Birthday - Dumped - Struggling not to eat my feelings

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  • angelamichelle_xo
    angelamichelle_xo Posts: 646 Member
    he obv wasnt good enough for you, bebi. what a loser. move on. go out. have fun. ♡♡
  • paulandrachelk
    paulandrachelk Posts: 280 Member
    Did he know it was your birthday?
  • lululapagaille
    lululapagaille Posts: 84 Member
    Did he know it was your birthday?

    Didn't read the OP ?!
    OP, I wish you a happy birthday. Hope you enjoy your meal with your family :)
  • angelamy1977
    angelamy1977 Posts: 24 Member
    Did he know it was your birthday?

    Yes- because the text started off wishing me happy birthday :(
  • MEat40forge
    MEat40forge Posts: 106 Member
    Well, you will do better. His loss. Happy bday.
  • ElJefeChief
    ElJefeChief Posts: 650 Member
    I cannot understand the mentality of breaking up via text. Totally a dick move. Obviously, it hurts, but seriously - there is no way that does anything but indicate how much better you are without such a *kitten*, and I am not saying that just to make you feel better.
  • RoxieDawn
    RoxieDawn Posts: 15,488 Member
    Happy Birthday...girl..

    Texting sure has taken all the personal out breaking up in person or at least by phone.. IMHO he is a wuss.

    Go out and cut loose on YOUR DAY...This is YOUR DAY and do not give him your power.

    You know what, by experience, he is NOT the one and there is a lot BETTER one coming in your future!!!

    Go Celebrate with your friends.. They want to be with you.. :):):)
  • ElizabethOakes2
    ElizabethOakes2 Posts: 1,038 Member
    Agreed! If he broke up with you in a text, he's totally not worth your time!

    Does your gym have punching bags? Print out his picture, tape it the bag, and get a good workout kicking his stupid face! ;) And then have a great birthday without him. (Cake is dangerous if the whole thing is around, but maybe treat yourself to a nice cupcake instead?)
  • woznube7
    woznube7 Posts: 537 Member
    First off, Happy Birthday!

    Second off, OUCH. I don't think i'll ever understand why people do that. He obviously can't handle your awesomeness. It is clearly him, not you!

    Hope your day has gotten better! :) Cheers to a fresh start.
  • srv524
    srv524 Posts: 1,363 Member
    Come over and let's watch some Golden Girls while eating ice cream and cuddling up with my 3 cats (my gf won't mind).
  • Larissa_NY
    Larissa_NY Posts: 495 Member
    I vote boxing workout and THEN cake and rum, while celebrating your awesome luck in finding out what a dirtbag he is and not wasting another minute of your life on him.
  • srv524
    srv524 Posts: 1,363 Member
    @Larissa_NY I like the way you think
  • angelamy1977
    angelamy1977 Posts: 24 Member
    srv524 wrote: »
    @Larissa_NY I like the way you think

    I second that LOL