Who am I really doing this for?

saun86

I just decided its time to take care of my body I'll be 30 in a few months. I have never really cared about myself but I really want to make a change. Part of Me feels like I'll attract more men be like more given time of day but the other half wants to be healthy because I feel like crap all the time. So I really don't know is this for me or for others

3dogsrunning

WNB?

It doesn't have to be one of the other. There can be any number of reasons to do this.

Iguessicandothis

We're social creatures. Which means that every decision we make is a messy mixture of pleasing ourselves and others. When we say, "I want to look good for myself" how do we determine what looks "good"? Isn't it based on every image we've seen, every person we've met and admired?
If we say "It's for my health". Isn't it really, at least partly, so we can continue enjoying relationships with family and friends for a long time and in a meaningful way?
Don't worry about the why. What matters is that you're doing it!