Losing Weight AND feeding the family

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  • IdLikeToLoseItLoseIt
    IdLikeToLoseItLoseIt Posts: 695 Member
    cthakkar1985 wrote: »
    When I lived at home with my parents, my mom had a similar problem. She was a bit of a health nut, while me, my dad and 2 brothers just wanted some tasty food for dinner (as I've gotten older, I've gotten more health conscious). One trick that my mom learned was she would cook the entire meal in a healthy manner, take out her portion, and then add in all the other stuff that everyone else wanted. For example, if she was making pasta, she'd go easy on the salt/cheese etc. and take out how much ever she'd eat. Then she'd go in and add more salt/cheese/etc. for the rest of us. Didn't have to resort to cooking 2 meals and everybody was happy.

    That's a good tip!
  • callsitlikeiseeit
    callsitlikeiseeit Posts: 8,626 Member
    IdLikeToLoseItLoseIt wrote: »
    .... but my meal is going to be lettuce topped with tuna! I can only imagine the revolt that would take place if that's all I served the family.


    you do realize you can eat a whole lot more than that, right?



  • suzan06
    suzan06 Posts: 218 Member
    Similar issues here, with different dietary needs. My kids are younger (5 and 8) so they don't need tons of calories yet, but when they go through growth spurts, man, I can see it coming.

    We do a lot of combo meals where everyone can make what they want- like tacos. I have a taco salad, kids load up on cheese, we all add what we want. Also DH and I both will frequently fill half our plate with salad, and the kids want none.

    My 8 year old has become my crock pot assistant. Either the night before or in the morning before school, he reads the recipe and I double check as he adds things (we had a wee bit of a surprise about the amount of cinnamon he added when I told him to "sprinkle a little in"!). This allows me to do the other kitchen tasks like lunch packing and dishes while he puts together the meal. Then, boom, dinner is done! We mostly do soups in the crockpot- they tend to be lower calorie, and the kids add copious quantities of cheese to theirs, and have bread on the side!

    The other thing we sometimes do is cook one meal that I want on Monday, then I eat leftovers of it on Tuesday. On Tuesday, I cook a meal that H or the kids want, and they eat leftovers on Wed. On Wed, I cook for myself again. Etc.
  • IdLikeToLoseItLoseIt
    IdLikeToLoseItLoseIt Posts: 695 Member
    callsitlikeiseeit wrote: »
    IdLikeToLoseItLoseIt wrote: »
    .... but my meal is going to be lettuce topped with tuna! I can only imagine the revolt that would take place if that's all I served the family.


    you do realize you can eat a whole lot more than that, right?


    Not according to the website "Only Eat Tuna and Lettuce." It's my bible. They even allow water with lemon for dessert! It's divine, although I've developed this strange side effect of my hair falling out... but they swear it's temporary.
  • callsitlikeiseeit
    callsitlikeiseeit Posts: 8,626 Member
    IdLikeToLoseItLoseIt wrote: »
    callsitlikeiseeit wrote: »
    IdLikeToLoseItLoseIt wrote: »
    .... but my meal is going to be lettuce topped with tuna! I can only imagine the revolt that would take place if that's all I served the family.


    you do realize you can eat a whole lot more than that, right?


    Not according to the website "Only Eat Tuna and Lettuce." It's my bible. They even allow water with lemon for dessert! It's divine, although I've developed this strange side effect of my hair falling out... but they swear it's temporary.

    sounds great
  • heatherlewisis
    heatherlewisis Posts: 118 Member
    edited January 2016
    I agree with those who said just eat smaller portions of whatever you make for the family... I made pizza last night, but just had 1 and a half slices instead of 3 like everyone else, and I also put my recipe into the recipe builder so I knew how many calories I'd be eating... Tonight I made a huge pot of chicken tortilla soup and did the same... The kids all could have unlimited soup, I had a cup and a half... This wouldn't be sustainable for me if I had to eat "diet food" and could never live a normal life.
  • ahoy_m8
    ahoy_m8 Posts: 3,053 Member
    Would it work for you to substitute out the calorie dense starch you serve them (pasta, rice, potato, bread, tortilla) for spinach or another quick easy vegetable? I love spinach, so it works for me. Same meal otherwise, using recipe builder to track.
  • youngmomtaz
    youngmomtaz Posts: 1,075 Member
    Roasted meats are he base of many of my meals. East to add to. A side or two of veggies, a side of pasta/rice/potatoes and maybe a green salad make up tons of meals around here. Leftovers get turned into stir-fries, wrapped in rice wrappers and baked, eaten on sandwiches, etc. my fridge is always stocked with leftover cooked meat, eggs, cut veggies, and various leftovers. Many hints can be added to an omlet, or reheated on their own for quick meals when you are short on time. I tend to cook big so we have leftovers on purpose. Makes cooking many days of the week much easier.

    I just choose my portions based on my calorie and macro goals. My family chooses portions that satisfy them. Many days my 15yo eats 3 times what I eat and sometimes he chooses to fill up on items I limit. Depending on my breakfast and lunch choices, some days I have room for rice and others I eat protein and veg for my meal. Some days I want dessert badly and will plan a whole day around the brownie/ice cream/slice of pie. Do what works best for you but try not to stress. Stock your kitchen well and you should be set.
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