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shrinkingtina
shrinkingtina Posts: 686 Member
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Does anyone else find it super annoying when a member just disappears? Does that even happen to anyone else? Well, it happened to me. We messaged and were motivating, and then POOF! Gone! No more profile, no goodbye, nothing. I thought this was a place to make friends that also wanted to better themselves?! Thanks for "motivating" and then vanishing, EnduringEducator....
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  • darylarguelles
    darylarguelles Posts: 961 Member
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    Yea, people come and go, but most pf the good ones stay
  • _incogNEATo_
    _incogNEATo_ Posts: 4,543 Member
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    They were probably married and cheating on their spouse with somebody else on here. Happens all the time.
  • shrinkingtina
    shrinkingtina Posts: 686 Member
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    This was the 1st time this has happened to me. Odd... I guess I just assume if they can't chat anymore (wife, life, whatever) then all they'd need to do is say something.
    Sad day....*kicks rocks
  • shrinkingtina
    shrinkingtina Posts: 686 Member
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    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    They were probably married and cheating on their spouse with somebody else on here. Happens all the time.

    Whaaat?!
  • DaddieCat
    DaddieCat Posts: 3,646 Member
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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tH2w6Oxx0kQ
  • shrinkingtina
    shrinkingtina Posts: 686 Member
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    newmeadow wrote: »
    Can't see 'em, can't hear 'em, can't smell 'em, can't reach out and touch 'em? Till then they don't exist. They're just words on a screen and they see you the same way. Easy come, easy go - sorry :frowning:

    Ugh....I don't see anything that way. Guess I'll keep moping.
  • pie_eyes
    pie_eyes Posts: 12,965 Member
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    maybe they were trying to get info off you to sell your info?

    who knows
  • shrinkingtina
    shrinkingtina Posts: 686 Member
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    Good luck with that. I'll send them the login to payoff my student loans, all they had to do was ask.
  • upoffthemat
    upoffthemat Posts: 679 Member
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    I think that is why we all need a few friends and still have to be doing this for ourselves ultimately. Friends help, but we have to do it for ourselves.
  • shrinkingtina
    shrinkingtina Posts: 686 Member
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    I love that! I totally am doing this for me. But, it just sucks when you think you connect with someone trying to attain a goal and then you're wondering if they've been abducted by aliens.
  • DaddieCat
    DaddieCat Posts: 3,646 Member
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    newmeadow wrote: »
    BecomingBane wrote: »
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tH2w6Oxx0kQ

    Thank you for this. Somebody bring back the crooners of the 70s with their chunky sterling silver jewelry, all natural hairdos, snug polyester outfits, Malibu suntans, cowboy boots, acoustic guitars and surgically uncorrected noses. Deep nostalgic sigh.


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  • Hey_Its_That_One_Guy
    Hey_Its_That_One_Guy Posts: 21,768 Member
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    I thought this thread was going to be about something else...

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=byDiILrNbM4
  • shrinkingtina
    shrinkingtina Posts: 686 Member
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    OMG I'm wearing snug polyester with my cowgirl boots right now!
  • shrinkingtina
    shrinkingtina Posts: 686 Member
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    Hey_Its_That_One_Guy wrote: »
    I thought this thread was going to be about something else...

    I should hope that member doesn't disappear!
  • xxghost
    xxghost Posts: 4,697 Member
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    It generally doesn't bother me too much. People make accounts here because they think that it will help them. But if that need changes, and they decide they need something else, that's fine too. Whatever works.
  • StrongLife
    StrongLife Posts: 525 Member
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    shrinkingtina wrote: »
    Hey_Its_That_One_Guy wrote: »
    I thought this thread was going to be about something else...

    I should hope that member doesn't disappear!

    Chuckle...
  • Espresso345
    Espresso345 Posts: 42 Member
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    Yep. I keep losing people, too. One hopes they lost the weight and kept it off.... and that's why they haven't been back?
  • shrinkingtina
    shrinkingtina Posts: 686 Member
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    Sounds positive. I like it. Here's hoping they achieved their goal :smiley:
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,369 Member
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    It's the hotel California. They leave but always come back.
  • Hey_Its_That_One_Guy
    Hey_Its_That_One_Guy Posts: 21,768 Member
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    Actually if it was the Hotel California, they could check out anytime they like but they could never leave.

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