Obese and in love

jackstxrdh

So somehow I have managed to weigh more now than when I was pregnant... 273.4 I remember when I got married to my ex I weighed 235. And when I was 20 and did the Atkins diet I remember the scale was said 200... But then like most diets, it ended and I gained it back plus.
Flash forward 14 years, I have two beautiful daughters 12, 10 years old, I'm 38 and now have a hot Perisian 30 year old Boyfiend since 1/2015... I really love him, not so much my body. I know he wants children. I would love to have one or two more babies. I need to get healthy so I can be pregnant safely. Plus I want to be healthy. I've bee. Obese now since Sophmore year of HS! I would love to see a thin sexier me. I know I have a pretty face, and would be beautiful thin! So I bought a Fitbit charge HR yesterday. And I am going to try Fitness pal first before I do weight watchers just from a budgeting standpoint.

thegreatcanook

Stick with FREE support. This app and community helped me lose 110 lbs. You can do this! Add me for support!

jennifer_417

Post pics of the hot Persian!

Also, welcome! It sounds like you're in a good place!

cndkendrick

I am also a hot persian ) look at my pic.
j/k dont look at my pic.
Girl, do what is best for YOU. Knowing the Iranian people, please don't take any crap from your new "hot persian" about your body. I am not trying to assume anything, and I know being overweight/obese is very difficult in the Iranian community, but I know the pressure one can face. Please do what makes YOU happy and healthy.

zoeysasha37

Make sure your doing this for you.
And be sure to do this safely and responsible. ( fast weight loss can lead to saggy droopy skin anyway and that's not attractive) eat at a reasonable yet responsible deficit and remember slow and steady wins the race.
Start a strength training program ( so you'll have a tight hot body, not saggy and loose ) and remember that weight loss is about the calories . cico !
Best of luck to you!

jackstxrdh

Thanks guys! He has said he likes my curves. And he is American Persian, and loves that I am who I am. I just want to feel good about myself and know that I am healthy enough to have more children.
Ps... Here's a pic of my honey as requested