#WeighThis (video)

I saw this in an online Survey I was taking this morning. I liked the message so much that I looked around to see if I could find it to share here. Well I did find it, so here it is:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h1I_hFwzOYA&noredirect=1

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  • ebouchie
    ebouchie Posts: 124 Member
    Beautiful! thanks for sharing
  • AJ_G
    AJ_G Posts: 4,158 Member
    I'm sorry, but that video is ridiculous...
  • siluridae
    siluridae Posts: 188 Member
    This is awful.
  • AJ_G
    AJ_G Posts: 4,158 Member
    The message I took away was "ignore what you don't like, don't address problems".
  • Qskim
    Qskim Posts: 1,145 Member
    I think it's lovely as far as those kinds of ads go. Some women would find it inspiring.
  • Karen_can_do_this
    Karen_can_do_this Posts: 1,150 Member
    It's a lovely message. But for those of us that are trying to lose weight it kind of sucks
    I do find it rather ironic that it's made by lean cuisine
    Thanks for sharing op
  • wilsoncl6
    wilsoncl6 Posts: 1,280 Member
    Does being healthy not matter? I'm not getting the message.
  • Qskim
    Qskim Posts: 1,145 Member
    AJ_G wrote: »
    The message I took away was "ignore what you don't like, don't address problems".

    Yeh I hear you but for me realising I had success in my life that I should be proud of became key to me losing. If I could achieve over there, no reason I couldn't over here. I just had to apply the same processes.
  • AJ_G
    AJ_G Posts: 4,158 Member
    _SKIM_ wrote: »
    AJ_G wrote: »
    The message I took away was "ignore what you don't like, don't address problems".

    Yeh I hear you but for me realising I had success in my life that I should be proud of became key to me losing. If I could achieve over there, no reason I couldn't over here. I just had to apply the same processes.

    Yea I understand that, and I'm not saying those who are overweight shouldn't have areas of their life that they are happy with, BUT, they also are pushing the weight doesn't matter agenda in the video, and that's just a rejection of reality.
  • Qskim
    Qskim Posts: 1,145 Member
    AJ_G wrote: »
    _SKIM_ wrote: »
    AJ_G wrote: »
    The message I took away was "ignore what you don't like, don't address problems".

    Yeh I hear you but for me realising I had success in my life that I should be proud of became key to me losing. If I could achieve over there, no reason I couldn't over here. I just had to apply the same processes.

    Yea I understand that, and I'm not saying those who are overweight shouldn't have areas of their life that they are happy with, BUT, they also are pushing the weight doesn't matter agenda in the video, and that's just a rejection of reality.

    Well it's odd as @mrsfitzyv8 said that it's a weight loss ad but I kinda understand it in a reverse psychology way which I'm not sure I could get across well lol.
  • Jruzer
    Jruzer Posts: 3,501 Member
    I'm not the target audience. And good thing, too, because I find it sentimental and cloying. Other people I know - ahem - might like it.

    I'm cynical about these kinds of things. Nestle doesn't necessarily want you to feel good about yourself. Nestle wants you to buy more Lean Cuisine.
  • siluridae
    siluridae Posts: 188 Member
    Jruzer wrote: »
    I'm not the target audience. And good thing, too, because I find it sentimental and cloying. Other people I know - ahem - might like it.

    I'm cynical about these kinds of things. Nestle doesn't necessarily want you to feel good about yourself. Nestle wants you to buy more Lean Cuisine.

    And if body acceptance wasn't fashionable right now, they'd be calling everyone Fatty McFat Fatterson III. in order to make them buy their Lean Cuisine. Bleh.
  • DorisIsDoingIt
    DorisIsDoingIt Posts: 19 Member
    Firstly, thank you for sharing :)

    I must say, watching a video with the message, what you weigh physically doesn't matter! Why, who you are, what you've achieved and what you believe in matters (But buy our weight loss product because, well, it kinda does matter) is weird you have to admit?

    It is Nestle after all. The company is known for it dubious (and the case of baby formula, downright shameful) marketing.
  • girlviernes
    girlviernes Posts: 2,402 Member
    edited November 2015
    I like the ad and the sentiment, totally agree that womens' worth is not defined by the scale - to me, that's what this ad is addressing. However... come on lean cuisine. You market microwave meals that are 250-300 calories. You aren't about female empowerment. Know your lane. It's annoying when diet companies co-opt this messaging for marketing purposes.
  • Qskim
    Qskim Posts: 1,145 Member
    edited November 2015
    I like the ad and the sentiment, totally agree that womens' worth is not defined by the scale - to me, that's what this ad is addressing. However... come on lean cuisine. You market microwave meals that are 250-300 calories. You aren't about female empowerment. Know your lane. It's annoying when diet companies co-opt this messaging for marketing purposes.

    Agree. That's the only thing that bothers me.

    I'm a-hem past the stage I need this type of message. :#

  • AspenDan
    AspenDan Posts: 703 Member
    I dunno...I kinda there had been sone dudes in the commercial...sometimes I feel like literally everything weight loss is geared to women....as if somehow, the wish to be healthier is a feminine trait?
  • shadow2soul
    shadow2soul Posts: 7,692 Member
    AJ_G wrote: »
    The message I took away was "ignore what you don't like, don't address problems".

    That's not what I took away from it. I took it as don't let the number on the scale define you. That there is more to you than that number. I see it here all the time were people see the number on the scale and it effects how they feel about themselves. Feeling negative about yourself because of a number on a scale doesn't always result in a person making positive changes.
    I know when I felt the worst about myself, that was when I had the most trouble losing weight and was gaining even though I wanted to lose. For me finding that something that made me proud of myself (even if I didn't like the number on the scale) was something I had to do before I was able to make the changes I needed to make to lose weight.
  • shadow2soul
    shadow2soul Posts: 7,692 Member
    Firstly, thank you for sharing :)

    I must say, watching a video with the message, what you weigh physically doesn't matter! Why, who you are, what you've achieved and what you believe in matters (But buy our weight loss product because, well, it kinda does matter) is weird you have to admit?

    It is Nestle after all. The company is known for it dubious (and the case of baby formula, downright shameful) marketing.

    Oh, I completely agree that it is a strange marketing move for them.
  • stevencloser
    stevencloser Posts: 8,911 Member
    125goals wrote: »
    wilsoncl6 wrote: »
    Does being healthy not matter? I'm not getting the message.


    I took it as ..we are more then our weight.



    Sure you are, but there's very good reasons to strive for a healthy weight. First and foremost being/staying, well, healthy.
  • Qskim
    Qskim Posts: 1,145 Member
    edited November 2015
    125goals wrote: »
    wilsoncl6 wrote: »
    Does being healthy not matter? I'm not getting the message.


    I took it as ..we are more then our weight.



    Sure you are, but there's very good reasons to strive for a healthy weight. First and foremost being/staying, well, healthy.

    Yes. I started to look at weight loss as being about better health (no counting cals, just better choices) to then be better able to do those things I was really passionate about and along the way I became equally passionate about good health.
  • AJ_G
    AJ_G Posts: 4,158 Member
    edited November 2015
    AJ_G wrote: »
    The message I took away was "ignore what you don't like, don't address problems".

    I took it as don't let the number on the scale define you. That there is more to you than that number.

    If someone thinks that their weight is the thing that defines them as a human, than that person is going to need a lot more than a feel good commercial to change that viewpoint. No your weight obviously doesn't define you, but your weight in comparison with your height, lean body mass, and body fat percentage are all good indicators of physical health. Your weight is absolutely the best tool to track changes in mass. It can be argued that attempting to diet without using a scale can absolutely be worse for you. I know that I've dieted in the past and was losing weight at a higher than optimal rate and the scale helped me see that so I ate more and corrected the problem. I'm just tired of this war against the scale, it is a tool, use it as such, stop demonizing it.
  • Merrysix
    Merrysix Posts: 336 Member
    Love it -- I find it much easier to stick to my diet macros and exercise plan when I feel inspired by my life and the lives of others -- particularly those who have it so much harder than me. For example, I found it very hard to have time to exercise when I was raising a small child, but women manage to do awesome things with small children. Many men don't get it because even if they help (a lot) most women bear the brunt of all the day to day organizing, etc. That being said funny who sponsors this. -- Lean Cuisine never works for me. Not enough food! I get hungry and overeat on other things. I feel best when I eat sufficient quantities of minimally processed foods (or no process)!
  • CoffeeNCardio
    CoffeeNCardio Posts: 1,847 Member
    "Um...... screw you Lean Cuisine/Nestle"

    was my take away from this video.

  • sheermomentum
    sheermomentum Posts: 827 Member
    I like the ad and the sentiment, totally agree that womens' worth is not defined by the scale - to me, that's what this ad is addressing. However... come on lean cuisine. You market microwave meals that are 250-300 calories. You aren't about female empowerment. Know your lane. It's annoying when diet companies co-opt this messaging for marketing purposes.

    I understand what you are saying, but empowered women with high self-esteem are more likely to take care of themselves, including managing their weight and health. Now, I personally would cook more than buying frozen meals, but many busy women who are dieting will buy them for the sake of convenience. So for those women and for the company, its a win-win to get this message home.
    For me finding that something that made me proud of myself (even if I didn't like the number on the scale) was something I had to do before I was able to make the changes I needed to make to lose weight.

    Bullseye.
  • Qskim
    Qskim Posts: 1,145 Member
    AJ_G wrote: »
    AJ_G wrote: »
    The message I took away was "ignore what you don't like, don't address problems".

    I took it as don't let the number on the scale define you. That there is more to you than that number.

    If someone thinks that their weight is the thing that defines them as a human, than that person is going to need a lot more than a feel good commercial to change that viewpoint. No your weight obviously doesn't define you, but your weight in comparison with your height, lean body mass, and body fat percentage are all good indicators of physical health. Your weight is absolutely the best tool to track changes in mass. It can be argued that attempting to diet without using a scale can absolutely be worse for you. I know that I've dieted in the past and was losing weight at a higher than optimal rate and the scale helped me see that so I ate more and corrected the problem. I'm just tired of this war against the scale, it is a tool, use it as such, stop demonizing it.

    Ah I see where you're coming from. Ok the scale had less demonic value lol when I stopped looking at it as my sole source of worth but we're friends now regardless of what it spits out.
  • Protranser
    Protranser Posts: 517 Member
    125goals wrote: »
    125goals wrote: »
    wilsoncl6 wrote: »
    Does being healthy not matter? I'm not getting the message.


    I took it as ..we are more then our weight.



    Sure you are, but there's very good reasons to strive for a healthy weight. First and foremost being/staying, well, healthy.

    Agree. But some people think that the way you look is everything, it becomes a sick obsession. They let their worth be defined by their weight.

    Well, there is some evidence that people who are described as attractive by others have different experiences with employment and discrimination, social functioning, and self esteem...
  • Lourdesong
    Lourdesong Posts: 1,492 Member
    I thought the ad was decent. Kind of a good reminder to keep perspective. The women all looked like deer in the headlights at the sight of this big scale, and I'm not sure if that was because they were afraid of the truth of the scale or were afraid of being judged by others (the crew? us?) if they were forced to be weighed. The latter seems more like what was going on. Because even if we know on an intellectual level that our worth isn't defined by the number on the scale, I think I would still worry (as I suspect the ladies in the video might have) that others would determine my worth in this quantifiable way and judge me or rank me based on that, like "she's better than these women, but not as good as these other women." "Better" meaning "lighter", and "not as good" meaning "heavier".
  • CoffeeNCardio
    CoffeeNCardio Posts: 1,847 Member
    125goals wrote: »
    Protranser wrote: »
    125goals wrote: »
    125goals wrote: »
    wilsoncl6 wrote: »
    Does being healthy not matter? I'm not getting the message.


    I took it as ..we are more then our weight.



    Sure you are, but there's very good reasons to strive for a healthy weight. First and foremost being/staying, well, healthy.

    Agree. But some people think that the way you look is everything, it becomes a sick obsession. They let their worth be defined by their weight.

    Well, there is some evidence that people who are described as attractive by others have different experiences with employment and discrimination, social functioning, and self esteem...

    Sorry I have a flu and I can't think too clearly so I'm failing to see your point, please explain?

    Perhaps that it doesn't have to be either or? I want everyone to be healthy/want to be healthy and being overweight is just unhealthy, no argument there. But I also want a world without suicidal 12 year old kids who have been bullied because they're fat and statistics that show overweight women in particular make less money than their thinner coworkers while overweight men actually make more than their thinner peers (I point this out because of the focus on women in the video, not because men who are overweight don't have their share of challenges in the world).

    I don't understand why it can't be both. No, it's not okay to just go "oh yeah I'm sure you're immune to heart attacks, feel free to keep eating at an absurd overage". No it's not okay that overweight people experience shaming, mistreatment, and often cruel judgment on a daily basis.

    Both things are true. And WE can engage in both good behaviors: we can trample the hell out of anyone who body shames and we can dismantle and eliminate the excuses people use to stay overweight. It doesn't have to be black and white, and from a perspective of taking responsibility for the well being of our fellow man, it shouldn't be. (this isn't necessarily directed at you 125goals, your comment just provided a springboard for my thought :) )
  • Protranser
    Protranser Posts: 517 Member
    You were talking about defining worth by weight. I am suggesting there is some truth that a person's perceived "worthiness" is reconciled with the perception of worth that is reflected to them by their peers.

    I can run around thinking I'm a perfect "10" all i want, but if everyone else perceives me a "5", i will only be taken as seriously as a "5". Weight changes a 5, closer to 10 if the person has a healthy physique, and downwards to a 1 if the person has completely abandoned their health.
    125goals wrote: »
    Protranser wrote: »
    125goals wrote: »
    125goals wrote: »
    wilsoncl6 wrote: »
    Does being healthy not matter? I'm not getting the message.


    I took it as ..we are more then our weight.



    Sure you are, but there's very good reasons to strive for a healthy weight. First and foremost being/staying, well, healthy.

    Agree. But some people think that the way you look is everything, it becomes a sick obsession. They let their worth be defined by their weight.

    Well, there is some evidence that people who are described as attractive by others have different experiences with employment and discrimination, social functioning, and self esteem...

    Sorry I have a flu and I can't think too clearly so I'm failing to see your point, please explain?