Pregnant and need support

Pinkahlicious

I was trying to lose weight, then things came up and we couldn't wait to get pregnant

So, here I am...overweight and pregnant. I am just starting my 21st week (half way done!) and I have already gained 12 pounds. The suggested weight gain for my BMI is 15-25 pounds total. I feel I will blast past that, since in my last pregnancy the last two months was when I gained the most.

Is anyone else in the same boat? Or has anyone else gone through this? Any tips? hints? I'd love some advice or a friend requests to help me stay on track. Thanks!

zoeysasha37

Hi, I remember when my doctor told me I should only gain 25 with my pregnancy. At that point I already gained 49. So yeah, I know the feeling.
But the good news is, your halfway there. When your beautiful baby is born, you can lose whatever you have gained .
I wouldn't advocate a low calorie diet for someone pregnant but I'm not a doctor. I would ask him if he has any knowledge about how many calories you should be consuming and see if he can help. I don't want to give you bad advice.
But here's my personal thoughts, again I'm not a doctor at all. I ate when I was hungry, and made good food choices mixed in with some treats as well . I still follow that same eating style to this day. ( moderation not deprivation) I thought it was more important to nourish my body and have a healthy baby so I didn't weigh myself anymore after I learned about how much I gained and asked my doctor not to tell me my weight unless he felt it was a problem.I weighed myself after giving birth 212, then a few weeks later 202. My son is 10 now. I weigh 135 lbs and lost all my weight by counting calories , eating the foods I love in moderation and using portion control. So you can do it also ! your half way there ! Best of luck to you !!

Pinkahlicious

Thanks! I know I'm looking at some hard work when I'm all healed up from my c-section with this one but it's worth it. I'm excited to finally be having another kid, we waited a long time for various reasons to have another so we just couldn't wait any longer when everything feel into place (except me losing weight before hand).

jbuzzed

With my second pregnancy I gained 18 lbs in the first 5 months and then never gained anymore. I exercised the whole pregnancy and ate whatever I liked. I remember freaking out because I kept gaining so much at each appointment but then I ended up not having to worry.

Pinkahlicious

I'm almost positive that that will not be the case with me. With my daughter I gained more in the last 2 months than I had gained before that. She was a huge baby 8lbs 14 oz, 22.5 inches long, plus I got +3 edema. The edema was what did me in.

I have my ultrasound tomorrow with my check up after, so I'll be asking about my weight.