edited September 2015
    Over ate when I was pregnant. Gained 30 lbs with both pregnancies. Then waited a year after the 2nd baby to do anything about it. Now I'm 10lbs away from my ideal weight.
  • Optimistical1
    Optimistical1 Posts: 210 Member
    Soccer injury(immobility) + happy hours + Chinese takeout + midnight pizza delivery + stressful life event (happy hours turn to evening hours on daily basis) + even more midnight pizza delivery (the beer munchies) =35 extra pounds in 2 years :-(.
  • markiend
    markiend Posts: 461 Member
    ate the same amount but sat around too much
  • NikiChicken
    NikiChicken Posts: 576 Member
    Many reasons, but the biggest was probably because I just gave up.

    I was always overweight - from the time I was a very small child - and I just kept getting more and more overweight/obese as I aged. I had tried to lose weight many times and had limited success, but I never really learned that you don't have to quit eating all your favorite foods and exercise like crazy to be successful, so I would crash diet, lose 10, 20 even 50 pounds, then burn out and gain everything, plus more, back. I had gotten to the point where I had convinced myself that that it was just how my body was and there was no point trying to change it and once I got to that point, it was easy to just keep gaining.

    I never had a real "Ah Ha" moment to start my weight loss though. One day, I started planning a vacation that was going to require a lot of walking and I realized I couldn't walk a block without being in pain and out of breath. I decided to start walking every day at lunch until my vacation so I could at least maybe enjoy the vacation. I started walking every day and after about a week of that, I decided that since I was walking, maybe I should track my food intake as well and just pay attention to actual portion sizes and how much I was eating. After I lost 20 pounds doing that, THAT is when it dawned on me that I could change things without making myself completely miserable.
  • MrsSylvie
    MrsSylvie Posts: 301 Member
    up till around july of this year, i basically blamed my gaining weight the last few years on my not very active lifestyle, my food choices and eating one big meal instead of eating more regularly throughout the day.....turns out the major culprit was the 870 calories i was consuming everyday just with my must have four big mugs of sugared milk coffee!
    it was really an eye opener for not once did i ever consider my coffee drinking as the reason for my weight gain. needless to say getting rid of my sugar coffee addiction and logging everything into mfp, has made it pretty easy to lose weight now.
  • rsclause
    rsclause Posts: 3,103 Member
    Beer, beer, too much fattening food, and did I mention beer?
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  • jbuzzed
    jbuzzed Posts: 10,172 Member
    Boredom and way too large portions.
  • klund13
    klund13 Posts: 98 Member
    Unfortunately my parents did not teach me good eating habits as a child. Then I became a teenage mother and wife which led to a bout of depression and me eating my feelings. Then I had 3 more children in a span of about 8 years. During that time I consumed way too much pizza, chinese food, and Dr. Pepper putting me about 80 pounds overweight. I have lost 40 so far, so I am halfway there!
  • RobynLB83
    RobynLB83 Posts: 626 Member
    Binge eating chocolate by the lb.